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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee


Hmmm...maybe you are right...I got too influenced thinking that a friend is insulted...but no her behaviour was not justified.

yup vinee...if she wud hv been actually helping DV to come out of dis heartbreak..toh thik tha
but she was trying to get more physical 🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee


Hmmm...ye post meine sirf use as a friend sochkar banaya hai...
I just felt bad that DV insulted a friend.
I was just putting myself in her situation...how hurt I would have felt if my friend who is heartbroken yells at me.
Believe me meine Anky ke mannerisms ko side karke sirf use friend rakhkar socha.

But I know Anky is not like a good friend...I should not think like this.



Yes, Vinee she is not a true friend. Friends selfless hote hae. She is there to get back DV because he is a very very rich man. Hasil karna pyar nehi hote aur dosti me paise ki baat nehi aate.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hasil karna pyar nehi hote aur dosti me paise ki baat nehi aate.
...vaah koyel kya baat boli hain...100% agree ..PYAR or DOSTI mein jo Hasil aur Paise laate hain ...naa toh woh achha premi hain aur na hi accha dost...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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she was good frnd till she was stopping him frm drinking..otherwise the cheap word she used for sanchi was untoreable n dv did good job by blasting on her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

I am also happy like most of you today that everybody's predictions rather fears that DV se shayad control nahin hoga when he will imagine Saachi instead of Anky and we will have a Nahiiinnn.

Glad it didn't happen instead Anky had to bear DV's blasting. He was somewhere very rude with a friend.

Ok agreed Ankita has malicious intentions therefore we don't like her...but DV doesn't know her intentions yet then why this gussa?

If I was a genuine friend wouldn't I had cared for my best friend and asked him not to drink too much.

Ankita despite being a puppet at Suparna's hand was still trying to help DV out of this mess he was into. Any friend would not use good words for the girl who has hurt her friend.

I saw Ankita showing innocence and feelings today. She is afterall not that bad and was more of Chandramukhi kind tending to Devdas DV.

When DV blasted her she was so stunned and hurt. She to me wasn't looking that high headed or selfish to me as she has been potrayed so far. She also is human and has emotions and has genuine concern of friend also. Though she is selfish too but I guess in the end she will not act as Suparna's puppet.

I may be killed but still mustering courage to say that DV's behaviour towards her was very unacceptable . He should have chosen mellowed words and presently he was acting more selfish, not able to balance other relations. If Saachi has left him, it's not something which he should put on others. That day he was rude to his mother also.

I like DV a lot but I can't approve of his behaviour towards two caring women. Of his life. We know that both ditched him in a way but when DV doesn't know then his behaviour I see as his general behaviour towards others. His caring and helping nature is towards Saachi and her family...then what about his own family.



oh come on vinee...this is not the time to judge how DV is behaving with her so called best friend...a friend who laughs off his pain...a friend who always crawls on him even wen he is pushing her away...
but nywyz coming to wat i was saying...DV is in no state to behave soberly with anyone...wen anky said dont drink so much u will die...DV said i am dead...so DV is so heartbroken that he doesnt know wat he is doing and saying...but still in this state he later on said sorry to anky and to make her happy went with her to the disc...

DV is in a very bad condition...he has lost trust on love...his feelings has been sold by saachi...it is natural that he will be rude with everyone...we all know he is such a sweet character...lekin aise haalat me bhi agar aadmi doesnt lose his control and misbehaves with ppl then he shud be a saint...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: adoremevirgo



oh come on vinee...this is not the time to judge how DV is behaving with her so called best friend...a friend who laughs off his pain...a friend who always crawls on him even wen he is pushing her away...
but nywyz coming to wat i was saying...DV is in no state to behave soberly with anyone...wen anky said dont drink so much u will die...DV said i am dead...so DV is so heartbroken that he doesnt know wat he is doing and saying...but still in this state he later on said sorry to anky and to make her happy went with her to the disc...

DV is in a very bad condition...he has lost trust on love...his feelings has been sold by saachi...it is natural that he will be rude with everyone...we all know he is such a sweet character...lekin aise haalat me bhi agar aadmi doesnt lose his control and misbehaves with ppl then he shud be a saint...


But DV is not in a situation which no one has ever seen...it's something we have seen either in our own life or in lives of our close ones...ie one partner either too weak or betraying the other.
People break down also but how many show it so openly to the family and near ones...I agree DV is not in his senses but frankly such behaviour I am seeing post Devdas movie only. Others I have seen and known have kept this hurt to themselves or expressed it only infront of close friends like sharing their grief and mostly bashed by the friends for this grief and urged by them to come out.
If some girl is not showing loyalty to you better back off.

Agreed Ankita has malicious intentions and she is doing too much of chipkoing and DV doesn't likes it...but DV shouted on her when she was taking the bottle away from him, if I correctly remember and that was something which she was doing for his good as he was drinking too much.

I don't say that he should have done all that she was saying but shunning her like an outsider was also too much...I am saying this considering that DV doesn't knows her fancy or malice towards him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee


But DV is not in a situation which no one has ever seen...it's something we have seen either in our own life or in lives of our close ones...ie one partner either too weak or betraying the other.
People break down also but how many show it so openly to the family and near ones...I agree DV is not in his senses but frankly such behaviour I am seeing post Devdas movie only. Others I have seen and known have kept this hurt to themselves or expressed it only infront of close friends like sharing their grief and mostly bashed by the friends for this grief and urged by them to come out.
If some girl is not showing loyalty to you better back off.

Agreed Ankita has malicious intentions and she is doing too much of chipkoing and DV doesn't likes it...but DV shouted on her when she was taking the bottle away from him, if I correctly remember and that was something which she was doing for his good as he was drinking too much.

I don't say that he should have done all that she was saying but shunning her like an outsider was also too much...I am saying this considering that DV doesn't knows her fancy or malice towards him.



yes DV is in a situation which many ppl has been in...but it is wrong to compare one with the other...because different ppl react differently...strong ppl move on very quickly after getting hurt...but emotional guys like DV may take a lot of time to recover...

and come on vinee...we all know how ppl react differently...students committing suicide because they failed in exams is such a common thing...but then i know so many others who hv failed but they just worked harder next time...

and its easy to say to back off if someone deceived u...wen someone is deeply in love it takes years sometime entire life to recover...failed relationship ke baad jaise log suicide karte hai waise others move on too...so it is not at all fair to compare one person with the other...

and frankly if my "best" friend crawls on me i may end up slapping and not just rude...secondly DV is in such a state he cannot stay away from drink...it is ok that anky is telling him not to drink...but wen DV so desperately wants to drink it is obvious he will shout with her...
and if ankita is truly his best friend then this kind of behavior is normal...best friends r those ppl with whom we can be ourselves...at lowest phase of time it is natural that we will be rude and if best friends dont tolerate that rudeness then watz the difference between a best friend and an acquaintance...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: koyelbasu

My idea of true friend is really different. I am sorry. Anki DV ko hasil karna chahti hae. thats all. Viswas was acting as a true friend & he knows her intentions & So, Anki was not liking him to talk to DV.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am also happy like most of you today that everybody's predictions rather fears that DV se shayad control nahin hoga when he will imagine Saachi instead of Anky and we will have a Nahiiinnn.
Glad it didn't happen instead Anky had to bear DV's blasting. He was somewhere very rude with a friend.

Ok agreed Ankita has malicious intentions therefore we don't like her...but DV doesn't know her intentions yet then why this gussa?

If I was a genuine friend wouldn't I had cared for my best friend and asked him not to drink too much.

Ankita despite being a puppet at Suparna's hand was still trying to help DV out of this mess he was into. Any friend would not use good words for the girl who has hurt her friend.

I saw Ankita showing innocence and feelings today. She is afterall not that bad and was more of Chandramukhi kind tending to Devdas DV.

When DV blasted her she was so stunned and hurt. She to me wasn't looking that high headed or selfish to me as she has been potrayed so far. She also is human and has emotions and has genuine concern of friend also. Though she is selfish too but I guess in the end she will not act as Suparna's puppet.

I may be killed but still mustering courage to say that DV's behaviour towards her was very unacceptable . He should have chosen mellowed words and presently he was acting more selfish, not able to balance other relations. If Saachi has left him, it's not something which he should put on others. That day he was rude to his mother also.

I like DV a lot but I can't approve of his behaviour towards two caring women. Of his life. We know that both ditched him in a way but when DV doesn't know then his behaviour I see as his general behaviour towards others. His caring and helping nature is towards Saachi and her family...then what about his own family.

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Excellent post...according to me perfect perception...to hate Ankita is not to face the thruth,and to love DV is to ignore the thruth...
Observe Ankita's attitude:
She did not run to DV as soon as she heard about him...it is her sister's scheming which is making her do that...after the disco episode she looked like she was ready to give up...but her sister taught her to hang in there because DV is a v.good catch...an eligible bachelor so to speak...typical behavior of a sister already in the family, trying to get her sibling in the family...after all Goels are big...
And to be fair to her,it is technically true that Saachi has ditched DV( whatever her real motives ) and acted cheap...so if Ankita called her cheap,she was not wrong...
I feel ,yes Ankita must have had a very soft corner for DV ,but not love as Saachi thought...she is the women of the world...once back from panchgini ,she was involved with her life,did not bother DV...when she told Mrs.Goel that DV was living in poverty..she again was technically right...but did you notice she never said anything about Saachi ? By mentioning Saachi she could have messed things up for DV ...but she did not...she probably never gave a thought to DV...so I think if any development happens in their relation, it will be forced by her sister and his mom...I think there is some fairness in her which will come out once CVs let her find out Saachi's innocence somehow,and she is convinced of their ( Saachi and DV ) love for each other.
As far as DV is concerned , he is not selfish nor is he wrong in his behavior ...he is just true to character...he is simply faithful...we have heard him speak before..." Usne Jo kiya so kiya"...".mein aisa nahi karuga "...,"ya tum aisa nahi karo "...he always wanted to do the correct thing.
He does not know what part his mother has played in the break - up...but he knows she does not approve,so thus, she also is not a friend.
Ankita,his mother( because of his health ) and Dilz...combination of all or some will bring them together...I am sincerely hoping...
One of my predictions from my post dated 10th jan, is coming correct...that Praachi and Pradeep are asking for money...
Lighter note : read Hunar's( Ankita ) interview...she said that in real life if a guy rejected her and showed no interest , she would not run after him,but walk away...I hope she does that here.

These were just my observations

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Posted: 11 years ago
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As usual long and well written Jyoti. I have told you before that I love to read your thoughts and today was no exception. Only difference was that you are the first person today who found my thoughts little justified so thanks for that.
Now coming to the post...what you have written about Anky is my take too. I think she has her softer side too as DV brushed her off twice and both times she had tears in her eyes...bitchy girls...stone hearted girls...utter selfish girls would not have a faint heart to cry on harsh words...rather it would infuriate them.
So I somewhere still considered her as a friend while writing this . Ankita as a chipakali and a person who has malicious intent was not my agenda for this post. I was just trying to say that a friend deserves to be well treated coz DV still is unaware of her intentions.

DV is getting harsh on whoever is saying anything against Saachi. Earlier it was his mom who was saying that Saachi was not the right girl for you and today Ankita...so he is playing his love loyally towards Saachi.
What makes me call him as selfish is that whoever accepts what he wants is his friend and good words to him...who says anything against Saachiji has to face his wrath...this is not balanced. DV listened to naani and aaji and even did not misbehave with them when they were against their alliance so doesn't a mother who is also against this alliance deserves descent behaviour.
I am again repeating here DV doesn't know his mothers contribution in the breakup. I am just trying to understand DV here. So I see him all good towards those people who are closer to Saachi coz DV knows Saachi would never tolerate anyone disrespecting them but DV can disrespect his own people coz here Saachi is not involved.
This is what made me call him selfish coz he is different with his family and with Saachi's family.

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