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Posted: 19 years ago
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It happens all the time....reel and real life...women fake pregnancies to
keep their men. I understand that some women can do anything for their
husband, boyfriend, significant other, but is it ok? Is this lie justifiable?

Some women purposely get pregnant to hang onto their men. Is it ok to
become pregnant just to obtain the person you love? Once the child is
born...is it fair to them that they weren't brought into the world because
of love, but because of a woman's selfish motive?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Yes I agree here.... Women shouldn't do that.

What would you get by keeping the person to you who doesn't even love you? What you do with him who just feels like a burden staying with you?

It is very unfair with the kids who are born like that... Children are the most beautiful part of nature and when they are being played on like this nothing more I can say other than disguting!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey JP!
good to see you!
And yes you are right about women using a pregnancy like a weapon....to get what they want....by hook or by crook!
I feel really bad for the children...to be pawns in the hands of such evil minded Mothers.
PD
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I am afraid that these women have lost it.
They have crossed the borderline. Their love has become an obsession.

When that happens, the woman no longer is able to disinguish between right and wrong.

It's a very sorry state.

There are also women who can go to any extent just to humour their ego. They have lost it too.

No normal, self respecting woman would resort to such means unless jinxed or the man in Q is sb like Armu/Apu!

And like I always say, kida are the ultimate sufferers.

Wish kids could chose parents like one can choose partners. This world will be a better place to live in.

N JP, this is a wonderful 'food for thought' topic.

Mods, can this be made in to the 'Discussion topic of the week'?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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People ACTUALLY do that ?? Well I know people get very insecure when they feel like they are on the verge of loosing the "most loved" person in their lives. I have seen people do crazy things to keep their love in their lives. Well to us who are not in that situation, it might seem ridiculous, but if we see things in a different perspective, and try to see it their way .. it might be just another way of staying close and not breaking up. I have seen some people for whom relationships (specially with their BF/GF) are the be all end all of their lives. For such people they just want to cliiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnng on to that one thing which ever way possible..
Well evntually things do fall apart in most cases the quick fix solutions are not strong enough to hold onto the relatiop forever. It is sad. May be people should be mature enough to understand that things are not working right and rather than going for this quick fix solutions the better way is to talk out things and if nothing can be repaired then make a respectable exit.
Its not only girls who do such things but guys do stuff like going into a boozing spree, wanting to destroy their lives, 🤢 Yesterday there was a news report on how a guy threw acid on the girls face because things didnt work out 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: jprasad

It happens all the time....reel and real life...women fake pregnancies to
keep their men. I understand that some women can do anything for their
husband, boyfriend, significant other, but is it ok? Is this lie justifiable?

Some women purposely get pregnant to hang onto their men. Is it ok to
become pregnant just to obtain the person you love? Once the child is
born...is it fair to them that they weren't brought into the world because
of love, but because of a woman's selfish motive?

Oh hell NO...no matter how much love one has for their husband/boyfriend whatever, it will never be okay to bring a human being into this world for the wrong reason. If this was Jassi who is doing this for Armaan, I would still think that this is plain wrong and she shouldn't do something like this. If a woman has to go this low to keep a man, then she needs realize that the man is not the right one for her and MOVE ON...

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I don't know about India, but we've ha some psycho cases around here with women going as far as stealing other women's babies to cover up fake pregnancies...one woman actually killed a woman and tore her child out from the womb! 🤢

I don't know how they cover up their pregnancies for so long, doesn't anyone come close enough to feel their bellies?
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Yeah, women do fake pregnancies in real life and then fake a miscarriage and i think it is absolutely disgusting.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I know here in US Teens especially do that. They think that faking pregnancy or even becoming pregnant would keep their husbands/lovers with them forever.

But you know what happens in the long run they leave them anyway. They remain with them until some time because they also feel guilty but after a while they just leave.. and marry someone else.

So now the girls are in even bigger trouble. No husband/lover and have to take care of the kid alone.

So yes they are losers ultimately. Also you should never let love become an obsession because when you do the chances are that most of the time you lose because you take such drastic desicions that make your defeat definite!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think this logic may have worked in the past, but not anymore, very few men stay with women because of kids nowadays...our community may have fewer broken marriages than others, but they do happen...

That reminds me of something my chacha told me 6 years back. He said that I should marry an Indian guy because they tend to be more family oriented than goras and think about their kids during tough times... 😆

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