It's not about Patchup!

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Manoshono

@Manoshono

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

Yes... It isn't just about patch up. MaNan arent typical love birds that needs to be together without realizing what actually they have in between. A lot of people are considering Nandini to woo Manik back. For what? Is she the one who hasn't realize it's love? No... It's Manik who thinks that the emotions that are floating between them has nothing to do with love rather it's just a strong sensation of care, tender and what not.

There might have been many situations in Manik's life in which it turned him not to trust the word love or not have any clue of what it really means. Manik is what he has been in the past. What has made him change a bit is Nandini's point of views on certain things. But what hasn't really changed is his stubbornness and the way he believed that he can make people go either his way or the high way. No Manik.. You need to understand that life doesn't just stand on the bases of Tender and care. It has to do with more than that. Will he spend the rest of his life with Nandini believing that their relationship contains only care?. And what about then, when Nandini tells him that she loves him? Will he agree? Absolutely not.

Before they start afresh, they(specially Manik) needs to realize they are in love. They can't be ignoring such a vital aspect that their relationship is based upon. I feel Harshad might play a critical role again in the process realization. CVs are playing it very carefully and I absolutely adore them for taking delicate MaNan to such an extent where they can become strong. They are heading for the final confession which might take some time. And I loved how gradually they are putting all the pieces together. We have to have patience for it and lets keep it positive because I know their final confession will be worth a wait. 😃

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Autumn_Hue

@Autumn_Hue

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Yes just some more patience to see this beautiful love story complete in all aspects can't wait for the day they confess yet we all know they need to understand the depth of their feelings for each other their intensity of love specially Manik amongst the two of them he has to move past the idea of naming this thing between them rather I'd say relation between them as tender care and not love..

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Opti

@Opti

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

As things stand Manan's relationship is very lopsided. Manik made Nandini promise him that she will shine for him like a star, that she will keep him in her prayers always and will eternally trust him but what did he promise her in return? Nothing. So at least from his side it is only about taking from her and not giving to her. Granted that Nandini being a giving person did not ask him for anything in return for the promises she made but then the true joy of loving is in giving and Manik needs to learn this and experience this himself.

Moreover, Nandini is having to shoulder the load of their relationship, act as the mature partner while Manik continues to bask in his immaturity. While her life experiences has taught her well to handle that responsibility, she needs to at least get some help from Manik in holding together their relationship. If he keeps pulling in the other direction, her task becomes all the more difficult.

Ideally when two people get together they should bring out the best in each other but if they end up bringing out the worst in each other, then there is a need to step back and reassess their relationship to see where they were going wrong. Nandini was not stubborn by nature but because Manik was stubborn, she too turned stubborn and the end result was Manik nearly lost his hand and possibly his music which was his life. If he had lost his arm, she would have died of guilt. So basically both have committed their mistakes. They need to learn from them, forgive themselves and pick up the pieces of their lives to get back on track.

The good part is that there is no misunderstanding. Both are clearly aware of the intensity of the feelings of their partners, but sometimes love ain't enough. They need better understanding of themselves, each other and the role each have in the other's life. Manik needs to grow up and learn to start giving. Maybe he can think of a few promises he can give her like trying to not make her cry and putting a smile on her face, whenever he can, guarding and protecting not only her but her family (particularly Rishab) etc.

Nandini needs to understand that she has fallen in love with this boy-man and, hence, has to be a bit more tolerant and patient with him while he learns how to handle their relationship.

Lets see how much of all this the current 'break' achieves.

Edited by Opti - 10 years ago