Originally posted by: IFLove
No Mandy, I don't feel the show is doing perfectly fine...I have certain issues too or maybe all of them that y'all have. And yes, y'all are entitled to ur opinions and I don't intend to question them as I stated in my first statement itself. The only issue I have is I hardly see any appreciation these days for the show as a whole. It might not be as good as it used to be before, but there r certainly some good things too. Due to time constraints, I have not been able to go through the EDT to see how y'all r liking the episodes. I just keep a check on this thread to get updates of the upcoming scenes n I see mostly everybody gets upset or has some issue with every video coming in. Hence I just felt a bit negative n I said what I felt. I don't mean to question anyone's liking.
To give my opinion, if I ignore the issues I have with this show, I m liking how they are interlinking the characters and building some side stories too which they lacked during dipika's absence and the show went haywire. They have made Tanya pregnant and involved her in PaRo-deepa story thereby involving the whole family now. Siyappa aunty-raima chugli story, Raima's insecurity, Naren's disagreement about ronakshi wedding, Naren's past and YK's involvement in it and maybe pooja's truth... everything is getting interlinked. Before, everything used to be ronakshi alone n when one of them couldn't deliver, we could see how it affected the show...hence these side stories r important too, they r not just too many villains only. Today they also showed us how they all are learning to understanding eachother. Badi mumma made an easy going and friendly bond with Sona with that cute teasing, Sona tried to bond with veena on emotional levels trying to understand her tension and helping her in it, Sona tried to bond with Naren giving him the respect he demands by agreeing to his venue suggestion, whereas Rohit tried to understand suman and just accepted whatever wedding venue she was suggesting with a chalta hai, not a big issue nod, Rohit gave up on his Goregaon-Malabar hill issues supporting Sona and understanding how it might be hurting her, Sona behaved like a family by caring about pregnant Tanya. So many good things too r happening in the show. It's not just a stretched wedding track but they r taking time to develop the bonds with love as well as overcoming the differences.
One thing none of us can deny is that only 2 people can't run a show. To keep the show going on, they need to have side characters and their stories. When they give us absolutely unrelated side stories like Rohan-Pari's we get bored n skip their parts. So they r trying to show the individual stories of side characters but they r somehow getting linked with the leads. The big family only around the couple also gets boring after a while as if inko khudke life mein koi aur kaam nahi hai kya. The balance they r trying to strike considering all these things is really commendable is what I feel. But due to whatever reasons, I see that hardly anybody is interested in the story as a whole but just about those 10 mins of leads we get in every episode and there too we have complaints with the editors because we have already seen the segments. I feel we r being a bit harsh on the makers. This is the reason I vented out today. I m sorry if it offended anybody.