Is Saachi really in love - Page 2

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

I have many points to prove otherwise

• DV persuaded Saachi to say that she loved DV, had left on her own she would have never felt anything for DV.
• Her attraction for DV was the outcome of DV persistence and affection which Saachi always lacked in her life.
• Saachi was made to believe that she is in love by DV and when she confessed it was because of his insistence where her mind got influenced and she thought she does but actually it was not.
• DV became satisfied that Saachi has confessed and never realised that he has made her speak out and she has not done it on her own.
• She flew in the air with DV as it was all happening for the first time in her life and anyone would feel the pleasure of being loved. It was a feeling of being loved that was making her happy and not that she loves someone.
• The first signs of this feeling not being love came out when Saachi removed the ring the very next day of wearing it when she was not being able to speak to grannys. DV had emotions attached to it, but Saachi had none. She didn't value it even in the beginning.
• The first signs of trouble came when their relationship was detected by Ulka and Saachi stopped taking DV's calls. Naani Aaji were yet to know.
• Then she did not even try to convince naani aaji and gave up on DV and returned him the ring.
• Saachi used to even look away whenever DV looked at her for support while fighting for their love alone.
• The next time Saachi showed fickleness was at the MM function. She left the place and made havoc out of DV's friendship with Ankita.
• Saachi kept asking DV to rethink on their relationship due to their cultural and status differences. She was bitter how Anky knows DV more than her. We called it her insecurity but it was lack of 100% from her side that she suspects DV to be the same. We always see us as a mirror in judging others.
• Saachi never made any effort to show DV that he matters to her and always considered her ego bigger. If Anky sat at the front seat, she did not feel the need to go to the movie just because DV was there and she could have went for him but she was so stubborn.
• Love sees no ego and Saachi has never been able to forget her ego. She does what she wants to do and never ever consults with DV.
• Saachi showed another sigh of fickleness when Ankita warned her about DV. She trusted her instead of DV whereas when in love trust comes automatically...but she doubted that DV would go. Again she compared his love with her love in subconscious mind and as she does not love DV, she thought the same for DV.
• She again went furious when she came to know about DV's connection with PE and broke off. How anything and everything becomes important for her but DV. Also she could not sense the uneasyness in DV and dozed off when he was speaking his mind to her. If she loved him, it should not have taken her time to grill DV and make him come out with the truth, but she simply could not see. Even Aaji noticed it but she didn't.
• The way she yelled at DV was so unlike a lover, not giving him any chance to explain.
• She went with DV but got uncomfortable at every level of meeting his parents and today when mother warned her against the displeasure in family and how she won't be accepted, she made up her mind of leaving DV yet again without even consulting him. She even didi not retaliate when DV's mom was raising her concerns and not even once tried to convince that she would adjust.

In my opinion whatever she has done so far only proves that she has not yet been able to love DV. She only went with the flow and when DV strongly made her feel that she is in love, she only believed that she is.

Today also she showed how Parents were everything to her, how she can relate to their loss but can't relate to the loss of a lover. That's why mommy used parents as her weapon and said that she would not want DV to lose his parents just as she lost hers. There she broke as she values them but not DV.

When she weighed love of parents to love of a lover, lover lost. So she has loved her farms, her family and her siblings but never DV. It's very apparent with the way she goes out of the way for them but as DV puts it only he gets her Royal treatment.

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Well said Adi...Saachi is yet to fall in love and I want Dils to make her realise that DV is not her love and make DV to realise that despite doing so much you could not create love in her. She cannot be made to love, if she loves on her own then she will come back to you and if she never comes then she Never loved you.

It will make DV know the truth as to how can he expect the woman to adjust with him or his family when she is not in love.

Then we might see love story staring afresh or he moves on in life of finds a suitable life partner for Saachi and settle her.

Where are all other friends? Did they all ike DV mom so much or started liking Saanchi's maturity??😃

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Yes...I also feel it's not love fully...she is still a step short...love is not like this be it in any age.

Originally posted by: aparna37

Agree

yup seroiusly ya to pagal hai or what
Is she thinking ?? Bechara dv

Nice post again vinee..I had thought of some of your points during initial stages of saruv romance ..whether she really loves dv

sorry gt late to reply... 😉
Thank you Vinnie for making this post 😭

I have been thinking this since the love story started...Sanchi never loved him...Chalo let's talk about girls in general...we all love affection; care...concern...attention...right...if someone does this fr u n also make his feelings clear at first place...toh its natural you may also fall for that person...after all...its a dream of every girl to find a partner like DV.

But here in Sanchi's case; DV falling in love with Sanchi was a natural process...bcz she was an ideal girl for him then...so it was pretty obvious that he fell in love with her persona n it was well justified...agree sanchi dint hv such feelings for him...but wen he made it clear n started doing everything for her to convince...then even if she wasnt in love bfr...she cud hv fallen fr him...so it was natural for Sanchi as well to fall in love with him.

But here the CVs lacked in showing the same passion in Sanchi's love...the passion that we see in DV's love for sanchi. For her DV comes last in the ranking of her priorities...even if she fell in love only bcz DV convinced her...toh bhi its fine but at least show her love as real n true as DV's love is. The way her character is shaping up only reveals the fact that sanchi never loved him the way DV loves her.

haye rabba..itna serioua bhi sochti hoon main...lolzz...Sorry I m very bad at expressing myself in a serious mode... 🤣 hope u understand Vinnie wat I tried to say 😎

Originally posted by: hope20

I feel like the only time she showed some kind of "love" proof so to say is when she was trying to apologize to him last week. But I feel like if someone who gave me that much was upset me I would do just about everything to make sure they are happy and "Satisfied" by me. I wouldn't want to ever hurt a person who keeps me "saalakho par"

Originally posted by: naneta

sorry gt late to reply... 😉
Thank you Vinnie for making this post 😭

I have been thinking this since the love story started...Sanchi never loved him...Chalo let's talk about girls in general...we all love affection; care...concern...attention...right...if someone does this fr u n also make his feelings clear at first place...toh its natural you may also fall for that person...after all...its a dream of every girl to find a partner like DV.

But here in Sanchi's case; DV falling in love with Sanchi was a natural process...bcz she was an ideal girl for him then...so it was pretty obvious that he fell in love with her persona n it was well justified...agree sanchi dint hv such feelings for him...but wen he made it clear n started doing everything for her to convince...then even if she wasnt in love bfr...she cud hv fallen fr him...so it was natural for Sanchi as well to fall in love with him.

But here the CVs lacked in showing the same passion in Sanchi's love...the passion that we see in DV's love for sanchi. For her DV comes last in the ranking of her priorities...even if she fell in love only bcz DV convinced her...toh bhi its fine but at least show her love as real n true as DV's love is. The way her character is shaping up only reveals the fact that sanchi never loved him the way DV loves her.

haye rabba..itna serioua bhi sochti hoon main...lolzz...Sorry I m very bad at expressing myself in a serious mode... 🤣 hope u understand Vinnie wat I tried to say 😎

Originally posted by: kat6k

Excellent write-up Vinee and it summarizes very well what has been said over many weeks about saachi's attitude toward dv.

I think saachi's love for dv is almost like an affection for a puppy. You laugh at its antics, hug him when he comes lapping at your feet and put him aside at other times.

Well ..maybe the cvs should let them go their way now and have saachi realize what it means to be in love and to love some one (the ishq wala love) and if that dv then bring him back in her life.

With the current attitude saachi will have her mangalsutra on the hook in the key cabinet, divorce papers signed and ready and a foot out of the door to leave dv for the smallest thing. There will be no in-sickness-and-in-health.