Quiting is NOT the answer - Page 28

Originally posted by: s.priya

You said it dear.

Come to the proper forum to address ur greivances. This is not the place for it.

Ya priya.. so much for freedom of speech!! i thought you were the one to say that everyone has the right to talk or express their opinions!!

So why did you banned becky's ID!! They are really hurt by your actions!! I see you got irritated already!! So much for being fair mods!

Originally posted by: tisha

Priya,

The KS viewbies had posted a volunteer list who post the DOTW every week.

Apart from that, they had made another thread for universal discussion and there were lots of rules in the first page.

As Khoo mentioned, can we have a universal thread with no rules and that should be made as a sticky.

Now , here's my POV.

If the AF thread existed on its own and a Universal thread existed as a sticky, would that be a big problem.

Why is this incessant push for making the AF thread move to the fan club.

They discuss the episodes of KS and they laud Ram and criticize Prachi on the thread. So it is not a fan thread but a discussion thread.

I don't post anything on the DOTW of the week or the UNIVERSAL thread . I post my own POV about Prachi and people choose to partcipate or not. Does that make my post not a KS post but a pro Prachi post and hence does it need to be moved to the fan section.

My suggestion

1.Have a DOTW post as in the past.

2. Have a Universal thread if people wich to discuss KS there.

3. Leave the Af thread as it is.

Would that make Khoo and Monika return?

tisha

What you have suggested is what we have been saying from day one of this issue.

Lets implement this solution. It is the best in the circumstances

Originally posted by: khoo

Ya priya.. so much for freedom of speech!! i thought you were the one to say that everyone has the right to talk or express their opinions!!

So why did you banned becky's ID!! They are really hurt by your actions!! I see you got irritated already!! So much for being fair mods!

Of course, we still maintian it. 😃

U have to talk about it. We have a forum for it, which is not this section.

U r welcome to come and discuss and express your opinion.

😛

Okay Mods:

Please tell us, what decision have you taken!! WHat compromise are you willing to make?

YOu still didn't answer my question priya!! Why did you banned becky's ID when she was expressing her opinions!!

Originally posted by: tisha

Priya,

The KS viewbies had posted a volunteer list who post the DOTW every week.

Apart from that, they had made another thread for universal discussion and there were lots of rules in the first page.

As Khoo mentioned, can we have a universal thread with no rules and that should be made as a sticky.

Now , here's my POV.

If the AF thread existed on its own and a Universal thread existed as a sticky, would that be a big problem.

Why is this incessant push for making the AF thread move to the fan club.

They discuss the episodes of KS and they laud Ram and criticize Prachi on the thread. So it is not a fan thread but a discussion thread.

I don't post anything on the DOTW of the week or the UNIVERSAL thread . I post my own POV about Prachi and people choose to partcipate or not. Does that make my post not a KS post but a pro Prachi post and hence does it need to be moved to the fan section.

My suggestion

1.Have a DOTW post as in the past.

2. Have a Universal thread if people wich to discuss KS there.

3. Leave the Af thread as it is.

Would that make Khoo and Monika return?

tisha

Great suggestion Tisha. Lets do it and get on with our lives!!

Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

Good point lima…beckz told me about this situation! Poor you and your hubby yaar!

Thanks yaar. I appreciated.

Me and My Husband are not POOR. By Heart, Mind, self respect, what ever you name it...and consider the good quality of of a human being...in this respect...

We are RICH.

Lima dear, you mistake what I wrote in my post or rather I guess I haven't been able to put across what I meant. I must take English lessons from Minnie.I never meant that any of you provoked us. We quit because of like I said solidarity. I never talked about egoeither, rather I have supported Monika and Khoo tried to analyze why they resigned from their post. I am not taking sides. I am trying to do what all are trying to do. Get you guys back so I can have my family back.
And as for shying away Khoo and Monika, I don't mean only you too. I mean everybody who quit, including me.
What I mean is let us get everything out in to the open resolve everything and get done and over with this for ever so we can go back to being what we were what we deserve to be. Let this be the last time anything like this happens.
Minnie, a stupid question but does IF have rules and guidelines clearly etched out for mods and members alike? I am rather new here and haven't really paid attention to the rule book. If there is then why did this problem arise at all?
As for the prodigal daughter comment, I guess that was tactless but I meant it to lighten up the mood. Sorry for the pathetic attempt at humor. If you will read my post carefully I have said very clearly that I understood each of you has a life and I really appreciate that you take time out for us. Highly obliged to you guys.
Tactless yes that I am but I am as interested as the rest to solve all this and have you guys back. Never meant to be nasty Lima. Sorry you felt that way.
Mods Khoo and Monika and all of you who have come back, thank you. You are all being very sensible and mature. Progress is that at least we have come down to putting down what's been bothering each of us and trying to find an answer. And you have my full support. In return, I ask back my Parivar. Is it too much to ask?
Since it looks like I am unable to contribute anything worthwhile and am probably adding fuel to fire, I'll say nothing more here. I just want a peaceful resolution and hope such an agreement is reached at that this doesn't happen ever again.
Thanks.
Yours sincerely
-Raaga

Originally posted by: khoo

Okay Mods:

Please tell us, what decision have you taken!! WHat compromise are you willing to make?

UNIVERSAL THREAD FOR DISCUSSIONS

AF thread for discussions.

The threads listed by Tisha in her post for Discussions.

Originally posted by: khoo

Okay Mods:

Please tell us, what decision have you taken!! WHat compromise are you willing to make?

How about you discuss this through PMs!! Senior Mods, I feel you guys should sort it out b/ween yourselves!

Not that anyone listens to me anyway!!😆😆

While you all are discussing the issues and trying to resolve the problems :
I have an out of context qs. - When is Ram Kapoor's interview ? I thought it should be on right now but it isn't 😭 . I cancelled all my plans to listen to it and he is not even here.
Instead of running my errands, I tried to make peace here but there are too many hot-heads so, I am going to stay out of it.