Can you love someone who has wronged you? - Page 3

Originally posted by: MayurChan

Hey even HUMSAFARS (Pak wala) can also answer your question ,

Can you love someone who broke your trust or did some other heartbreaking thing

Yes i can answer that. After the leap in humsafar, when khirad was walking towards ashars office , and imagine,if she was romantically dreaming of their good times together, how will it look ?

Khirad did NOT love Asher after she lost trust on him, till the end , she makes it clear that she cant love him the same way . He tells her that they wont ,but try to live a life together for their daughter. That's what she did. The trust , and love was slowly built up afresh from that point . She could love Asher again(may be) because he never questioned his daughters paternity in the worst time... Even after almost believing in khirads infedility, he accepted his daughter without any doubt.. He redeemed himself as a father by getting her treated..as a lover and as a husband he tried to redeem himself by giving khirad her respect back. As a son he trusted his mother but he failed as a husband . It's not a crime to trust your parents , nobody can ever believe that their parents can be vile. Asher was a victim , that's also one of the reasons khirad could start afresh.

Now imagine if this scenario is repeated 4 times in their life , will khirad still love Asher? I guess no 😆 yes , pre will also forgive anurag for this bec ultimately he didnt do it. But will anurag earn that apology ? He gave into komos demands , did asher give into his mother's wish ? If anurag had fought for his love , he def deserved to loved back.

Edit

Sorry I forgot..what is anurags redemption ? That pre knows the truth about this lame sacrifice?

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yes i can answer that. After the leap in humsafar, when khirad was walking towards ashars office , and imagine,if she was romantically dreaming of their good times together, how will it look ?

Khirad did NOT love Asher after she lost trust on him, till the end , she makes it clear that she cant love him the same way . He tells her that they wont ,but try to live a life together for their daughter. That's what she did. The trust , and love was slowly built up afresh from that point . She could love Asher again(may be) because he never questioned his daughters paternity in the worst time... Even after almost believing in khirads infedility, he accepted his daughter without any doubt.. He redeemed himself as a father by getting her treated..as a lover and as a husband he tried to redeem himself by giving khirad her respect back. As a son he trusted his mother but he failed as a husband . It's not a crime to trust your parents , nobody can ever believe that their parents can be vile. Asher was a victim , that's also one of the reasons khirad could start afresh.

Now imagine if this scenario is repeated 4 times in their life , will khirad still love Asher? I guess no 😆 yes , pre will also forgive anurag for this bec ultimately he didnt do it. But will anurag earn that apology ? He gave into komos demands , did asher give into his mother's wish ? If anurag had fought for his love , he def deserved to loved back.

@bold - nobody but me only believed it you know 😆

khair on a serious note i think Asher in a way got what he did with Khirad at that time when she needed him to trust her the most and i think the end which we got in HUMSAFAR was way to real for T.V audience kyunki if i was on Khirad's place shayad mein bhi wohi karta to save my child then for a better future for my child and yess Asher was a victim of the over possessed mother which ruined his life but then when you see it he also didn't do any thing much just that he saw something which was staged by his mother and he might have believed it , where he was wrong was not going till the end of that matter why that did happened bas mere hisaab se wohi galti thi uski ,

Coming back to KZK2 , see even talking something sensible about this non sensical thing is utter waste of breath 😆 , but my take on this is every body in this situation will be sane enough to know if this cycle of betraying trust is repeating more than once then they would know when to stop , and letting it happen 4 time is just a example of stupid Indian serial content ,

Khirad will not even come to Asher if this is repeated 4 times but if you take that into account i think Khirad would have never went to Asher if she didn't already knew ki he was played by his mother ,

and coming back to Indian Tv again😆 , yahan pe itna logic expect karna hee bewakoofi hai , but as we all know Pre will eventually forgive A for what all he did because in love you tend to forget people when u get to know he did betrayed her with the intention of keeping her safe from Komo like he did not mentioned to anyone that he lost his deal to Pre yesterday waise hee and in that way he will redeem himself in her eyes but don't compare that redemption with Asher's gustakhi hoo jayegi 😆

p.s - i was not asking you to answer this but was a general post😳

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yes i can answer that. After the leap in humsafar, when khirad was walking towards ashars office , and imagine,if she was romantically dreaming of their good times together, how will it look ?

Khirad did NOT love Asher after she lost trust on him, till the end , she makes it clear that she cant love him the same way . He tells her that they wont ,but try to live a life together for their daughter. That's what she did. The trust , and love was slowly built up afresh from that point . She could love Asher again(may be) because he never questioned his daughters paternity in the worst time... Even after almost believing in khirads infedility, he accepted his daughter without any doubt.. He redeemed himself as a father by getting her treated..as a lover and as a husband he tried to redeem himself by giving khirad her respect back. As a son he trusted his mother but he failed as a husband . It's not a crime to trust your parents , nobody can ever believe that their parents can be vile. Asher was a victim , that's also one of the reasons khirad could start afresh.

Now imagine if this scenario is repeated 4 times in their life , will khirad still love Asher? I guess no 😆 yes , pre will also forgive anurag for this bec ultimately he didnt do it. But will anurag earn that apology ? He gave into komos demands , did asher give into his mother's wish ? If anurag had fought for his love , he def deserved to loved back.

Edit

Sorry I forgot..what is anurags redemption ? That pre knows the truth about this lame sacrifice?

@bold - i don't have a answer to it right now 😳😆

koi redemption nahi chahiye , sab ko apne ghar chale jana chahiye bas....virus bahut phail raha hai

@Mayur..I have abs no problem if she forgives anurag..that's her choice.. . But the basic issues must be addressed , i know anurag wont ask for an apology and pre will forgive him without asking for one ..that's their track record.

When thy never trusted each other , we cant even talk about rebuilding the trust. Everything in kzk2 is a joke 😆 Thx for humsafar talk..its an iconic serial..

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

Charu hope u have seen silsila badalthe rishton ka seaaon 1 we routed for second lead to marry female lead as ML was a cheater.

That makes the difference a cheater ML and kzk has sacrificing thornbird ML

Its prernas choice to choose man of her own..

I have seen it pari. It's not about moral lapse. The guy made it clear he loves someone else and he wants to live a life with her . In that scenario its best for the wife to move on and dont run behind mirages. N she did choose the other guy ...at no point in the serial did the ml beg the fl to take him back .not bec of his daughter , not for his disease or any majboori... . That's how it should be isnt it ? Pre bajaj relationship will be similar only if ekta chooses to show minimal depth . Pre's love for anurag wont change if she chooses bajaj as her partner.