Firstly I loved Niti and will cntn too,fr the person she is and will always pray for her wellbeing not as a fan bt well wisher. But not through SNS, sorry.
Here is my confession
Since the day show started ,this fandom never felt short of offscreen dramas till now and what bothered me is ,she being involved evry dam time( most of d tym ,she couldn't help it) . And i am not ignorant of her childishness nd mistakes, but it is my choice to still love her.Till VG drama most of the fandom were fine with PANi,MANAN , though some disliked either of them . From then ,started the vicious cycle of "
DRAMA OF KARAM" (while Karma saying - Poor ppl, i would hv gvn pass to their own deeds ,if they hv chanted Rama/respective god name instead) and finally ppl part of this story (fans) are real spacegoats.
Drama description:
NOTE:Ignoring ppl who left this Fandom(lucky fellows i say).nd
1. MANAN FANS-(most of thm tried to ignore offscreen while most of them succeeded ,others still scribing.)
2.PANI FANS( God save you People , umm let me try- I knw I am being useless... There is no PANI nd u ppl r still pretending bcs either
-You are d creator of PANI feels (through ffs r editing skill )nd mny pani lovers count on u,so don't want to hurt you ego by accepting fact and loose virtual friends.
-Read so many ffs imagining Pani and u don't want to cm out of tht dream.
-You must be seriously crazy human nd prv to ds damn world tht ur hardcore shipper )
3.people who still love both without feels ( very few i knw bt advice fr u ppl- These dramas make ur life hell as vry fw ppl will understand u ,so avoid it or choose either of them to save urself )
4 ppl who keep them out of any drama but use SNS only to wish gud fr their fvrt nd disappear bt nvr badmouthed abt rival grp ( very very few ppl bt u ppl earned at most respect man)
End of very HUGE note.
Now coming to the DRAMA OF KARMA(short one).
Participants are PA fans and NI fans most of the tym While most of above mentioned ppl(critics) after completing their pop corns appear to give GYANN to fandom directly or indirectly and to sharpen their humour skills once in a while.
Story is ,after VG dram , either of their fans started learning new mathematics called KARMA Mathematics .All they doing for days is ..wait for their numbers to come do their own calculation based on the deeds done by the rival and declare the result as KARMA of either PA r NI. This exactly source and destination of circular KYY offscreen drama nd to add Masala to this concept KYY other cast is doing their part successfully( don't want to gv thm addtnl attention as they r getting in tons) .
And you knw what is helping this Drama to run successfully for years " COMPETITIVE SPIRIT " . (While the show is on air it played imp part for d success of the show as PA nd NI worked hard to outdo one another.)
This spirit btwn their fans to score high marks in this karma maths keep this drama running frvr because
1. They made a decision to follow either of them unconditionally and they don't want hurt their ego accepting when their choice r idol is wrong.
2. They have already said so much about the opposite party and always been hailed for that by fellow ppl at times.So, they don't want to eat their own words in front of those ppl.
3. Some toppers of the exam are highly obsessed ppl who observe minute details happening in their both lives and turn every situations either in the favour or against both of them. And as usual remaining ppl thinks toppers r ryt nd follow them blindly . They might do phd on this subject .
4. Same goes wd Trends ,competitive spirit again just to add few more points when declaring the result
5. Nd endless reasons...Ufff .
This is never ending drama nd no it doesn't entertain you instead make you suffer badly .
Me too contributed my part at times in this drama bt no more . Finally moving on from MANAN too because they brings all this drama back to your life.
So fellow ppl who are experiencing similar phase and thinking of moving on, this is my littlest effort to support your view. Don't stop loving your fvrt bt not through SNS, bcs it involuntary drags you back into tht drama .
And ppl who r still for this drama and will frvr be
1. You don't know them personally and you don't know exactly what happened
2. Nobody are perfect .
3. Its okay to accept truth at times.
4. Time is precious , so stop killing your time for hours on SNS standing fr stranger neglecting Real FAMILY AND FRIENDS and time allotted for your self growth .
5. At the end only you suffer amidst of defending the Chios created by them while they njy their lyf nd reach gud position at d cost of you time.
6. Ppl change , so do we .Accept the change if it does good to you . Ppl judge u however.
So, stop throwing mud at each other..support your fvrt bt nt by defaming other.This is the least you could do to stop this drama.
-For the ppl who are facing real lyf problems and find these places as escape routs ..this will b the worst idea . Instead facing real problems r more entertaining nd challenging as they teach you and make you grow in your real life.
-And for the people who think that this whole facade should be followed by spoiling peace of mind as we can learn so many things about Reel nd real life, SNS dramas, types of ppl, get virtual friends,conspiracy ,karma spcly ect. All the best '(u top d list of ppl hvng patience )
And Damn ! At last I succeeded in writing long notes (trained under this fandom). But no finding grammar mistakes as i am not publishing nything.
No Offences . This is the last thing, i could do before saying my goodbyes to this fandom and I will be truly happy ,if it helps at least one ,to attain peace of mind, so that they can concentrate on real stuff.
I did not interact wd anyone personally r virtually frm this fandom as i always been a silent spectator. As i do not know where to post this long note, i am posting it here. Hope you ppl cn help this message to reach few ppl atleast. Thanks in advance .
Don't bother replying as am not visiting this place later. Good day