Double standards

What is Nivedita's issue? She married a "middle class " guy. So now she's on Prerna?? W*F? Double standard?

Than again ...I can't compeletly blame her because maybe she thinks Prerna is just like anupum??

Originally posted by: nids1642

What is Nivedita's issue? She married a "middle class " guy. So now she's on Prerna?? W*F? Double standard?

Than again ...I can't compeletly blame her because maybe she thinks Prerna is just like anupum??

i think she believes that just like anupam Pre too is a gold digger and will spoil anus life

She doesn't want her bro's love life get disturbed like her

Honestly, I found Nivi's advice to Anu very realistic. You are rich, your brother is young, naive & not worldly wise, but you know from experience how there are so many girls & boys who would do anything for money, status, lifestyle. It is natural to warn the younger one to be wary of the world especially at this age when hormones rule. OK, we know how Pre is but Nivi doesn't & she cautions her bro about such girls in general.

Originally posted by: tranquilmelody

Honestly, I found Nivi's advice to Anu very realistic. You are rich, your brother is young, naive & not worldly wise, but you know from experience how there are so many girls & boys who would do anything for money, status, lifestyle. It is natural to warn the younger one to be wary of the world especially at this age when hormones rule. OK, we know how Pre is but Nivi doesn't & she cautions her bro about such girls in general.

Similarly I found the way Pre responded to Nivi & Mohini a bit out of line. I know everyone is going gaga over how Pre stood up to them but the way she said 'he needs me' & ' you explain to him why he hasn't got his file yet' was all too much. At this stage they have every right to be concerned about him & what sort of people he is dealing with. Even while standing up to them she could have said it better.

I'm sorry but I don't agree. Think about all the things monihi did. Ok fine...she didn't know about naveen but she basically cornered Prerna into marrying an old man ruined her dreams and life. And Nivi? She basically slapped Prerna during heldi. If they want their anu to be happy they wouldn't make his decisions for him!! Miska seems like a very stupid girl. I'm sorry but she does. And just because she's rich they love her. And Mohini didn't think about the fact that girl has already broken Anurags heart once. She trust her without questions with her sons life?? Here's my issue if you love your son why don't you love his wants and needs? A monkey could tell you he is in love!! And Anurag DOES need her in ways that Mohini and Nivi can't help him. He needs someone to stop talking about money all day and have fun in the rain, eat paan, run around and be young, but most he needs to be taught how to live life!! Ok yes Mohini did tell him to go to a party but at their "standards party. Prerna was just rude. I would slapped the both of them for trying kick my family out of our house and Nivi for slapping me!

Two wrongs don't make a right. Mohini's blackmail is deplorable, no Q about that. But that doesn't mean she can talk like this to them. In fact they were talking amongst themselves, not to her. As Anu's Mom & sis they have every right to look out for him, that no one takes advantage of his goodness. She is not his wife or even his girlfriend, even her friendship is only a few moths old. I certainly feel she could have toned down her attitude.

Nivi don't want her brother's life to get spoil like her. Anupam has made her believe that all middle class are gold digger. she is just being protective for Anurag.