UPDATE FOR RE-RUN 10th JUly 2007 - Page 2

Originally posted by: bubblezz

Thank you laddoo598 (sorry i don't know your name 😳) That was a veryy nice update!👏

The update was written by Tina. And you can call laddoo Tanny 😃

Oh..just noticed!😳😳 My apologies!

Tina thank you so much for the update!😊..Very well written.👏👏

Originally posted by: tina59

oh c'mon thats iunfiar, afterall Mallika is Arman's fiancee , he did propose to her . She has every right to feel worried for him and thats why she called. Knowing Arman and his casanova image , any girl would feel insecure . how does it become silly, wont a girl who is abt to get married get insecure when her fiancee lies abt his whereabouts and hides things from her and then on top of that , gets blank calls.

if Arman doesnt want to talk to her , why not tell her that instead why leave her in the dark abt everything. Either end it or tell her openly, instead he is playing with her life by going with this drama.

I dont think so.😆 There is a thing called giving space in a relationship.Armaan is not a two year old kid that he has to keep informing Mallika where he is what he is doing just beacuse he is a Flirt....No wonder Armaan never felt any obligation towards mallika cause she never even trusted him in the first place.WHy do you think Jassi's love won over Armaan....she trsuted him i spite of knowing the facts and no one before has Trusted AS like that.

When Mallika does not trust him one bit I wonder where the love props up from??Even though Armaan is flirt etc There should always be a certain amount of trsut.And if mallika can get herself to trust Armaan...I dont blame her but neither should be expect Armaan to uphold that 'trust'.

I would call for a little more understanding from Mallika's part.Instead of worrying who armaan was with she could probably find out wether there was some problem armaan was having that he wasnt sharing with her.

Originally posted by: Sharmii

I dont think so.😆 There is a thing called giving space in a relationship.Armaan is not a two year old kid that he has to keep informing Mallika where he is what he is doing just beacuse he is a Flirt....No wonder Armaan never felt any obligation towards mallika cause she never even trusted him in the first place.WHy do you think Jassi's love won over Armaan....she trsuted him i spite of knowing the facts and no one before has Trusted AS like that.

When Mallika does not trust him one bit I wonder where the love props up from??Even though Armaan is flirt etc There should always be a certain amount of trsut.And if mallika can get herself to trust Armaan...I dont blame her but neither should be expect Armaan to uphold that 'trust'.

I would call for a little more understanding from Mallika's part.Instead of worrying who armaan was with she could probably find out wether there was some problem armaan was having that he wasnt sharing with her.

You mean to say , it was all her fault for worrying abt him. The men always get scott free isnt it ispite of cheating again and again and then expect the girl , his fiancee to trust him and not get suspicious and still love him.

thats impossible, how can Mallika trust Arman when he plays games with her, fake love drama, hide things from her , lie to her time and again and flirt with other girls to the extent of going to singapore for Yana and its still Mallika's fault for getting insecure.

wasnt Arman insecure and jealous when Jassi was with Nandu all the time when he fell in love , following them everywhere. If thats justified why not Mallika's love for Arman and her insecurity.

As I have said several times before, she gave everyting to the relationship which Arman started , proposed and agreed to marry her for his selfish reasons. She gave her soul, mind and body for him and inturn what does she get, insecurity , get blamed for that and on top of that , he doesnt even love her and does all sorts of fake drama with Jassi and other gals.

If u tell me that the girl should still trust him and not feel any amount of insecurity and infact it was her mistake to not show loyalty in unfair.

what abt Arman, doesnt he have any responsibility to the one he proposed to marry . You hide things from her, you dont treat her well, you flirt around with other gals playing fake love with Jassi , yet Mallika is the one to blame.

If he doesnt love her , why did he propose to marry her ( for her vote ofcourse), if he didnt love her now , why not break it to her instead he is going on and on with all this and yet expects Mallika to understand him. Thats ridiculous.

She loves him dearly inspite of knowing he is a casanova , she gave her vote against her own brother for him, she gave her everything and still she is the one to get the blame for it , thats totally unfair.

If she didnt trust Arman, it was Arman's fault as well for not giving her tht security that she needed from her fiancee and her love, remember she doesnt have anyone as family except for Aryan, she considers the Puru family to be her only family, ofcourse she would feel insecure coz its she who loses it all , her life, love and family

No Tina di.Nothing was Mallika's fault.But you have to hand to her that she gets over the top at times.

As I said She loves Armaan but cant bring herself to trust him:
She should do two things...

End the relatioship...
Or have a one on one with Armaan and find something in him to trust him.

Without trust how does she expect her marriage with Armu to last?
As such she is havng unrealistic expectations from the realtioship.

Originally posted by: Sharmii

No Tina di.Nothing was Mallika's fault.But you have to hand to her that she gets over the top at times.

As I said She loves Armaan but cant bring herself to trust him:
She should do two things...

End the relatioship...
Or have a one on one with Armaan and find something in him to trust him.

Without trust how does she expect her marriage with Armu to last?
As such she is havng unrealistic expectations from the realtioship.

I too wanted her to end the relationship , she did when arman went to singapore but her love wanted him back.

As a self respecting woman, she should have ended the relationship long back for the way arman treated and neglected her but then love................

what unrealistic expectations she had from her fiancee..........and love.....

what abt Arman, didnt he have any responsibility towards her , afterall he was the one who proposed to her and proclaimed to love her.

wasnt it his responsibility towards his fiancee to atleast give her the security that she needs or the attention that she needs.

Relatioship is not a duty.You dont stay together or take care of each other beacuse you have to...but beacuse you want to!!

And Mallika is no Fool....she saw through each and every way of Armaan yet at times her ego found it difficult for her to let him go.

Im saying this after the singapore episode she got back with Armaan because Aryan kept taunting her that Arman is happy that the relatioship is over and she took it to her head to get back.
And Armaan I agree was no less...He got back because hs father left him with a more heart breaking choice.

More than Mallika and Armaan it was their relationship that was Totally wrong.

Armaan couldnt keep his promise and thats another story why he couldnt.