I felt saachi's pain

2day while watching theepisode, I imagined myself in saachi's shoes nd I realized tat her emotions r justified..aftr doing everythng 4 others 4 15 yrs wen sm1 tried making her live 4 herself nd she realized she fell in love nd wanted 2 live her life, she ws blamed as characterless nd their innocent, divine nd pure love ws tagged as lust nd evn her own family 4 whom she lived were against her, hw cud she nt back off?
2 a viewer it may seem cheating wid dv nd her own feelings nd toying wid dv' s feelings bt 4m her perception it z all fair nd square..
she lost her faith on herself nd even her existance and as she cnsdered dvnd her as 1 so she dint bck off 4m dv or their relationship bt she bcked off 4m herself..
nd addded tat it ws dv who ws romancing wid her in the kitchen wenshews tryng 2 stop him nd they got caught nd she had 2 listen 2much, she felt kinda betrayed, exposed nd vulnerable..
dv on the other hand ws brought up in a ttly diff atmosphere nd he never suferdd any hardships, his confidence nd endurance level ws much more nd he used 2 b inrelationships before(no matter hw unserious those were bt he had grlfrnds in the past) unlike saachi who ws unaware of this feeling before...
so her actions under these circumstances r justified nd I ws feeling pain 4 her...
hope our magic angel dv ll make everythnggud 4 heragain...
my only request..cvs plx dnt drag it 2 much ndshow happy nd romantic saruv bck soon in the nxt week plx...

Jlzians koi tou khara o saachi ji k lye...

I somehow disagree Tina. It's nt abt facing hardships in life. Its abt tsking a stand in life. DV hasn't forced himself on Sanchi. She has taken d decision herself. Thn hw can she back out widout his consent. Y can't she see d pain DV is goin thru. Everyone is blaming him be it aaji-nani or addu
N evm sanchi.

Originally posted by: tinatartari

Jlzians koi tou khara o saachi ji k lye...

I can't 😕

Originally posted by: tinatartari

2day while watching theepisode, I imagined myself in saachi's shoes nd I realized tat her emotions r justified..aftr doing everythng 4 others 4 15 yrs wen sm1 tried making her live 4 herself nd she realized she fell in love nd wanted 2 live her life, she ws blamed as characterless nd their innocent, divine nd pure love ws tagged as lust nd evn her own family 4 whom she lived were against her, hw cud she nt back off?
2 a viewer it may seem cheating wid dv nd her own feelings nd toying wid dv' s feelings bt 4m her perception it z all fair nd square..
she lost her faith on herself nd even her existance and as she cnsdered dvnd her as 1 so she dint bck off 4m dv or their relationship bt she bcked off 4m herself..
nd addded tat it ws dv who ws romancing wid her in the kitchen wenshews tryng 2 stop him nd they got caught nd she had 2 listen 2much, she felt kinda betrayed, exposed nd vulnerable..
dv on the other hand ws brought up in a ttly diff atmosphere nd he never suferdd any hardships, his confidence nd endurance level ws much more nd he used 2 b inrelationships before(no matter hw unserious those were bt he had grlfrnds in the past) unlike saachi who ws unaware of this feeling before...
so her actions under these circumstances r justified nd I ws feeling pain 4 her...
hope our magic angel dv ll make everythnggud 4 heragain...
my only request..cvs plx dnt drag it 2 much ndshow happy nd romantic saruv bck soon in the nxt week plx...

I somehow now don't feel anything for Saachi...she may be having several reasond justifying her behaviour but backing off after commitment is cheating

Originally posted by: naneta

I somehow disagree Tina. It's nt abt facing hardships in life. Its abt tsking a stand in life. DV hasn't forced himself on Sanchi. She has taken d decision herself. Thn hw can she back out widout his consent. Y can't she see d pain DV is goin thru. Everyone is blaming him be it aaji-nani or addu
N evm sanchi.

u ve full right 2 disagree nancy..nd I 2 sme extend agree wid the point u made..ur point z well justified by u..
bt smhw am also reserved lyk saachi, the only diff she z 34 nd am 21 nd I dint face circumstances lyk her bt I feel 4 her cx in reality I myself ws never able 2 tell the person I always loved nd always will tat I like him even..
he thnks I hate him nd am a v envious nd proud girl nd I cud never justify myself, nd he wsnt understanding lyk dv 2 hear the unsaid, to feel the unseen..so never made any progress..nd despite being so supported nd loved, I cant even gobnd hang out wid a net frnd even..
so hw come saachi get so confidence 2 stand up suddenly against her family 4 the 1 who came in her lyf few days bck?
She feels dv, s pain bt she feels her ajji nani, s pain more nd they r her elders 2...
tats the point...
I myself dnt agree ttly wid saachi bt smtimes taking a stand in life z just ntso easy esp wen u ve allnodds against u...
I dont support her dsczn at all, bt I just support her pov..
Hope am able2 justify my point...

thnks 4 liking my post..dv z nt doinganythng wrong..infact he tried many a times 2 intervene only 2 b stopped by saachi wich ws unjust 2wards him bt poor saachi ws in a shock state tryng 2 control the situation...

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

I somehow now don't feel anything for Saachi...she may be having several reasond justifying her behaviour but backing off after commitment is cheating

u might b right bt if u read psychiatry u ll come 2 knw tat its a natural defence mechanism wich she adopted vinee...
in severe trauma or loss the 1st reaction ofa person z denial..tats hw ppl tend 2 protect themselves 4m more severe harm nd injury..then comes blame on others..u did it, he did it etc...
then gradually comes acceptance alongwid grief..its called coping mechanism...nd its physiological so saachi did what ws in her instinct nd she needs tym 2 rectify the thngs nd sort out her life...

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

I somehow now don't feel anything for Saachi...she may be having several reasond justifying her behaviour but backing off after commitment is cheating

yup i agree