Dont hate me but....

I feel that Jassi got what she deserved...

Isnt there a saying that - Marry someone who loves you instead of someone you love... or something to that effect ....

Purab loved Jassi to death, but she ignored him and kept thinking and loving Armaan (not blaming her for it, since Armaan is played by such a hunk!!!😳 )... Finally Armaan questioned her integrity and she walked away on her wedding day.... and finally she has neither purab nor Armaan...😕 Serves her right!!!😡

what she cant do anything if she doesnt love purab and loves arman ....i dont blame het at all...just bcoz purab loves her doesnt mean she has to love him.....the fact is she doesnt and what arman did was just to question her on what he saw...which any normn person qould question seeing what he saw a half-naked guy on top of his fiancee/wife.....the basic problem is that makers want to show tht evil wins and love falls and that in indian serials..always the lovers are not supposed to unite the first time....and also there is no direct convo betwwen the lovers...they shld speak in riddles....and yeah run away thats important
i think jassi deserves this coz she ran away and she always expects others to trust her but se can always question anyone and anybody .....now thats double standards

Originally posted by: tina59

what she cant do anything if she doesnt love
purab and loves arman ....i dont blame het at all...just bcoz
purab loves her doesnt mean she has to love him.....the fact is
she doesnt and what arman did was just to question her on
what he saw...which any normn person qould question seeing
what he saw a half-naked guy on top of his fiancee/wife.....the
basic problem is that makers want to show tht evil wins and
love falls and that in indian serials..always the lovers are not
supposed to unite the first time....and also there is no direct
convo betwwen the lovers...they shld speak in riddles....and
yeah run away thats important
i think jassi deserves this coz she ran away and she always
expects others to trust her but se can always question anyone
and anybody .....now thats double standards

Thanks TIna, well said. I agree if she didn't love Purab, she
didn't love him...although I feel that she didn't treat him right
either, that's life you love one and not another. She gave him a
chance to marry her, but he ran off and now he is dead. Say La
Vie.

I too believe that Jassi chose a cowardly way of dealing with
her problems. She has run away for the third time now. Hadh
bhi hoti hai in sabh harkotho ki.

I don't think Armaan did her wrong. He is to blame as his
communication should have been a little more soft. This has
been said again and again. If there was a half naked woman
getting up from on top of your man, you wouldn't question
him??? Why does one not have the right to question??? If that
same woman came and told you hey sh** happens, you
wouldn't be upset? I would question my man, not that I don't
trust him, but we live in such times folks that sh** does happen.
Is it not true?? All the movies, the music videos all imply that
cheating and having one night stands are ok. If I didn't know
what CJ was up to and I saw CJ and Jassi in such a comprising
position with Jassi sleeping so peacefully, I would have thought
same...cuz hey it happens. Jassi's character is so inconsistent
that I believe that she could have slept with CJ...she slept with
Armaan...why not CJ? Why did she run away if she did not do
anything wrong? To start all over again, does not clear one
from their wrong doing.

Honestly, folks. That letter CJ left for Armaan devastated him. If
someone left such a letter for me and disappeared...what am I
supposed to think. I would think that hey this person really left
me for thiis other person...why??? Because it happens all the
time. I firmly hold ground that Jassi is more wrong in this
situation because she put all the blame on Armaan rather than
looking at it from a two way street.

I feel like we are having the same discussions over and over
again. Can't this be combined into one? Mods any advice?



PS - I made the comment about trusting my husband and I
wanted to add a notation. You see I don't believe in trust,
because what happens is that those you trust the most let you
down. Those who you don't trust make you take unnecessary
actions. Actions that sometimes you might regret. I feel that
time can be spent better rather than trusting or not trusting
someone. I always just hope for the best and expect the worst.
Anyway, if my husband is gonna cheat on me...I can't do
anything about it...but I can do my part in leaving the lines open
for clear and open communication.

Originally posted by: jprasad

PS - I made the comment about trusting my husband and I
wanted to add a notation. You see I don't believe in trust,
because what happens is that those you trust the most let you
down. Those who you don't trust make you take unnecessary
actions. Actions that sometimes you might regret. I feel that
time can be spent better rather than trusting or not trusting
someone. I always just hope for the best and expect the worst.
Anyway, if my husband is gonna cheat on me...I can't do
anything about it...but I can do my part in leaving the lines open
for clear and open communication.

👏 Totally well said JP I agree😉

I guess I am lucky because my husband lets me do whatever I want to. As matter of fact he spoils me rotten. He never questions me why I don't know why? When I ask him why don't you ever get jealous, he answers because I love you, and I trust you. So if he trusts me so much how can I let him down. Cheating is out of the question I know I married someone who loves me, and someone whom I want to spend the rest of my life with. What I am getting to is there is still turst, and faith alive and living.

dat was well said JP and i absolutely agree with you all.

Trusting a person is a real tricky fact but i strongly believe that along with trust also comes communication. i believe that Armaan and Jassi's relationship was too vague, if we focus on their communication level. the problem b/w them wuld've been solved if armaan asked her politely n jassi responded to his questions and cleared the misunderstanding. but wat jassi did by running away without clearing the accusations was a real coward act. This is not only the first time, but there have been many incidents when armaan tried to talk to her but she always ran away from it. *remember, the billboard incident!!!!!!

The fact is dat besides trust, TnD never showed strong communication level b/w armaan and jassi, and a problem always tends to become worse when they don't confront properly and the daily interruptions of the idiotic villains makes the situation more vulnerable!!!!!😡

but i believe watever happened, jassi deserves it and she's not worthy of Armaan's love. if she truly loved him, she wuldn't have ran away and wuld've confronted Armaan. But leaving her parents in a humiliating situation and running away was a pure coward act. i wuld've supported her if she confronted Armaan and called off the wedding...and confront CJ as well...but wat she did...I believe she totally deserves it!!!!😊