KYPH & IF:IMPORTANT,do read.

Hi everybody,

I have been reading the messages posted recently and after what I am going to say...many of you are probably going to end up hating me but i don't care.I'll put across my point for sure.

First thing....KYPH is not a laughing stock....it's we (me included) who are turning it into one...Angad's teeth...Karthik's teeth....AniTtah's assets... and a plethora of other things.Making fun of Naina is excusable.

Everybody is making moral judgements on Kripa...mumbai ki hawa lag gayi....where are her morals and values etc etc.I don't think that I'll ever be able to explain it...but Kripa in her heart and soul is married to Angad...in a way which the world would never understand.It may not mean anything to anyone else but sindoor meant a lot to her...so much so that even Angad wouldn't understand it's impact.....you really can't decide what's wrong or right here.Kripa is not a hypocrite..........what Angad means to her is beyond a stranger's understanding.If anyone here has read ERICH SEGAL'S "ACTS OF FAITH"....he or she will perhaps have broader view of this situation.If Kripa's conscience is with her, then we are nobody to point a finger at her.

This forum is getting unhealthy and if this trend continues, I don't think I'll be able to survive for long here.

On the last note,

When you love someone.....you don't need rituals and a social stamp to bind you to that person.Nobody else can understand what you think and feel at that moment.All ppl can do is stand at the shore and point fingers at you and make moral judgements...but it doesn't matter...ultimately it's between you and GOD....ppl can go take a walk.Your heart wants what it wants....the logic is beyond miniscule human understanding.If your loved one lets you down...it's his/her failure.....hearbreak follows but the only consolation is that you were true to your love.Love is a package-deal...if you can't accept it that way, don't fall in love at all.

Have a heart ppl...KYPH is just a serial but your reactions are real and they reflect the human-being inside you.

Angad and Kripa are terrific...it's Ekta who needs to be executed.

I think I have made my point.

***Edited by Moderators for bad use of language***

dont worry nitu i dont hate u ...

infact i love u more now!!!

that was very thoughtful of u !!!! indeed every one is forgetting that its jus a serial[including me😭]& they r ju real characters & not real persons

Awwwwwww...don't cry ,Anjali.It's just that am so disappointed with myself and other people...how can we go so insensitive on relationships...I remember what Shakespeare had said once.....fickleness is the character of the mob and am no different.

Originally posted by: nitica_82

I don't think that I'll ever be able to explain it...but Kripa in her heart and soul is married to Angad...in a way which the world would never understand.Kripa is not a hypocrite..........what Angad means to her is beyond a stranger's understanding.If anyone here has read ERICH SEGAL'S "ACTS OF FAITH"....he or she will perhaps have broader view of this situation.

When you love someone.....you don't need rituals and a social stamp to bind you to that person.Nobody else can understand what you think and feel at that moment.All ppl can do is stand at the shore and point fingers at you and make moral judgements...but it doesn't matter...ultimately it's between you and GOD...Your heart wants what it wants....the logic is beyond miniscule human understanding.If your loved one lets you down...it's his/her failure.....hearbreak follows but the only consolation is that you were true to your love.Love is a package-deal...if you can't accept it that way, don't fall in love at all.

You are right Nitica didi. I have read Acts of Faith and Tim and Deborah's passion made no sense to anyone else but themselves, so that they kept on waiting for each other even though circumstances looked impossible. What Kripa has done is give herself completely over to Angad, and I think he has done the same...because in love, two people are no longer separate entities, they are parts of a bigger whole. It takes great courage to give so openly, because most of us have been hurt at one point or another, and so, in fear of being vulnerable to more pain, we close ourselves away, and there is nothing so painful as an unlived life lived in perpetual fear of pain.

Its not KYPH or Angad-Kripa, but the makers of the serial I am disappointed in, because truly, not every couple who engage in Pre-marital sex are soul-mates like A-K, but often do it for experimentation. Also, most people do nont understand the difference between infatuation and love. They should not take KYPH as examples or shining models of conduct, because it defeats the whole purpose... we should remember that love is not a game, nor is sexual intimacy, which can give rise to consequences most of us are too young to deal with. If any of us could find the logical formula for love, we would be millionaires. But it is something that defies explanation, so please lets not make fun of people genuinely in love. Also, Kripa is very young and Angad too...you can't expect them to have as wise heads as older people. Passion is never expected or logical...if it were, it would make Angad the greatest seducer and Kripa the worst fool in the world...We have to admit what they did was not pre-planned, so we should give things a rest.

Mumbai does not make people do weird things, nor does being from a small town...woh to insaan ke fidrat mein hi hota hai...so lets not poke fun at all mumbaikars by assuming that Kripa acts the way she does because she is in Mumbai. She would have acted the same way with Angad whether in London or in the poorest village in India...dil ki baat sirf dil hi jaaane.

hey nitica...no ones going to hate u...its ur opinion yaar... if u feel what kripa and angad did was rite, then tt entirely your opinion...

but diff ppl can think in a diff ways rite? i feel strongly about it cos i am personally against pre marital sex...for them they maybe married but not for me personally...maybe i cant understand what kripa and angad feel for each other...and as for ppl make it a laughing stock..i dun think anyone is doing it intentionally...we all love this serial as much as u do😊

yep i noe its fiction, but it literally becomes a part of ur life, so sometimes we cannot see the difference i guess...

hope u didnt mistake me..

I respect Ur opinion Nitica. But I never forgot that its a serial. In fact, the fact that its a serila is what makes me more mad in the first place. It has worldwide viewership, and the producers should be aware of what they R showing. U look at it one way, as U have the experience and understanding that comes with age ( I hope I am safe to assume that U R over 18?) . Not all the viewers have this experience.

When they show stuff like that, they just put a big ? on the BF-GF relation. First of all, anybody who is in love, thinks its forever!!! Atleast most people do. When they show stuff like that, they just put people in a moral dilemma, should we, shouldn't we???

U talked about "Acts of faith", sorry I havent read it! I guess its how U look at it. U look at it in a mature way, I think of it in a practical way. But I have read "Tess, of Durberville". It didn't make her life any easier!!! So I think we can agree to disagree😉 Love ya all the same

I forgot to add, if U decide to go physical in a realtionship in GOOD FAITH or just do it as a result of getting caught up in a moment of passion the consequences are the same, if U dont put a social approval on it. My opinion entirely!!

Hey Nitica,

Hun you definitely make sense and all it takes is to understand emotions and one's feelings. I would like to add a little personal note on love--people seem to be unhappy that they don't receive enough love, but the primary problem is that we don't give enough love in order to receive it. Well, I guess we can all at least try to understand an individual's point of view before criticizing them in anyway.

So I totally agree with you about Kripa's love and how deep it is concerning Angad. Faith is very important-- for a person who has faith no explanation is necessary and to one who doesn't have faith no explanation is possible. Kripa's hold immense amount of faith in Angad's love and we shouldn't be blaming her for that. I am not trying to give a lecture or anything, but it would be great if everyone makes an effort to gain insight about others feelings. I hope you guys agree.😊

-Love4ever!

if you're talking about me... nittu... I HAVE SERIOUSLY NEVER IN MY LIFE ASSUMED I HAVE ENOUGH AUTHORITY TO MAKE MORAL JUDGEMENTS ON PPL... LET ALONE FICTIONAL PPL!

so...

as far as your view on marriage goes... if you've read my latest post... I AGREE WITH YOU...