marriage done as compromise-ur take?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hello frends

how are u all doing

well after yesterday finally shiv n gauri got married i was now curious to know whats in store for us in future

then i just thought what if we really face some similar situation😕

what do u guys think about marriage done as a compromise

do think it can work out

what if the partners are just not compatible

what if u try but the other person is just not intrested afterall u cant clap from only one hand

do u still think the gal has to keep trying even at the cost of her dignity

or is it just better to break it if things dont work out

in shiv n gauri's case as gauri is sure that shiv hates her n that in todays date shiv is the most arrogant person n hates gauri do u shes right if she later opts to break this marriage

whats ur whole idea on this situation on personal preferences or in simple words what will u do if u face a similar situation-if the partner is exactly a copy of shiv -afterall u have to share the whole life so pls give unbiased answers 😳 (if u dont mind sharing )

please drop in your views i will drop in mine later

love

anu

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Posted: 19 years ago
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what do u guys think about marriage done as a compromise

Well i think tht in this world at least 50% of marriages are arranged so there will be compromises in them but overall they cant be so bad

do think it can work out

Maybe, it totally depends on yr life partner's attitude and character.

what if the partners are just not compatible

There will be explosions and at the end of the marriage they will really hate each other. I have seen it happen before

what if u try but the other person is just not intrested afterall u cant clap from only one hand

If the other party is like tht they shdnt have gotten married no matter wht

do u still think the gal has to keep trying even at the cost of her dignity

in my opinion, no way after a while this is humiliating and not worth it if the guy gives no positive response

or is it just better to break it if things dont work out

Really depends if u ask me on the circumstance sof the marriage at tht point

in shiv n gauri's case as gauri is sure that shiv hates her n that in todays date shiv is the most arrogant person n hates gauri do u shes right if she later opts to break this marriage

She wont until shiv does something really bad to her and by then it will be too late to save their marriage so they might have a divorce in the future. Hope not though😃

whats ur whole idea on this situation on personal preferences or in simple words what will u do if u face a similar situation-if the partner is exactly a copy of shiv -afterall u have to share the whole life so pls give unbiased answers 😳 (if u dont mind sharing )

I wouldnt commit to such a marriage as there is no fairy ending to hatred like those in the serials and u will be able to see a future of such marriage which is divorce. There will never be a change in the person's attitude in real life.

luv rinita

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think now hiten will come in gauris life n will start liking her!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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nooooooooo dat can't happen gauri can't strt lykin hiten wy can't ekta fink of hr on storylines does she av 2 copy others all da tym
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: evilhazima

nooooooooo dat can't happen gauri can't strt lykin hiten wy can't ekta fink of hr on storylines does she av 2 copy others all da tym

lolll.....a person who copies herself most of the time.....wat more can u expect from her? 😆

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Gosh, I would NEVER marry a person who feels hatred for me!! As for the issue of compromise, I personally feel it has to be mutual (alhtough prolly not a very realistic thought, considering how a lot of men from the subcontinent are 😡 )
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I honestly think dis weddin was really stupid. I mean, S n G cant get along at all, and I mean, G doesnt love S and S def. doesnt liek G. Their going to go through so many hard times now, mayb one day it'll work out, but I mean, it is worth it? I think compromises in marriage the rly dumb and jus ruin lives.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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what do u guys think about marriage done as a compromise

Well i think tht in this world at least 50% of marriages are arranged so there will be compromises in them but overall they cant be so bad


What Rinita said is right, more than 50 % of the marriages are arranged and compromised ones

But i think if you have compromised then you should really give it a chance to your marriage ,but if your partner does'nt want to have relation with you it is better to break up as there no use that you just wait & wait & wait that person will like you some day 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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you atleast should give it a try if it fails then it fails you can say to youre self then i atleast gave it a shot

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