Attempt at understanding Bani

Yeah all you JW supporters out there pls. do not laugh at this topic subject. One can never understand the way a Balaji female protogonist minds functions, but KS being a little different (lets confess inspite of all the crap it has become recently, it still is a love story for all of us rather than regular Saas Bahu drama)some hopes are still intact

I have this feeling and I may be wrong in my assumption but Bani is still not ready to believe everything Pia is telling her inspite of the evidences that she has seen. Her last dialogues in the temple made me think this way. She clearly stated to Pia that she is not looking for a father but all the money that will come with the child .This nailed my beliefs in her in regards to her fake attitude. She does not hate Jai and is just plain hurt at him for deceiving her and at Pia for constantly trying to hurt her when she is not even bothered about her and Jai relationship, for constantly tryong to reinforce the fact that Bni is coming between her and Jai. Why do I get this feeling that she still feels like Jai loves her and is just waiting for a affirmation from his side for the same. She wants Jai to deny that he has an ongoing relationship with Pia, like the latter claims to have. I am not claiming that she will forgive Jai if he confesses . She will throw her tantrums , will do everything that she can to break him, punish him but will eventually forgive him. Her reaction will propbaly be different too cause when PR raaz was disclosed she was still all for her parents , but this time Pia is not on her list of forgiveness,, she is over and done with her.

Do let me know how much you all disagree.

Priyanka,

When did you switch sides???

I think i should applaud you to think that the female protagonist actually thinks this deep. 👏👏👏

Well i guess i just hate her too much to react.

Shina

Originally posted by: lonely14

Priyanka,

When did youswitch sides???

I think i should applaud you to think that the female protagonist actually thinks this deep. 👏👏👏

Well i guess i just hate her too much to react.

Shina

Me switch sides with Bani Pls. give me a break will ya? 😆 . Its just an attempot at understanding Bani but she is an Ekta Kapoor heroine so it may go waste. Munna and Munna forever is my mantra. Atleast being on his side keeps me sane enough to think normally. BTW dont bring your Jootas and belans at me but few seconds of Pia in last evenings episode, and the TRP climbed up one notch.

Priyanka, what u hv penned seems to be right, but if she wants him to confess, why she is not allowing JW to speak to her, why does she turn her face, when he comes to her? 😕 And what fails me is, if she doesnt want to believe that JW loves Pia, then why she didnt even hesitate before signing the paper? And why she tried to explain Tarun for Jai's presence at WM? To be frank Priyanka I m really tired of judging these characters and this show 😭 ! But my addiction is so much that I dont like to miss it for J&B 😭 ! I know hopes are useless, but cannot control myself from expecting good out of it!

Originally posted by: aashyagh

Priyanka, what u hv penned seems to be right, but if she wants him to confess, why she is not allowing JW to speak to her, why does she turn her face, when he comes to her? 😕 And what fails me is, if she doesnt want to believe that JW loves Pia, then why she didnt even hesitate before signing the paper? And why she tried to explain Tarun for Jai's presence at WM? To be frank Priyanka I m really tired of judging these characters and this show 😭 ! But my addiction is so much that I dont like to miss it for J&B 😭 ! I know hopes are useless, but cannot control myself from expecting good out of it!

Ash,
We all are in the same boat I guess it is just the addiction that lands up in front of our TV sets every nite. Bani will not listen to Jai until he pleads to her or either forces her like he used to.She too has ego of a woman when it comes to such matter as she knows she is the one who has been wronged. She will try and justify to everyone that she hates him but cannot bring hherself to do it thus to convince others and herself more that she is over Jai, she keeps on harping that she called on Jai in WM for Raashi's sake only. Otherwise why would she wait for him outide Massi's room and feel bad when Massi did not gave into his pleading. She was not hesitant on igning the papers because she wanted to prove to Pia too that she is over Jai but unfortunately Pia knows better and thus hits her where it hurts the most.

I agree with you, mainly because I am a JB supporter and am willing to do anything to bring them back!

In my head, I don't think Bani believes what Pia is saying. Remember when Banigiri was going on, Jai had Tarun to tell how he felt so we got to see what he was thinking and how much he trusted her. Well now, Bani has no one. She can't tell Rano because Rano hates JW, she doesn't have anyone else. So, we really don't have any idea what is going on in her head.

And anyways, if she starts talking normally to him withot turning her back on him, she is not acting in a normal manner... if she forgives JW after him saying that the baby in Pia's stomach is his... then wouldnt she become "mahan" because no woman will agree so quickly !

Wow, a lot of useless rambling... I hope at least someone understands

-Pari

PS: Jai and Karuna need to open their mouth tommorow, or at least next week before Wednesday or else I am seriously thinking of stopping...

Mahim,

(all you JW supporters out there pls. do not laugh at this topic subject.)

Sorry, can't oblige you at all on this. 😆 😆 😆

But yes, will try to understand her. 😉

(She does not hate Jai and is just plain hurt at him )

She is badly hurt and pained at the moment but can never hate him.

(she still feels like Jai loves her and is just waiting for a affirmation from his side for the same. She wants Jai to deny that he has an ongoing relationship with Pia)

Agree with you 200%. And that's why JW should open his mouth. If he tells her that it was an ONS, a mistake and not a EMA, she will believe him and not Pia or all the other things she has seen or heard.

(I am not claiming that she will forgive Jai if he confesses.)

Agreed, again.

(She will throw her tantrums)

Yes.

( , will do everything that she can to break him, punish him)

Nope. She is no St. Kash. She will punish him only by cold behaviour and an ocassional tantrum but no active persecution.

( but will eventually forgive him.)

Unlikely. No persecution but no forgiveness either. But when she finds out the truth she will be at him with Kiran's pravachan "Koi bhi galte....." and expect and get immediate forgiveness for her own karnamas.

(but this time Pia is not on her list of forgiveness,, she is over and done with her. )

Maybe. But with Dixits you can never be too sure.

Rgds,

Pri

guys.. i have not watched the episodes yet.. but to what i have seen.. Bani is not an idiot.. how can you expect to talk to someone who have hurt you in such a way. How can you even believe someone who you use to trust so much and they have betrayed you. take yourself in bani's position. after constantly being reminded that he loves someone else.. how can you even confront that person and say do you really love her? and what if he admits it.. are you willing to go through the same old heart break?? i dont think so..
I dont blame bani at all for not listening or talking to Jai.. and I dont think she is waiting for a confession from anyone. She might love Jai in her heart but she needs time to calm down.. i dont htink she believes whatever Pia is saying now either.. cuz really who would believe a starnger.. She is done and done with the whole walia clam.. i think she is just looking a reason to move out. which i think in the end is btter for her..

i pray that she does... i can't stand to see her hurt and bullied by people like this..

Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

I agree with you, mainly because I am a JB supporter and am willing to do anything to bring them back!

In my head, I don't think Bani believes what Pia is saying. Remember when Banigiri was going on, Jai had Tarun to tell how he felt so we got to see what he was thinking and how much he trusted her. Well now, Bani has no one. She can't tell Rano because Rano hates JW, she doesn't have anyone else. So, we really don't have any idea what is going on in her head.

And anyways, if she starts talking normally to him withot turning her back on him, she is not acting in a normal manner... if she forgives JW after him saying that the baby in Pia's stomach is his... then wouldnt she become "mahan" because no woman will agree so quickly !

Wow, a lot of useless rambling... I hope at least someone understands

-Pari

PS: Jai and Karuna need to open their mouth tommorow, or at least next week before Wednesday or else I am seriously thinking of stopping...

Hey Pari we all are JB supporters here irrespective of whose side we take on. I agree with you that she has no one to turn to unlike Jai who had so many people to share his feelings for Bani, with. Bani turns around and never looks straight into Jai's eyes beccause she still belives what ever she feels, not what she has seen

Originally posted by: mahimn

Hey Pari we all are JB supporters here irrespective of whose side we take on. I agree with you that she has no one to turn to unlike Jai who had so many people to share his feelings for Bani, with. Bani turns around and never looks straight into Jai's eyes beccause she still belives what ever she feels, not what she has seen

true..but dont you think that she might not look into his eyes.. cuz she knows if she does.. all the feeling of love and more of hatred will come flooding back.. i think that she knows once she looks into his eyes. she will not be able to control herself.. and end up doing something that she might regret.. like slapping him or something