Bani is being hypocritical

Hey guys i know a whole lot of u would be fuming at the title of subject but trust me there is no pun intented and there really can be no greater fan of jai and bani than me....I used to love Ram Kapoor since Mansha days and was sooo angry at his death....

Okies anyways,as i was saying.....I dont think Bani was wrong in being angry with jai but provided she had not told Jai that it was not his fault and he shouldnt be at fault when she thought that Ranvijay's wife was killed by Jai....

Bani accused jai of taking her childhood away from her as she had to mother her sisters....But even when Jai had supposedly killed Mrs Chopra,hadnt he taken away raashi and rohit's childhood too???

Bani said that how could jai marry her despite the fact that he knew that he was the cause of agony!!But how come that does not apply when raashi was to marry ranveer?

I mean this is really hypocritical of Bani....She was not against Jai when jai had "killed" mrs chopra but she is against jai cos he accidentally killed her mother...

That is really hypocritical....I dont understand Bani's reaction completely...I understand her anger for jai but blaming jai for her being a mother at a tender age to her sisters is like so unethical cos she was forced to mother her sisters cos of her father who used to come home drunk every night...

Bani should forgive Jai...if she could forgive jai for "killing" mrs chopra,then i dont see why is kiran an exception...a life taken is a life taken so how does it matter whose life it is???

Dont get me wrong i still do love Bani-Jai and hope they get back really really soon...

yea - I gree wit hyou but imagine how it must feel to find out your hubby accidently killed your mother.

u know KkavyAngad what urs saying is absolutely right.

but what bani is going thru right now is not any hatred for jai.....its just her memories of her mom.....i mean right now she is feeling just to emotional and is getting all those memories of her mom back all at once....coz of which she is unable to think logically....i mean agar dekho tho shaadi ke din se lekar ab tak she hasnt had time to breathe or even think properly even once....first that sandy, then the flashback by jai, then the bomb, then cobra, then the fainting thing and the hospital, then masi, then jigs accusations, then the preganancy revelation, then jai slapping jigs.......so basically she is just too too confused and emotional.
my take is that she shud just run into jai's arms and let him console her and protect her....what say u???? 😃

"Bani said that how could jai marry her despite the fact that he knew that he was the cause of agony!!But how come that does not apply when raashi was to marry ranveer?"

BTW it was Bani who married Jai. Jai was actually marrying Pia...

she is not blaming him for killing her mother. But rather the pain she and her family went through after her mother died.

She went through that pain herself, it not a theoretical issue.
When he had killed Mrs Chopra then she was with him because she had no relation with her. She loved him more than a stranger.
But when it is her own mother, then she the right to be angry with him and hate him for the pain he caused HER.

No I disagree I actuall think that its a normal reaction. Because its true what they say that blood is thicker than water. I think anyone would have that reaction.
You also have to take into consideration that Raashi had Roshni the cobra, and Rohit had his Dad (if their mum had really died). Bani had no one, her Dad was a weak man who drank and left all the responsibilities on Bani. So i think that her reaction is normal.
What was wrong was Bani blaming Jai for her Dad's death.

I would feel the same way if my hubby had killed anyone else even if he/she were not related to me...IF i forgive my husband for taking someone else's mother's life i think i should forgive him even if it is my mother....

If i find it disgusting or unethical to forgive my husband for killing my mother,i dont see why i should forgive him for killing someone else....When Bani assured jai that nothing was his fault how can she suddenly take a 180-degree turn and blame him just cos the victim was my mother...

Just4fun....even pia was the daughter of kiran singhania!!!So whether it was bani or pia marrying jai,how can bani blame jai???

Totally agree with u afan....

Chickster,the basic foundation of blood is thicker than water is hypocritical and double standards...so i guess my arguement stays where it was?Bani had no one and that is y she is angry at jai?!shouldnt she be angry at her father who chose liquor over them??It was not jai's fault...

i agree with u but its not bani who is hypocritcal its the creatives who are making hre appear as one!

Quit making the creatives and Ekta's fault at all times....If something is nice in the character we commend the actor playing it...But if something is screwed up we blame the creative directors??That's kinda unfair isnt it?