Originally posted by: priyankumupal
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no offense but when someone treats you so bad that your mother and father has to commit sucide then my friend it's time to move on, put your self in kasturi's shoes, you love someone, that person doesn't trust you, he insults you, ruins your life, your whole future, still you need to keep a level head and work it out???? will you do that, we all know robbie is doing this cos of a misunderstanding, but he's still doing it. As the famous quote says, "Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful" kasturi has been all these things to robbie even after he ruins her life she doesn't do him any harm, but robbie breaks all idea's of love, still kasturi has to hang on to robbie? Let's all be practical and see how you could improve robbie again? do you think kasturi has a chance of doing that when all robbie wants to do is ruin her. so i take no offense at what you said, but married life with someone who is like robbie i would not wish upon my worst enemy.
P.S-i still love karan, but not robbie.
Oh please... Robbie did not drive Kasturi's parents to suicide. Their sense of "izzat" which is governed by what their neighbours and newspapers say and their immaturity drove them to it. One thing goes wrong and they are ready to kill themselves!! They were not even concerned ki hamare baad bacchon ka kya hoga. Even while they were alive itself Alka was ill-treating the kids like hell. They did not even think - what will Alka do to them after we die!!!!!
Anyways, lets leave the parents aside and come back to Robbie. OK, Robbie ill-treated Kasturi. Granted. So what should Kasturi do. By hook or crook she needs to find out what is wrong. If she is also blinded by anger then she is committing the same mistake that Robbie did!! What's the point then?? See, its very easy to get angry and move away but it takes a lot to control your anger and stick around. A successful relationship is always based on passion and patience, not just passion. Trust me on this one. I have had practical experience of this in my life, 😉 😊 .
When some one hurts you all of us have the same initial reaction. We are upset. We want to either hurt him/her back, or leave him/her, or teach him/her a lesson. But don't judge them only on that one instance. Think about all the good things also they might have done for you. In the serial, there have also been instances when Robbie trusted her. He supported her during the money stealing situatuion. He wants her and her family's good and was trying to give them gifts etc to come closer to them. And he totally loves kasturi. It is not like he is a completely bad dude. All I am saying is we need to think before we act. Sorry, for this long lecture on relationships 😊 but I hope you understand what I am driving at.