Shilpa has hit the nail on the head with her "if you can't do anything about a situation, look at it in a light vein"stance. The ability to laugh at the quirks of a loved one only indicates how close-knit the relationship is.
Shilpa tells you that just as hubby Apoorva Agnihotri is complacent and laidback most of the time, he can be painfully particular (read stubborn) "when he's in the mood". That he is punctual to the P, and marches straight out of the door, "even if I give him his lunch dabba five seconds late", drives her crazy. But instead of biting her nails in a flurry, Shilpa prefers to laugh at the absurdity of the situation and look at the brighter side. "After all, an actor's job includes keeping the producer happy too."