Wats wrong with The Raging Bull ?

Guys I dont understand Jai ..he is a sensible grown Man .. understands relationships and human tendencys better than Pia . So why didnt he accept her resignation ..? pia did the appropriate thing by resigning . while he displayed a lack of understanding where pia's feelings post theier ONS was concerned ..

Cant he see the girl was head over heels in Love with Him and was finding it immensely difficult to handle her emotions being around him , and working in close quarters with him . instead of keeping her at a distance to avoid further problems he was risking his marriage and relationship having pia around . Somebody should Knock some sense into him .. otherwise he has been showing his wisdom where his marriageand wife are concerned than why cant he understand what Pia was openly telling him That She just couldnt go on being in front of him and not be with Him . ?

really Jai whats gotten to You ..?

what do u guys think ..?

I think that the guilt is eating into him. i din't pay much attention to what Pia was saying, but i think that she told that she was quitting because of what happened in dubai, so he basically was feeling guilty that she was quitting because of him. Thou i loved him for the way he took complete responsibility of what happened, n told pia that it was nothing but a mistake, the biggest mistake of his life.
Pia shows her selfishness once again, the whole office is in uproar over the takeover and there she was piling more problems on Raging Bull's head...

Originally posted by: sns23

I think that the guilt is eating into him. i din't pay much attention to what Pia was saying, but i think that she told that she was quitting because of what happened in dubai, so he basically was feeling guilty that she was quitting because of him. Thou i loved him for the way he took complete responsibility of what happened, n told pia that it was nothing but a mistake, the biggest mistake of his life.
Pia shows her selfishness once again, the whole office is in uproar over the takeover and there she was piling more problems on Raging Bull's head...

Thats why he should accept her resignation .. if he cares for her as a human being he will Understand where she is coming from ..?

and not force her to saty on .. which infact will add on to more problems instead . by the way Pia leaving wouldnt change anything at Walia corp . its not like she was leaving that very minute and second

Probably he knew that she wasn't gonna get a job anywhere else... for her qualifications (does she even have any, coz i dont ever remember her going to college other than that one scene where in the car was sent to her) usko kahaan se kahaan pohunchadiya. Event Manager, then some one who is in a big enough post to accompany the boss where ever he goes, biddings and all.
Anyways, i think that was just his first reaction, given some time he would have realised that her leaving is probably the best thing that could happen to him right now. It was just coz of his guilt that he felt that because of his mistake, her career shouldn't suffer.

thanks for the post klueless but i would like to differ

i would have thought jai as a weak person if he had accepted pia's resignation...
if pia resigns...she wont be around him which would make him more comfortable and his gulity feeling may die its own death...
but now he is so sure of his feelings for bani that pia and her presence doesnt matter to him now.
he may feel guilty about what happened but he certainly not in dilemma over to chose from bani and pia
he has made his choice clearer and hence having pia around him wont bother him and he is sure that his marriage with bani will not be at risk since he has eyes for bani only
and he can never think about pia the way he did before
again he is a wise man
pia resigning so suddenly right after their arrival from dubai would attract loads of questions...
i think he is thinking both ways now.

i appreciate that he has human consideration for pia and he has not indulged in blame game with her...he respects her as a human but then thats it...

i hope i have not offended anyone...these are my views.

honestly.. it's really not Jai's fault.. Poor guy had Ekta miya telling him to NOT accept the resignation letter.. 😆

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

thanks for the post klueless but i would like to differ

i would have thought jai as a weak person if he had accepted pia's resignation...
if pia resigns...she wont be around him which would make him more comfortable and his gulity feeling may die its own death...
but now he is so sure of his feelings for bani that pia and her presence doesnt matter to him now.
he may feel guilty about what happened but he certainly not in dilemma over to chose from bani and pia
he has made his choice clearer and hence having pia around him wont bother him and he is sure that his marriage with bani will not be at risk since he has eyes for bani only
and he can never think about pia the way he did before
again he is a wise man
pia resigning so suddenly right after their arrival from dubai would attract loads of questions...
i think he is thinking both ways now.

i appreciate that he has human consideration for pia and he has not indulged in blame game with her...he respects her as a human but then thats it...

i hope i have not offended anyone...these are my views.

I completely agree with on this one Himali.. It's true.... Jai should that he is a big man than that and should Pia ever try to "seduce" him again.. he won't spare her... He'll forget that he ever loved her... and most importanly that she is related to his wife...

Originally posted by: klueless

Guys I dont understand Jai ..he is a sensible grown Man .. understands relationships and human tendencys better than Pia . So why didnt he accept her resignation ..? pia did the appropriate thing by resigning . while he displayed a lack of understanding where pia's feelings post theier ONS was concerned ..

Cant he see the girl was head over heels in Love with Him and was finding it immensely difficult to handle her emotions being around him , and working in close quarters with him . instead of keeping her at a distance to avoid further problems he was risking his marriage and relationship having pia around . Somebody should Knock some sense into him .. otherwise he has been showing his wisdom where his marriageand wife are concerned than why cant he understand what Pia was openly telling him That She just couldnt go on being in front of him and not be with Him . ?

really Jai whats gotten to You ..?

what do u guys think ..?

the questin why she is leaving will arise now... that is one point... then to face the fear in life one have to face it .... then it will gradually take off... an immediate resignation of Pia and her dull face is all about to ring the bell of hell... isn't it?

I thk Jai is a very honest and practical man Klue.He owns upto his mistakes as long as he knows he wont hv to goto the jail for it 😉 (his reason for hiding the park road incident).
He is very wise and thinks beyond the sitution.
In this case he is thinking abt Pia's future. And how if she is not guided now she may not be able to get over the past.
On the other hand Jai knows how inquisitive his Nancy Bani Drew is and also how close and protective she is of her sisters.
He might be afraid that she might smell a rat.And he definitely does not want another banwas so soon.

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

thanks for the post klueless but i would like to differ

i would have thought jai as a weak person if he had accepted pia's resignation...
if pia resigns...she wont be around him which would make him more comfortable and his gulity feeling may die its own death...
but now he is so sure of his feelings for bani that pia and her presence doesnt matter to him now.
he may feel guilty about what happened but he certainly not in dilemma over to chose from bani and pia
he has made his choice clearer and hence having pia around him wont bother him and he is sure that his marriage with bani will not be at risk since he has eyes for bani only
and he can never think about pia the way he did before
again he is a wise man
pia resigning so suddenly right after their arrival from dubai would attract loads of questions...
i think he is thinking both ways now.

i appreciate that he has human consideration for pia and he has not indulged in blame game with her...he respects her as a human but then thats it...

i hope i have not offended anyone...these are my views.

I cant call Jai a wise Man for being insensitie to waht Pia was going thru . Sure Its Good that he has finally reached a decision that Bani is The one for him . So he has no problems being around a broken hearted pia . looks Like he was being pretty selfish .. now coz he doesnt want her so she must go on feeling miserable being around him when hse was going thru agony . I thouht he was a caring sensible and empathizing human being but his action.. by not accepting her resignation just proved me wrong . it was just all about him . The girl is in love with him and cant go on ...instead of admitting that she has taken the rite step by resigning he wants her to go on hurting everytime she is around him or sees him . I think Pia did the most sensible thing in a Long time . she had moe common sense than he did . just had a nite with her and didnt give two hoots about her emotions . as a sensitive and vulnerable girl .

klue