Originally posted by: charminggenie
A girl who gets defensive when put on spot and hides stuff is a perfect example of a perfect girl? A girl who gets confused or tries to numb out experiences is not real?😆
All of them exist in this world. There is a Nandini in every girl. And there are lots like her. But we tend to expect perfection from her. Yes Nandini has a perfect love story .
There is a difference between the lines here, "there is a Nandini in every girl" vs "how many really play the role of Nandini to the extend she plays in the show", how many will go above and beyond for the people who still insulted her, or bullied her or abused her, and she still came out shining through all that. So yes there is a want to be a Nandini in all of us, vs really playing her role and achieving what she has accomplished till date. So I said she was out of her character today, when she took the hidden path and not being open about her plans...No , they never deal with their issues separately. Navya took help from Nandini, Mukti and later on she met Cabir , where she too at one point was dependent on her- it took Cabir to remind her that though he will support her but the kid is not staying. She realized it all on her.
Won't comment on Mukbhi because that was half-baked. Superficial. We like to think it worked but nah not really. But she slept around , had that fashion moment after Abhimanyu . It took that incident to change her around to a great extent.Alya- Why is it necessary for her to find a guy or an anchor?
The same reasons I explained earlier, she needs to be loved, she craves it cause shes never fully had it ever... she sees Manik has moved on with Nandini, so feels why not her, why can't she be loved, is it really wrong to ask someone why can't they be loved? Just think about being in her state and not judge her from outlines...Why is it just because the other girls have pity parties , they become normal and real while someone who cries , hides and reacts like normal us , is considered perfection?
Perfection is a perception and it will always differ from one to another, so what might seem perfect to you might not be perfect to me, I may think the person hiding is not perfect vs you think they are, so which way do we go with this 😉