I didnt write this,i am very bad at this job,i happen to read something like this sometime ago and decided to put this way.....
Jai and Bani were blessed with a baby gal,after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the gal whom they named khushi as she bought in happiness in there lives was the gem of their eyes. When Khushi was around two years old, one morning the Jai,saw a medicine bottle open.
He was late for office so he asked bani to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. Bani , preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
Khushi saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When she collapsed bani hurried her to the hospital, where she died. Bani was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught Jai came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at bani and uttered just five words.
He said "I am with you Darling"
Jai's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. She can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with bani. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the him. That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
MORAL OF THE STORY
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.