Neelam n her Limitz..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hii all as we know how Neelam is but i got 2 say shes crossing her limits with her marrige with Pankaj say bad thingz too him n makin out that he is the one in the wrong..An in a way shes in wrong as well i think as her famili onli got her married too Pankaj is because of there finance stituation..
An wow he made the right decision in away for divorcin her also but makes me wonder what will happn next...
What do u guyz thin say ur viewz?😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Normally, what Neelam did would be wrong if she did it to a decent guy. I cringe to think what might have happened had she, instead of Sudha, married Uday: poor thing would have been left w/ a wife who didn't love him @ all. But in case of Pankaj, he has what he richly deserves, even if what's happening to him is wrong, it's just! As for Neelam, it's possible that w/ Gautam, she'd have had a happier marriage, as well as his company to his friends, parties and so on.

On Neelam's behavior w/ Pankaj, I don't totally blame her. Initially, after their wedding, he's lost in thoughts of Jyoti on their wedding night: which wife will appreciate that? Later, when she asks him to accompany her to her friends parties, he does it a couple of times, and then gives up, saying that he's bored. Has Pankaj forgotten the number of times Jyoti had to accompany Bhairavi to parties where her only role was to be a trophy bahu? That was no fun for Jyoti either. Also, if Pankaj can't support his wife and accompany her to her parties, then Neelam is right - he has no right to demand from her that she get home on time.

Her snatching Pankaj's phone from him was undoubtedly rude, as she didn't give him any privacy, but then again, when did Bhairavi ever respect Jyoti's privacy? In fact, neither did Pankaj - @ one level, Jyoti could have argued that Sushma was her private affair and nothing to do w/ him, and that her only fault was not telling him whenever she was out to hunt Brij. Since Jyoti's privacy was never respected, it's good that neither is Pankaj's. In fact, I'd even like Neelam to break in on one of Bhairavi's phone calls and threaten to expose her to Pankaj, if she dared take his side. In fact, I'd like Neelam to blackmail Bhairavi and get Minal kicked out again, if Bhairavi didn't support her vis a vis Pankaj.

Plus, Neelam never wanted to marry Pankaj, but was blackmailed into doing it by her mom, who used her dad's BP as an excuse. So I don't blame her, but I do blame her parents, Kesav-ji and Bhairavi for forcing this marriage. I particularly loathe Bhairavi (yeah, what's new) for agreeing to her for first Uday, and then Pankaj, w/o trying to know what sort of girl she was and then comparing her to Sudha.

As for Neelam's comments about Pankaj's blindness, granted they were crude, but frankly, I was sick of Jyoti praising Pankaj as though he had some special gifts. Also, I was sick of everybody - Jyoti, CM, Uday, Sudha et al grovelling to Pankaj, and was glad that @ least Neelam can tell him on his face what the world really thinks of him.

As for what will happen, Pankaj will try and get a divorce, Neelam will object and I don't see Bhairavi putting pressure on her the way she did on Jyoti, and I think Pankaj will notice this contrast, and figure out something is fishy. I can see her dragging this on, until she gets a settlement that her parents are okay w/, and then she'll leave and maybe marry Gautam. The Vashist fortunes will be a shadow of what they were, thanks to Pankaj & Bhairavi.

I also hope that Pankaj is told by Brij everything Bhairavi did, but not before Jyoti is @ the mandap and safely married to Kabir.
Edited by Vrisha - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Neelam and her silly stuff can go to hell
Wo Pankaj ko choddh de yahi bahut hai, I can't tolerate her in the show anymore

But this is not enough
Pankaj has not yet realised that he had committed a mistake by leaving Jyoti
He only thinks that everybody in this world has used him and Jyoti belongs to the same category
I just wish he realises that Jyoti was right and the baby is his, and what he has lost by leaving her.
aise to wo kabhi apni galti realise hi nahi karega
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well a guy like pankaj deserves this and a lot more..so no symapthies for him..incidentally neelam DID try to be a decent wife bt the guy prefers to mope all day long and be a walking dead specimen..so she stopped..i actually dnt blame her here..flaunting her boyfrnd is wrong,bt like i said,wid a decent guy,not pankaj..now i hope she fleeces him to the limit for an alimony..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yes Neelam has no right to do what she's doing and all her acts are definitely beyond the limits. BUT....being the bahu of an evil, selfish MIL like CM and the wife of a self-centred, ignorant, blind-man like Pankaj, gives her all the rights of the world to do what's she's doing!! and it's all completely fair 😛....infact it's exactly what Pankaj deserves, it's what most of us have been hoping to see 🥳
I'm really looking forward to see more of her evil acts 😆😆, I want her to hurt Pank even more than Pank hurt Jyoti, and to ruin him and CM for life!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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pankaj should be tortured more...everyone are not like jyothi...neelam should make his life hell..i hate pankaj...neelam type of girl is best for pankajs family.. coz animal can handle an animal...neelam rocks..

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