Double standard? DT NT pg 14 - Page 7

Originally posted by: prb4eva

Ok I was not aware of back story. Joined here after prerish marriage.

As far as ab, he needs to visit a psychiatrist as soon as possible.

This S2 Anurag has always been problematic. He needs a psychiatrist asap.

The only reason I still kind of feel for him is because of Parth's terrific acting . He just gets into the character so beautifully.

Now coming to Anu, why I felt he had issues from the start is -

1. He falls in love with Prerna and has a relationship with her, talks romantic, but doesn't bother to call off his engagement with Mishka. Doesn't even bother to tell her that he is interested I. Someone else. He starts a new relationship without having the decency to end the previous one.

2. He impregnated prerna on the pretext of marraige and gets engaged and later married to Komolika (Okay, I can forgive him here because his intention weren't wrong) but he didn't even bother telling Pre that he is going to marry someone else. That poor girl (who had just lost her father) came to know the truth when Nivi came to their house to invite them for Anu-komo marriage.

3. He publicly humiliated Pre and called her a gold digger.

4. His jealousy and manhandling Pre during Vibrant track

5. Swiss track - Slapping her

6. Obsession to get her back by hook or crook despite her continuous refusal to come back to him.

7. The criminal conspiracy

There are so many more points which I am not able to remember but yea, Anurag did have psychological issues. So I would prefer if he goes to a psychiatrist and gets counseling before Pre goes back to him. Or of course the best option would be she leaves him and makes a career for herself

For me, PreRish isn't an option. I am all for a badass guy who after falling in love redeems himself story, But Not for a Ruthless guy with golden heart who is dipped in Asian paints whitewash.

No, thanks for me PRB starts and ends with S1 ST-RR.

This isn't a double standard. This is how people are in real life, P isn't some role model for ideal living in society.

People make excuses to excuse the inexcusable in the people they love, but they don't feel the need to do that for the people they do not love. Bajaj can fall for her apparent selflessness but P hasn't fallen yet.

They SHOULD have however given a self thought scene for her, showing how despite A's wrong she can't get him punished, and how it was wrong on her part to get B punished, and how she couldn't help that coz she loved A despite being away from her. That won't make her disloyal or anything. It would only make her human.

Loyalty = Love isn't correct. She was fiercely loyal when after knowing the truth, she went and brought Bajaj out.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

For me, PreRish isn't an option. I am all for a badass guy who after falling in love redeems himself story, But Not for a Ruthless guy with golden heart who is dipped in Asian paints whitewash.

I am all for a badass grey character not turning over a new leaf but still falling in love and getting P by hook or crook, not this turn over a new leaf thing.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

This S2 Anurag has always been problematic. He needs a psychiatrist asap.

The only reason I still kind of feel for him is because of Parth's terrific acting . He just gets into the character so beautifully.

Now coming to Anu, why I felt he had issues from the start is -

1. He falls in love with Prerna and has a relationship with her, talks romantic, but doesn't bother to call off his engagement with Mishka. Doesn't even bother to tell her that he is interested I. Someone else. He starts a new relationship without having the decency to end the previous one.

2. He impregnated prerna on the pretext of marraige and gets engaged and later married to Komolika (Okay, I can forgive him here because his intention weren't wrong) but he didn't even bother telling Pre that he is going to marry someone else. That poor girl (who had just lost her father) came to know the truth when Nivi came to their house to invite them for Anu-komo marriage.

3. He publicly humiliated Pre and called her a gold digger.

4. His jealousy and manhandling Pre during Vibrant track

5. Swiss track - Slapping her

6. Obsession to get her back by hook or crook despite her continuous refusal to come back to him.

7. The criminal conspiracy

There are so many more points which I am not able to remember but yea, Anurag did have psychological issues. So I would prefer if he goes to a psychiatrist and gets counseling before Pre goes back to him. Or of course the best option would be she leaves him and makes a career for herself

For me, PreRish isn't an option. I am all for a badass guy who after falling in love redeems himself story, But Not for a Ruthless guy with golden heart who is dipped in Asian paints whitewash.

No, thanks for me PRB starts and ends with S1 ST-RR.

sneha tune ye toh bata diya anu is problemetic what he done worng

but what about good things .

1.mishiika is not his resposbility when she can left him for other person why not anu. its her karma

2.he truely wants to.marry her if u had doubt then nothing to say. he want to tell her but its nivi jealousy towards pre she go to pre home

3. intentionnis good so that she can.move on

4. well its mans nature is not pre jello of mishika & tells anu cheap things

5. well i cant accept this but i can justify it

6. apna huq kabhi nahi chhodna chahiye.usne kabhi kisi ka huq nahi mara toh wo apna huq kaise jaane de.

7. well dissappointed but not angry i know where he is coming from & nobody else helping him to tell him the truth

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

You say Prerna didn't go around destroying herself after anukom marriage. But I would want to say that had Anurag not supported her in front of Mohini that time things would have been different totally. He married Komolika but always clearly mentioned to everyone including Mohini that Prerna is her first priority. So in my pov if Anurag didn't support her she too was on the same path. But alas now everyone has forgotten whatever Anurag did for her 🥺

Anurag had a choice?

Would he dare denied what he did? According to Indian law, its a punishable offence..

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

sneha tune ye toh bata diya anu is problemetic what he done worng

but what about good things .

1.mishiika is not his resposbility when she can left him for other person why not anu. its her karma

2.he truely wants to.marry her if u had doubt then nothing to say. he want to tell her but its nivi jealousy towards pre she go to pre home

3. intentionnis good so that she can.move on

4. well its mans nature is not pre jello of mishika & tells anu cheap things

5. well i cant accept this but i can justify it

6. apna huq kabhi nahi chhodna chahiye.usne kabhi kisi ka huq nahi mara toh wo apna huq kaise jaane de.

7. well dissappointed but not angry i know where he is coming from & nobody else helping him to tell him the truth

Good things hai tabhi toh kaha ki before pre goes back to him, I want him to visit a counsellor and work on the relationship. Usme good qualities hai tabhi toh I said PreRish is not option for me, Either she should leave both or she can go back to Anu but after he goes for counseling.

Problematic doesn't mean bad. I myself have been to psychiatrist and regular counselor when I had some personal issues and it has helped a lot.

Originally posted by: najma123

You mean the ruthless guy who's existence was wiped out with P's tears?

I am all for a badass grey character not turning over a new leaf but still falling in love and getting P by hook or crook, not this turn over a new leaf thing.

Exactly! This manipulative and ruthless guy, at the same gopi bahu type. I don't know what to make of this Bajaj.

Those mushy eyes, puppy type - Is this even Bajaj?

Or it could be my plain bias that am accepting anyone as Bajaj because of my love for RR.

Don't know the reason, but PreRish doesn't work me.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Good things hai tabhi toh kaha ki before pre goes back to him, I want him to visit a counsellor and work on the relationship. Usme good qualities hai tabhi toh I said PreRish is not option for me, Either she should leave both or she can go back to Anu but after he goes for counseling.

Problematic doesn't mean bad. I myself have been to psychiatrist and regular counselor when I had some personal issues and it has helped a lot.

but yes now he really need good therepy because he is in emotional trauma & nobody is helping him

i m happy pre is in guilt mode & infact bajaj too in guilt mode.may be anu loose everything but pre will be forever guilty for not telling the truth. her spineless nature for taking stand for anything

pre acutally left her principal & values for anu today

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

She does want to stay in this marriage, right? I mean, that's what I have inferred till now.

She has so many opportunities to move away . Do you think if she tells bajaj that I want to leave you, he will harm AB? No he wouldn't.

So what is there stopping her from going back to Anurag since she loves him so much ?

Is it the deal that is stopping her or Has she actually accepted the marriage from her heart and now wants to stay married to RB? Is it just the society that is stopping her from leaving RB or does she actually consider him his family ?

She obviously doesn't have 'feelings' for him, yet she cares for him.

Bhaut complicated rishta hai yeh😆

Even I get the impression that she accepted her fate and hasnt got any problem in being Mrs Bajaj for the rest of her life.. Why? I dont know..

technically speaking, she had every opportunity to walk out on him even now! She could easily play deaf ear to Anu&Pam convo.. I mean why would you have guilt for a man who “took the advantage of her vulnerable situation”

Or has she realised that may be RB will be a better life partner?

Confusion everywhere.. Yeh rishta kya kehlata hain!

I am glad Erii has something else to focus on apart from Prerna Confused Sharma!

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

Anurag had a choice?

Would he dare denied what he did? According to Indian law, its a punishable offence..

He did have a choice Nailah but the question is not this.... the point in consideration was that he did support her when she was there at BB when no-one wanted her to stay there. And how was it criminal offence? If dhaaga marriage can be nullified to set up the new couple then deffo it wouldn't have held it's ground in court of law then. Also as most of the opposite fandom talk about their consummation then I'll again say that was a mutually consented act. So she can't claim that to be a criminal offence in the court of law.

But yes we won't be able to come to a consensus so I don't think I'll continue with this argument. We both have our own opinions and I respect yours too🤗