Felt bad for Bajaj {DT Note Page 9] - Page 2

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

bitterpast or hardship doesnot give u pass to choose adharm

thats exactly happen to karn in mahabharat he go through so much hardship but he always choose adharma side thats wjy has a downfall

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Originally posted by: kalank

Anyone with a heart would feel bad for Bajaj. KSG is nailing the role, KSG is playing the character so brilliantly that no matter what he does most people will continue to root for him! Especially now that his eyes show nothing but pain and indescribable anguish!

KSG was on point with that scene, I never thought I will empathize with Bajaj

Firstly nothing has been shown so far regarding the past of Bajaj but whatever it was .... even if that was really horrifying, that probably seems to be related to Moloy. But if you have a bitter past but now you have a life which you should dedicate to your special child who needs you more than anyone else.

But you spend your time in destroying others lives and punishing Anurag for probable sins of his father. For your special child you bring a mother cum Nanny and in doing so you end up destroying 2 families. If according to his opinion Anurag deserves punishment for his father's deeds then he should not have a problem with kuki suffering for his deeds in future.

Regarding comparison with Anurag that he has a family while he doesn t.... everyone has their own assets which one should look at. He has kuki who thinks he is the best father in the world. For her he should build up a secure future but the way he brought Prerna as his wife, who loves someone else and is carrying his child.... really doesn t go down well.

Now that he is seeing Anurag having a loving family and that pricks his heart doesn t take away the truth that he is the one who has disturbed the entire family and so many people are suffering bcoz of him. I don't feel bad for him as he has chosen this path himself....

Kaanton bhari raah par chalne ka faisla kiya

Ab kaante chubhe to phoolon se shikwa kaisa...

Originally posted by: _charu_

Plz explain how anurag is living a privileged life and bajaj isn't?

"He lived a privileged life"

Anurag is from a rich loving family, Bajaj's past is dark

Anurag has a loving family to look after him, he lived all his life surrounded by money and luxury which comes from his father, Anurag is working in his father's company, that's a privileged life.

Bajaj had to work for everything he owns, he mentioned that he saw his mother working because they didn't have money, so his life wasn't a privileged one.

Did I not phrase my post correctly?

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Originally posted by: NoraSM

"He lived a privileged life"

Anurag is from a rich loving family, Bajaj's past is dark

Anurag has a loving family to look after him, he lived all his life surrounded by money and luxury which comes from his father, Anurag is working in his father's company, that's a privileged life.

Bajaj had to work for everything he owns, he mentioned that he saw his mother working because they didn't have money, so his life wasn't a privileged one.

That's what I am saying. If money is the only parameter then those who earn it with struggle also value it and imo they are more priveledged than the ones who inherit it . And as we can see he was quite successful in his efforts too..so how is his life a hardship? It's a success story no irrespective of his dark past ?

If family is the parameter, for that one has to be loving..and if they are loving everyone is like a family.

He called anurag a cry baby , he is being worse than a cry baby and why? It's his misconception that anurag doesnt value anything in life..that is a separate thing but this suffering of his is also forced . He did a mistake just come out of it and move on . Since when did he feel the need to prove anything to anyone..he only said this ? It means only one thing.he loves prerna. Now for this he is entirely responsible .

Originally posted by: NoraSM

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Originally posted by: NoraSM

I didn't give any justification for anything in my post, I shared something I felt watching the episode, I have added that it will be a hard lesson for Bajaj that he can't buy loyalty. I do not get from where you got this idea of justification

I didnt mean u r justifying. Sorry if u felt so. I meant in general or frm makers perspective tht such justifications cant be made.

Originally posted by: _charu_

That's what I am saying. If money is the only parameter then those who earn it with struggle also value it and imo they are more priveledged than the ones who inherit it . And as we can see he was quite successful in his efforts too..so how is his life a hardship? It's a success story no irrespective of his dark past ?

If family is the parameter, for that one has to be loving..and if they are loving everyone is like a family.

He called anurag a cry baby , he is being worse than a cry baby and why? It's his misconception that anurag doesnt value anything in life..that is a separate thing but this suffering of his is also forced . He did a mistake just come out of it and move on . Since when did he feel the need to prove anything to anyone..he only said this ? It means only one thing.he loves prerna. Now for this he is entirely responsible .

I understand that your interpretation of privilege can differ from mine

I was referring to standard meaning of this word.

Privilege = Advantage

Anurag was born into a rich family, fortunately enough he had loving father, loving mother and sisters, that's a privileged life. Everyone here can say that Anurag didn't have to struggle to be where he is professionally because he is working in his father's company.

Bajaj had to work for it, we don't know when his mother died, how many days he had to sleep without food, how many times he felt alone and he did not have parents or siblings to turn to? This is not a privileged life

Bajaj is rich and is living a comfortable life because of his hard work, he didn't get any advantage in his life, like Anurag did. If Moloy is Bajaj's father, then Bajaj should have received everything Anurag did from his childhood but it was taken away from him.

Originally posted by: _charu_

In that case bajajs life is privileged.

🤣 lmao matlab this is the epitome of kuch bhi