Pari is WRONG

im sorry to say but ithink pari is wrong in this by having a relationship with married man, to me is just wrong and I know we cant only blame her , rohan is equally to blamed for it. but I know you cant have control over your feelings but I would back up if I was pari, but I don't like it all .

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Yes Pari is wrong and I have more than one reason to hate her. But in this scenario, I would say if Pari is 49.5% to blame, Rohan is 50.5%. Pari is single and she is not committed to anybody whereas Rohan is committed to Tanya and he has to abide by his responsibilities towards her and now their child. Let's say Pari made the first move towards Rohan but Rohan should have thought about Tanya. If it was Ajeeth or anyone else who were single abd probably hooked up with Pari for a casual fling then I would say both Pari and the guy were equally responsible. Yes in an extramarital affair the third wheel is to be blamed coz they are wrong on many grounds but what about the person bound by marriage? Who is more guilty? The one who led the person astray or the person who actually strayed? A person can try to mislead you but its your choice whether you want to be misled or not.

However where family is concerned, I would still say Rohan is a better person compared to Pari coz he cares for his family unlike Pari who thinks of nobody other than herself.

Yes Pari is wrong and I have more than one reason to hate her. But in this scenario, I would say if Pari is 49.5% to blame, Rohan is 50.5%. Pari is single and she is not committed to anybody whereas Rohan is committed to Tanya and he has to abide by his responsibilities towards her and now their child. Let's say Pari made the first move towards Rohan but Rohan should have thought about Tanya. If it was Ajeeth or anyone else who were single abd probably hooked up with Pari for a casual fling then I would say both Pari and the guy were equally responsible. Yes in an extramarital affair the third wheel is to be blamed coz they are wrong on many grounds but what about the person bound by marriage? Who is more guilty? The one who led the person astray or the person who actually strayed? A person can try to mislead you but its your choice whether you want to be misled or not.

However where family is concerned, I would still say Rohan is a better person compared to Pari coz he cares for his family unlike Pari who thinks of nobody other than herself.

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Agree with your thoughts. But will blame pari more on the following basis..

pari was not cheated like in so many other cases where the male says I am not married and when they are caught by the other woman then the excuse of how bad the wife is and his only solace in life is her blaha blah. The sad reality women (both) believe this shit time and again.

Also blame pari more on the basis of women supporting each other. Wish pari thought about Tanya on the basis of sisterhood. If Rohan capable of doing this to his wife then how long will it take for him to cheat on you??

Pari is wrong on so many grounds. Not a good sister, daughter or friend. But most of all she is spoiled brat. Feel she made a terrible mistake where else For Rohan it's a lifestyle.. Remember pari is not his first and will not be last either...

Rohan has multiple personally. What he did is betrayal which can't be forgiven. He betrayed his loved ones trust. He can't and should not be redeemed.

Loyalty and trust are constant. Attraction and love are variables.

Originally posted by: mthiru

Agree with your thoughts. But will blame pari more on the following basis..

pari was not cheated like in so many other cases where the male says I am not married and when they are caught by the other woman then the excuse of how bad the wife is and his only solace in life is her blaha blah. The sad reality women (both) believe this shit time and again.

Also blame pari more on the basis of women supporting each other. Wish pari thought about Tanya on the basis of sisterhood. If Rohan capable of doing this to his wife then how long will it take for him to cheat on you??

Pari is wrong on so many grounds. Not a good sister, daughter or friend. But most of all she is spoiled brat. Feel she made a terrible mistake where else For Rohan it's a lifestyle.. Remember pari is not his first and will not be last either...

Rohan has multiple personally. What he did is betrayal which can't be forgiven. He betrayed his loved ones trust. He can't and should not be redeemed.

Loyalty and trust are constant. Attraction and love are variables.

I hate Pari more than Rohan to be honest and I do agree Pari is a horrible person in general. Not a good daughter, sister and not even a good professional coz she wants things to fall in her lap instead of working hard for it. She has only been cashing in on her sister's popularity instead of building a future for herself. Normally in any extra marital affair the woman is solely to blame. Which is why I personally felt Rohan is more at fault. Who is Tanya to Pari? Why should she care for a stranger? Is Tanya her friend? But Tanya is Rohan's wife. Rohan had promised to be her side always when he took his marriage vows with her. Rohan has violated the sanctity of marriage. Pari has definitely wronged Tanya but she was not bound to Tanya in any way before she got into an affair with Rohan. Shraddha, KSG's first wife in an interview once said she does not blame the women KSG had an affair with for breaking her marriage coz it was KSG who took the wedding vows with her and not them and I agree with her.

IMO in a relationship both have to be faithful and honest. Rohan has breached that, Pari is single unmarried and not committed. Rohan is to be blamed slightly more here as he is answerable to people because he is committed and has a wife at home who he has been conveniently lying to. For Tanya, who is Pari, she is to blame Rohan first because he let someone else come between them. However both are wrong here, and it’s unforgivable. Pari is a failure as human in general but here Rohan is more at fault than her. Not because he was luring into it only because he was the one married and breaching his lines not her. But then in our society people blame it entirely on the other woman. Which is wrong, the guy is more than her.

I just hate Pari she is just disgusting...😡

Originally posted by: mehbeer1

im sorry to say but ithink pari is wrong in this by having a relationship with married man, to me is just wrong and I know we cant only blame her , rohan is equally to blamed for it. but I know you cant have control over your feelings but I would back up if I was pari, but I don't like it all .

Honestly both Pari and Rohan don’t look serious abt any relationship ...their characters and image from the start has been that way...and there is no change till now ....also Rohan was doing tp was clear and same with Pari ...she was never serious and was just doing tp for her career ...now suddenly they have shown both are serious but their attitude has not changed and personalities remain the same ...so how is it convincing that they are serious abt the relationship ...somehow not convincing ....when they decided to make them serious atleast show them change 10%

Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv

IMO in a relationship both have to be faithful and honest. Rohan has breached that, Pari is single unmarried and not committed. Rohan is to be blamed slightly more here as he is answerable to people because he is committed and has a wife at home who he has been conveniently lying to. For Tanya, who is Pari, she is to blame Rohan first because he let someone else come between them. However both are wrong here, and it’s unforgivable. Pari is a failure as human in general but here Rohan is more at fault than her. Not because he was luring into it only because he was the one married and breaching his lines not her. But then in our society people blame it entirely on the other woman. Which is wrong, the guy is more than her.

@bold - absolutely!

Both are shameless. But Rohan is totally wrong .... even if Pari had initiated flirting, he must have backed off knowing he is married. I vaguely remember Pari even asking him why he's flirting inspite of being married ... if he doesn't love his wife ... this scumbag replies that his marital status doesn't matter to be together. I feel sorry for Tanya. No girl deserves a husband like this. But they aren't showing how Tanya and Rohan married each other ... how is it that he married so early ... why was she suspecting him so much at the beginning and suddenly changed. Even when Deepa suggested he might be cheating, Tanya just coolly asked for evidence ... but they did show Rohan had been a playboy ... No use blaming Pari - if not Pari, it would have been someone else.