well with regard to sneha, kasak, tushar, kuki, and even mukti, they are good parents, but when it comes to prem they are not good parents and they havent completely fullfilled their duties as parents..i mean after misunderstanding prem soo many times, how can they still expect prem to behave like a perfect son? and that also, he is not that close to them also and i dont think he has anytime really felt the warmth of their love as just when he starts feeling so, he is misunderstood and thrown out of his house...so how can u expect him to become a perfect son...since he was brought up by aparna, i think wat he basicaly needs is a lot of understanding and love, more than what they are giving other kids...they cant expect prem to behave and treat them like the other kids as the other kids of the house have really felt the affection of their parents love since childhood, prem has not...so 1st give him that complete affection, understanding and time instead of always misunderstanding him and even if he does some good deed, what he always gets is 'isse tho koi umeed nahin hain' (remember he got this dialogue even after he saved sneha when she was kidnapped, and even this time he went to find out who this person is who played this game with dorris by giving 5 lakhs and again all he gets is a kick), so appreciate him for his good deeds, ignore his stupid comments, give him love and warmth and basically time to understand this love, and stop misunderstanding him and kicking him out of house every now and then, this is the minimum that can help to make ud into prem after all that emotional trauma he received from prerna and anurag!! Seriously, i am thinking wht has he gained from anurag and prerna till now, except for this emotional pain (if u remember, when he was ud, he would never cry or be emotionally upset, the moment he started believing in emotions and relationships, he received the worst of emotional trauma!)..and then they complian 'isse koi umeed nahin hain'...even prem must be feeling the same way about prerna and anurag!
Edited by dewdrops_999 - 19 years ago
