Originally posted by: Charu.S
You are correct with your facts Bhavna.
I fail to understand how an actress can be continually blamed for standing up to safeguard her self-respect and dignity. This is not about just Paridhi alone. It is for all women in general.
There can be no smoke without fire. Matters had turned so sour that Paridhi herself was ready to quit. Why would the lead actress of a super successful serial contemplate quitting it, at the beginning of her career, if everything was going hunky dory. She would have stood to lose name, fame money, identity, everything.
If we can recall, Ankita Dubey, the original Moti Bai, quit not only due to excessive use of BD's,( while she was very much available for the shots,) thereby making her lose out on income, but also because SV was emotionally torturing her. It was the same case with Paridhi too. EK was quick to react by taking care of matters then. If she is thinking that by bringing back SV, the dismal TRP's are going to improve, she is highly mistaken.
Just because Lavina had no issues with SV, that does not make him a saint or Pari a fussy person fabricating stories about emotional abuse. To each their own. Every actor male or female, has a limit of decency for doing intimate scenes that they choose not to cross. That does not make them bad actors or problematic nor should the actors be held responsible for a particular scene not standing up to the viewers' imagination and satisfaction. This show is a historical where the dignity of the characters needs to be maintained.
Disliking Paridhi is one thing but constantly finding an opportunity to blame her for everything negative, about a particular scene with or without Rajat in it, is wrong and uncalled for. To praise a favorite actor at the cost of lashing out at another actor is in bad taste.