Letter must be read..... - Page 22

Originally posted by: Pals2411

😆 Ben's Husna 😆 After making a cage wala entry, she made a well wala exit.😆

Originally posted by: elasingh

You are incurable romantic...

Originally posted by: Akanksha_33

I don't know either Nabiii... but more than her Jalal should also try to identify the real content of her letter... but Jodha does seem casual about the letter... 😕

Originally posted by: elasingh

I loved the way Ruku fired Moti...khiar nahi hai Moti ki...She just doesn't know how to talk to queens? Whether it is Ruku or Jo...

Originally posted by: Cleo12345

Posting another interesting PM between me and Ela...She suggested that I torture you all with this.. so.blame her... I did put some personal info...a littleembarrassing... to prove my point...will have to edit here...Plus forum rules😊Ela if hope it is ok with you.

Ela : I am not really satisfied with yesterday's episode and sad with Jo's response to Jallu...

There are so many unanswered questions like why did he trust Ben so much? and that also over Jo?

Why has he not yet repraminded MA and Ruku for pushing him to marry Ben?

What justification is there for so many public insults of Jodha?

yesterday's episode showed us that he still thinks Jo called him to her hojra when Jo has repeatedly told him that she didn't...I feel trust factor is still missing inspite of Jo almost dying for him...

I dont know what you think abt these issures but am I being too cynical ? Plz tell me honestly...I appreciate honesty most...Jo 's response is a let down...

Cleo

Of all the characters I defend Jodha the most... not because she is a rajput but because in this harem full of vamps, she is all alone... I always support the underdog...with my narnaal😊of course

<font size="2">I sometimes get upset with the CVs for mis</font>portrayal<font size="2"> and forum members for prejudice orunnecessary bashing ... but for some reason, I am more or less neutral towards the characters...even if i don't like them in one episode...it doesn't last...Cant explain why, but that is how it is...</font>

I was surprised at Jodha's reaction. I expected her to rant and rave. BUT...Chanakya neeti would not support that. This is an important lesson....Pick and chose your battles...also thetimeof your battle. Whenever, I applied this in my personal life...it worked.

Jalal is like any other man...their mother/sister are never wrong...even if they commit murder ( american men are no different)...Try confronting them about this in 21st century...it will have the opposite effect..,.They will start defending them. To Jalal, MA is a mother figure and Rukkiya is more of a friend( she is his cousin sister) and less of a wife.They still have a lot of influence on him. Trust me, he will see through it, but not overnight. For me, Jodha shouldn't care about small battles...she has to win the war. Her only option is staying in Agra...cant go back to Amer. Her best weapon to help survive...Jalal's unconditional support. She needs to work on removing his insecurities and his impression of her that she is unpredictable.

He likes her so much not just because of her beauty and talent but also because she is not petty like most other women he knows. She is not doing it deliberately, but it is her first realization that she means sooo much to Jalal and it makes her very happy...Remember, Moti telling her that he stayed with her instead of going after Rukkiya...Whether Atgah suggested is not important NOW...Jalal could have refused...what is important is that he stayed WITH Jodha...This is a big slap on Rukkiya's face...she probably hasn't thought about it...He hasnt said a word to MA since that night. She just stands there like any other bandi...no one asking for her opinion. When he told Moti to not let anyone in...he meant Rukkiya and MA..Everyone else has more common sense and courtesy. His address to awaam was an indirect declaration of love for Jodha and her importance in his life. For her, he showed his tears to awaam and admitted that he has a dil...so unlike him... He does not have to stoop down to the level of Rukkiya or MA to make them feel small. In my opinion the best way to punish someone who loves you is by ignoring them ( always works with my husband😊) Jalal is clearly terrified of another rejection from Jodha . He is doing everything to see what exactly is in her heart and how ready she is to accept him. I am sure that a part of him thinks...what if Jodha did this because of her Rajput upbringing and not because of any affection for him. He hasn't voiced it but this is probably his biggest fear. His hesitancy to say that she did it because she has feelings for him clearly showed his state of mind. I hope Jodha doesnt do anything to prevent his wounded heart and ego from healing. This is politically not the right time for her to pick up a battle with Jalal, Rukkiya or MA. Her sacrifice will be a waste. I think, they both should stay away from distractions and work on strengthening their bond. Once that happens, Jodha will be a clear winner without raising a finger. Sometimes, some things are better left unsaid...Let MA and Rukkiya ponder why Jalal didnt say anything to them right away... Rukkiya may not, but MA will figure out... Because, he is focusing all his energy on Jodha right now...He will reprimand them but they are not that high on his priority list of 'things to do'... So this is how I saw things today ...Not sure if you agree.

Also, I think he will give mansabdaari to Maan Singh..that is why he wants them in DEK. Another slap on MA and Adham's face..

Cleo: Hi Ela, no response...I hope i didnt hurt you with my answer...Sometimes I am too honest for my own good

Ela :Hey bhagwan...I didn't expect you to think like that...I am matured and I am not even satisfied with your answer...I found it too polite and tactful for my liking...I preffered ur bluntness...

Cleo:Ok you asked for it😊Now don't you dare get upset.

I don't think you are being cynical...you just want to change the order of things...first confrontation, then romance between Ja-jo...I disagree...first bonding( because love is already there)...romance essential for bonding...then confrontation.

If the enemy is strong...the tactics need to be changed. Remember Darwin's law...survival of the fittest... Taking people head on in a confused and vulnerable situation is not the best winning strategy...let me explain with an example

I wrote a personal experience where I explained why is it important to strengthen your position before taking on an enemy...dont want to post it on a public forum...will PM if you guys are realllyyy interested.

Jodha needs to apply the same thing...strengthen her position...It will annoy me if I see her repeat her mistakes. She is intelligent... certainly more than Rukkiya...She better not disappoint me now and be beaten again by these vamps. Settling scores is to be done only when you are in a position to beat your opponent.

Originally posted by: elasingh

I loved the way Ruku fired Moti...khiar nahi hai Moti ki...She just doesn't know how to talk to queens? Whether it is Ruku or Jo...

Originally posted by: Akdhaparijatluv

buddy leave ruku even to shehenshah she is talkin lik dat😲she is talkin to jallu n jo as if dey r her jiju n sis😆😆d way she said shehenshah i wil go out cal me if nythng is imp n yday wen jallu said she wil take jo out motis reply was theek hai not even shehenshah😲old moti is gud she never lifts her head infront of jallu but new one is lik😲😲

Originally posted by: elasingh

Yes this new Moti is not in her character of dasi...😆...She thinks it is beneath her status to behave like a dasi...😆

Originally posted by: Cleo12345

Posting another interesting PM between me and Ela...She suggested that I torture you all with this.. so.blame her... I did put some personal info...a little embarrassing... to prove my point...will have to edit here...Plus forum rules😊 Ela if hope it is ok with you.

Ela : I am not really satisfied with yesterday's episode and sad with Jo's response to Jallu...

There are so many unanswered questions like why did he trust Ben so much? and that also over Jo?

Why has he not yet repraminded MA and Ruku for pushing him to marry Ben?

What justification is there for so many public insults of Jodha?

yesterday's episode showed us that he still thinks Jo called him to her hojra when Jo has repeatedly told him that she didn't...I feel trust factor is still missing inspite of Jo almost dying for him...

I dont know what you think abt these issures but am I being too cynical ? Plz tell me honestly...I appreciate honesty most...Jo 's response is a let down...

Cleo

Of all the characters I defend Jodha the most... not because she is a rajput but because in this harem full of vamps, she is all alone... I always support the underdog...with my narnaal😊 of course

I sometimes get upset with the CVs for misportrayal and forum members for prejudice or unnecessary bashing ... but for some reason, I am more or less neutral towards the characters...even if i don't like them in one episode...it doesn't last...Cant explain why, but that is how it is...

I was surprised at Jodha's reaction. I expected her to rant and rave. BUT...Chanakya neeti would not support that. This is an important lesson....Pick and chose your battles...also the time of your battle. Whenever, I applied this in my personal life...it worked.

Jalal is like any other man...their mother/sister are never wrong...even if they commit murder ( american men are no different)...Try confronting them about this in 21st century...it will have the opposite effect..,.They will start defending them. To Jalal, MA is a mother figure and Rukkiya is more of a friend( she is his cousin sister) and less of a wife.They still have a lot of influence on him. Trust me, he will see through it, but not overnight. For me, Jodha shouldn't care about small battles...she has to win the war. Her only option is staying in Agra...cant go back to Amer. Her best weapon to help survive...Jalal's unconditional support. She needs to work on removing his insecurities and his impression of her that she is unpredictable.

He likes her so much not just because of her beauty and talent but also because she is not petty like most other women he knows. She is not doing it deliberately, but it is her first realization that she means sooo much to Jalal and it makes her very happy...Remember, Moti telling her that he stayed with her instead of going after Rukkiya...Whether Atgah suggested is not important NOW...Jalal could have refused...what is important is that he stayed WITH Jodha...This is a big slap on Rukkiya's face...she probably hasn't thought about it...He hasnt said a word to MA since that night. She just stands there like any other bandi...no one asking for her opinion. When he told Moti to not let anyone in...he meant Rukkiya and MA..Everyone else has more common sense and courtesy. His address to awaam was an indirect declaration of love for Jodha and her importance in his life. For her, he showed his tears to awaam and admitted that he has a dil...so unlike him... He does not have to stoop down to the level of Rukkiya or MA to make them feel small. In my opinion the best way to punish someone who loves you is by ignoring them ( always works with my husband😊) Jalal is clearly terrified of another rejection from Jodha . He is doing everything to see what exactly is in her heart and how ready she is to accept him. I am sure that a part of him thinks...what if Jodha did this because of her Rajput upbringing and not because of any affection for him. He hasn't voiced it but this is probably his biggest fear. His hesitancy to say that she did it because she has feelings for him clearly showed his state of mind. I hope Jodha doesnt do anything to prevent his wounded heart and ego from healing. This is politically not the right time for her to pick up a battle with Jalal, Rukkiya or MA. Her sacrifice will be a waste. I think, they both should stay away from distractions and work on strengthening their bond. Once that happens, Jodha will be a clear winner without raising a finger. Sometimes, some things are better left unsaid...Let MA and Rukkiya ponder why Jalal didnt say anything to them right away... Rukkiya may not, but MA will figure out... Because, he is focusing all his energy on Jodha right now...He will reprimand them but they are not that high on his priority list of 'things to do'... So this is how I saw things today ...Not sure if you agree.

Also, I think he will give mansabdaari to Maan Singh..that is why he wants them in DEK. Another slap on MA and Adham's face..

Cleo: Hi Ela, no response...I hope i didnt hurt you with my answer...Sometimes I am too honest for my own good

Ela :Hey bhagwan...I didn't expect you to think like that...I am matured and I am not even satisfied with your answer...I found it too polite and tactful for my liking...I preffered ur bluntness...

Cleo: Ok you asked for it😊 Now don't you dare get upset.

I don't think you are being cynical...you just want to change the order of things...first confrontation, then romance between Ja-jo...I disagree...first bonding( because love is already there)...romance essential for bonding...then confrontation.

If the enemy is strong...the tactics need to be changed. Remember Darwin's law...survival of the fittest... Taking people head on in a confused and vulnerable situation is not the best winning strategy...let me explain with an example

I wrote a personal experience where I explained why is it important to strengthen your position before taking on an enemy...dont want to post it on a public forum...will PM if you guys are realllyyy interested.

Jodha needs to apply the same thing...strengthen her position...It will annoy me if I see her repeat her mistakes. She is intelligent... certainly more than Rukkiya...She better not disappoint me now and be beaten again by these vamps. Settling scores is to be done only when you are in a position to beat your opponent.