SS:Whom to blame??

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I didnt write this,i am very bad at this job,i happen to read something like this sometime ago and decided to put this way.....

Jai and Bani were blessed with a baby gal,after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the gal whom they named khushi as she bought in happiness in there lives was the gem of their eyes. When Khushi was around two years old, one morning the Jai,saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked bani to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. Bani , preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

Khushi saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When she collapsed bani hurried her to the hospital, where she died. Bani was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught Jai came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at bani and uttered just five words.




He said "I am with you Darling"
Jai's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. She can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with bani. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the him. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.


MORAL OF THE STORY

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

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raniv thumbnail
Posted: 17 years ago
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whoami?

That was soooooo good! I wish they both admit that they were equally at fault and get on with life.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Arch,

See, the old JW would have done just that, this one is too dense and too opinionated.

That was very sad, rula diya!! Too good!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Only one phrase comes to my mind 'If only...'
Somali
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Posted: 17 years ago
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good one Archie 👏 .....loved the moral of the story....

omg....actually same thing happened to me whe I was 4 years old....I swallowed some medicines which contains high dosage of drugs (my mum accidently left the medicines on short stool)

now after reading this post then only I realized that my dad did not blame my mum at all....even when some relatives blamed my mum for being careless, my father defended her......my dad too sweet 😉 😃
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Excellent Archie...you said we get too busy finding faults and who to blame when all you have to do say we are not perfect we all make mistakes...lets just work on how not to repeat them.

When one needs a comforting arm...give them a hug.

When one needs a shoulder to cry on..give them yours.

When one needs a little love in a life...give them little of yours.

When one is going hungry...share a little food of yours.

Little things goes a long way to make a world a better place.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hey archie.
that was really..good...
that is the moral..
if people share and stop being self center..
than this would be much better place..than it is right now..

if people stop blaming other people and actually..look... what is wrong with them..
than this world would be perfect for little kids.. who learn from what adults..do
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hey that was realy good 👏
someday, i hope, the kkkreatives learn that 🤢
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Excellent one Archie 👏 👏 👏

The loss of a loved one is life's most stressful event. I can understand that parents may feel responsible for the child's death, no matter how irrational that may seem. But that is not the time to sit and blame the other. Its their loss and both have to cope up with it together. Love is the best formula to navigate through a wounded heart.

When I read this SS, I truly cried as I have gone through a similar experience, just that it was my kid brother. But my parents were strong enough and supported each other at the most crucial time.

It truly was a brilliant one.
Rama
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Kaash...............
Thanks Archie 👏

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