ganga...totally wrong?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hey all..i saw yesterdays epi and it gt me thinking..abt wot ganga said..abt the freedom thing?i know shez bein rude,offensive,argumentative,nd wadnot..but in a way,she HAS gt a point..if u put aside all the feelings of how shez disrespecting her dad..duznt it make sennse? i mean..it IS true that jai is all over her business..it IS true that he's kinda 'in her face'..u know..if she had nt said it THAT way in that type of situation..it might have acc gotten her somewhere..in the sense JW wuld prob have nt been sooo pissed..dontcha think? or am i juz sayin this cuz im a teen too..do comment...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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1.As a father Jai was just being protective lets say over -protective maybe coz he lost two kids and one is missing to him ganga is bani's daughter a responsibility bani gave him so can say he has been trying more than his best to make sure she is happy and contented.
2. Ganga never objected to JW wishes, she happily did what he wants letting jai live in illusion that ganga is fine with him taking decsions on her be-half but she could have told him that she wants somethng else she never did that instead choose to lie and live a two facedd life ,her objecting to jai's views earlier would have been less painful rather than Jai gettn to know the other side of her life ,Meera knew this very well and she supported ganga all thru ,had she not been helping ganga Jai would have for sure seen his daughter going on wrong path long back .

But i can say no Father how ever broadminded will never be able to digest the fact that his daughter drinks nd smokes.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i don't think ganga is totally wrong...i mean if Jai had asked her what she wanted to do or anything like that then i bet ganga and jai would have reached a half way mark where both of them are happy. Smae with Krishna...i saw in an episode, krishna wanted to speak to jay but instead he just gave her money and told her to go away...not saying its jay's fault ๐Ÿ˜ณ ...but the kids are mostly wrong lekin somewhere or the other, Jay is also wrong
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Jai is blind thats all i have to say!! ๐Ÿคข
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi5! Teen here too! ๐Ÿ˜†

yeh thats what i think, she DID have a point, they all did minus Vicky - i didnt REALLY understand his reason for going off on a tangent.

I understood Krishna's reason completly.. if they had said what they wanted another way JW wouldve listened, but it seemed this was the only way to get Jai to listen and not go off for a biz deal or something.

It couldve been worse 2, Jai couldve been humuliated in a party of somesort
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Here is what the Americans say on the subject.

IF Mom and Dad are paying the paycheck and allowance, they sure can lay down the rules, if the kids don't like the rules, they know where the door is....

Sounds kind of harsh, Desis would never do it...but if all else is tried, love, patience, talking etc. Then tough love is the answer.

IF Ganga, Krishna, what's his name want to live by their own rules, they could...out side of their parent's home!! ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheena_Row

Here is what the Americans say on the subject.

IF Mom and Dad are paying the paycheck and allowance, they sure can lay down the rules, if the kids don't like the rules, they know where the door is....

Sounds kind of harsh, Desis would never do it...but if all else is tried, love, patience, talking etc. Then tough love is the answer.

IF Ganga, Krishna, what's his name want to live by their own rules, they could...out side of their parent's home!! ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜‰



True!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I actually do not agree here apart from krishna who in my eyes was not really wrong apart from lying ganga classes freedom as being able to drink i mean jais given her money and encouraged her talent, tried to sell her painting educated her and let her out to her friends whereever else without too many questions and gives her money to spend because she does not work where else would she get things even forgetting that in my eyes it is free.Vicky was wrong betting as well when Jai gave him a chance in the company and gave him project without a second thought imagine if he had to search for a job.

If a parent wanting to know what kid is upto and telling them something is wrong is butting in and in your face so be it ๐Ÿ‘come on they have some rights people tend to forget its parents that brought you up for so long and how much they do for you!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheena_Row

Here is what the Americans say on the subject.

IF Mom and Dad are paying the paycheck and allowance, they sure can lay down the rules, if the kids don't like the rules, they know where the door is....

Sounds kind of harsh, Desis would never do it...but if all else is tried, love, patience, talking etc. Then tough love is the answer.

IF Ganga, Krishna, what's his name want to live by their own rules, they could...out side of their parent's home!! ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜‰

British loge say that too.. but then one look at the housing market and the children are back ๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ganga : She is spoilt,smoking nd drinking is some thing JW seems opposing,she may choose her carrier nd i am sure JW wont stop her unless its some waitress job yea some serious shit.

Krishna : I guess JW prime concern is the company she choose,didnt they say the company is blacklisted nd traps gals into drug peddling nd other business

Vicky : Who Cares??

JW can take chances here he can leave the house ,nd as meera said maybe she can get alimony and JW can be on roads but once JW is out Meera will automatically kick Ganga nd KW out
Edited by who am i??? - 17 years ago

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