Maturity in thinking - Page 2

Originally posted by: uppaas

I think Dv is very matured..at least more than Sanchi,,in terms of knowing life.and relationships..but I think DV has carefree nature and Sanchi is a serious person..which does not make sanchi more matured necesarrily..

PPl who are laughing joking and mostly happy does not make them immature..I feel DV is more openminded than Sanchi

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Originally posted by: divine_16

I slightly disaree on this part.DV has been seeing acting immaturly ...nowadays.The away he is taking things lightly of not informing his parents about his relationship with Sanchi...is definitely not a maturish act.The way he went to threaten Sunil ...,.that also doesn't depict much of maturity.But yes he deals most of the situations maturely ...but he does falter.So, comparing with Sanchi...who is more matured and who not...is not feasible.They two have different ways of tackling situation.

Originally posted by: uppaas

Sorry I dont agree...not telling his parents I am totally with DV this marriage issue is serious...he wants to tell them in person not over the phone..I am with him infact I dont like Sanchi pressurizing him..marriage is not a solution to wagging tongues...U yoursel

fare...so fro me it is Sanchi who is not matured

Threatening Sunil..well I think Dv know he is a daarpok and spineless guy who has no character sometimes dhamki work with such ppl like the last time..I am sure he will handle him better the next time..

Also being matured does no tmean u cant make a mistake..MT POV😃

Yes ...that's the piont na...marraige is a serious issue.And U have to take it seriously.U can't wait with a thought that ...chalo.. my parents r liberal and whenever I tell them they will accept it with open arms.U have to inform them.If u could inform it to Aaji/Nani ...then why not your parents.U can romance with the girl for so many days and u have immense time... then why not go back to Mumbai and inform them.And as per the case of pressurizing...Sanchi has always stressed on the fact parents should know first.That's why even she made a point that she tells about their relation to AAji/Nani,ASAP.

No relationship can carry on in a healthy way,with dhamkis/threatening.It can work once ...but not always.

@ BOLD-YUP...I know matured does falter ...it's not that the person is always right.That's why I said DV is matured but he falters sometimes.

According to me, maturity doesn't come with age, circumstances and situations made one mature... Anyone elder than me that doesn't mean she will be mature too... Many times we see some daughters are more mature than mothers...

Well, I really don't think dat maturity comes with age...it comes with d situations dat one has faced in life & also d way one's parents have brought dem up...upbringing plays a huge role in one's level of maturity...

Originally posted by: sudip1203

Well, I really don't think dat maturity comes with age...it comes with d situations dat one has faced in life & also d way one's parents have brought dem up...upbringing plays a huge role in one's level of maturity...

Aarmay1 well said I appreciate ur comments very true

well maturity is not about age .. it is about ur certain way of behaving .. and handling the situation .. that's it .. :D

Originally posted by: drveena

aarmay i too liked ur post...👏... well said 👏

bdw did anybody understand the meaning of my saying " we all become adults, but , we grow up only once"...😊