Originally posted by: anjubala
Aditi, why are we thinking that she sold DV? She did not...Has she cashed the cheque? And she will never cash it. She faked it so that DV could believe and leave her. She just gave away son to a mom nothing else. There are all kinds of people and different ways of handling things. Maybe it is right for many and wrong for others. There is no right or wrong way when you are in love. For girls or people lke Saachi and her personality, love means giving away but for millions others it means taking...Many will say why this sacrifice etc but people who are that type will consider it as right. I am of Saachi's belief that we cannot start our happy home or family by breaking somebody else's home or family.
Saachi has lost her parents at such a tender age and she knows what it is to lose parents. Then how can she do the same with DV? How can she take away his family from him? I do not think so she ever thought that the reaction will be this tough and extreme when she confessed her love during Diwali as that time she did not know that DV belonged to ultra rich family. If it was a middle class family then it would have been still ok and family would have agreed but these super rich families are not going to accept this relationship that easily. The day she realised that DV's side is very different from hers in the MM party, she fought with her fears, insecurities and told the same to DV too. I think she got some idea that time that it is not going to be easy but still she was not prepared for this kind of emotional atyachar from his mom. She said NO to Mr. Goel as he dealt with her with money. She is not after money so it was easy for her to claim her love and DV but when it came to emotions, family and mom love..she lost. She is that kind of soul. And I see no harm in being like that. Just my POV.
And this 25 crore cheque will bring in other twist in life of Saachi as per precap. Pradeep, Prachi are there to ask their share. Saachi will refuse and I am sure Pradeep will steal it again as he did with papers and cash it. This will result into more misunderstandings etc... I hope not...but not sure.
ok...she didnt encash the cheque and i am sure she wont...ok call it a sell off or sacrifice watever...i can also understand many girls especially those who r so tied to their families will consider family first and so can easily sacrifice love for family...
that is wat i dont understand at all...i mean not talking about saachi but everywhere in other shows or real life wen ppl sacrifice love...it is not just an emotion...it is sacrificing one person here DV...here saachi is not only sacrificing her own dreams and own love...but also she is breaking someone's heart...
anju...its a show and DV will either take revenge or will move on or else they will be united in the end...
but in real life i know someone who was rejected by a girl because of family disagreements...and next week he consumed poison...he is fine now but he has lost his voice...he cud easily die...i am not saying he did the rite thing...because suicide under any circumstance is a cowardly act...but my point is that sacrifice which is so right in saachi's perspective can have horrendous outcome if DV kills himself...ok lets not talk about suicide...wat if DV loses trust in love...wat if he becomes a bitter person all his life...wat he goes out to take revenge on saachi and by hook or crook takes away her farm...then again many of us will criticize him...but all these will only be his reaction and not something that is part of his nature...wat if DV remains bitter all his life and never gets married to anyone else...i mean i know this is a show...
but in general i am speaking that sacrifice can hv many bad outcomes in the other person's life...so i can never support sacrificing...love is mutual so any decision shud be mutual...like DV said they both were in relationship then how cud she alone decide to break off...
wat she shud hv done is wen DV's mom said those things she shud hv gone to DV and said unless and until both families agree she will not marry him...even if they will not get married for life still both family hv to agree first...this way DV wud hv got the chance to convince his family and if he fails then he wud decide wat to do...to wait for saachi all his life or whether to move on...this way saachi wud hv remained true to her principles and at the same time wud not hv to break DV's trust...
even this i know...my own maasi cud not get married to someone she loved in her younger days...families did not agree...so they both discussed and decided to wait a few years...even then wen noone agreed they both got married to other partners...i dont know about that person now but my maasi is very happy in her married life with 2 daughters...so this way it was mutual decision to wait and then to separate...
but ok this is a show and TRP game...but that doesnt change my opinion on sacrifice...so i can never support saachi...
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