never compromise....??????

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Posted: 9 years ago
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well...Every one is talking about rights and stuff of Vividha and her right to choose to be with the person she love...just bcz she is married she should not compromise and blah blah.okay Agreed.

Now lets just think...this through.
as woman VV took decision to get married and in exchange save Atharv's life. ok fine...I ll consider that...bcz she is a woman with all the rights 🤢.

but does this so called right gives Vividha the right to COMPROMISE WITH RAVISH'S LIFE??????

answer is NO!!! BIG NO.
she married him...compromised with ravish's life as her deal with her father.

SO next u talk about VVs right...think about her actions as well.

if she claims she will fight for Atharv and her love now...thn she could have then as well.if she can strong now...she should have been stronger that time too

and here is pointer for u all...

IF Atharv was in Vividha's position at the time of marriage track...atharav would have given up on his life than leave vividha like that...dying. ...all blood covered...

also BEING WOMAN DEFO GIVES U RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHAT U WANT...BUT DEFINITELY NOT GIVES U RIGHT TO USE UR POWER WRONGLY. 😉

P.S. Vividha actually never compromised on anything. she made others compromise.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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We've heard these points many times now. What exactly are you trying to say or rather want Vividha to do now? Care to elaborate?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mcdreamy.

We've heard these points many times now. What exactly are you trying to say or rather want Vividha to do now? Care to elaborate?

try to read the post.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sujata told her yesterday, that she can move on with her marriage and need not worry about Atharva or her. Vividha refused saying she LOVES ONLY Atharva and want to stay with him. She acknowledged Ravish's feelings but also knows she can never do him justice, in terms of her heart never beating for him so why make him suffer? In this triangle, there is no need for three people to feel hurt for the rest of their lives.


Plus, Vividha would have happily compromised if she still did not love Atharva. Look at Suman, she kept begging for love from her husband but never got it. That sort of married life is just not worth anyone's time because it brings nothing but pain. So as a person who wants to be loved, Ravish too would agree that if his wife cannot love him, then its better they end their matrimony. Living a life of compromise brings nothing but pain and a perfect example of that is Ramakant/Suman/Sujata's equations.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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You know there have been so many bashing posts against Vividha's stance for months...she's made her decision now.

What next? They've all survived her 'mistake'. They're trying to deal with the entire situation thrown at them.

Now what should Vividha do to redeem herself in your eyes? :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Sujata told her yesterday, that she can move on with her marriage and need not worry about Atharva or her. Vividha refused saying she LOVES ONLY Atharva and want to stay with him. She acknowledged Ravish's feelings but also knows she can never do him justice, in terms of her heart never beating for him so why make him suffer? In this triangle, there is no need for three people to feel hurt for the rest of their lives.</font>



<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Plus, Vividha would have happily compromised if she still did not love Atharva. Look at Suman, she kept begging for love from her husband but never got it. That sort of married life is just not worth anyone's time because it brings nothing but pain. So as a person who wants to be loved, Ravish too would agree that if his wife cannot love him, then its better they end their matrimony. Living a life of compromise brings nothing but pain and a perfect example of that is Ramakant/Suman/Sujata's equations.</font>




I never asked vividha to compromise.
but the woman card has been played for very long in her favour and this needs to stop.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

You know there have been so many bashing posts against Vividha's stance for months...she's made her decision now.

What next? They've all survived her 'mistake'. They're trying to deal with the entire situation thrown at them.

Now what should Vividha do to redeem herself in your eyes? :)

the mistake was apparently was her choice...yes of course her father dragged her.but the ultimate choice ws hers.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia2105

the mistake was apparently was her choice...yes of course her father dragged her.but the ultimate choice ws hers.



You take 'the father's actions too lightly. Which girl would want to marry a stranger and leave the love of her life? Are you telling me that Vividha skipped to the mandap happily?

This twist HAD TO happen, it was part of the story. So you tell me, what do you think Vividha should do to redeem herself? Where should the story go? Vividha loves Atharv, so what do you want her to do now?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia2105

well...Every one is talking about rights and stuff of Vividha and her right to choose to be with the person she love...just bcz she is married she should not compromise and blah blah.okay Agreed.

Now lets just think...this through.
as woman VV took decision to get married and in exchange save Atharv's life. ok fine...I ll consider that...bcz she is a woman with all the rights 🤢.

but does this so called right gives Vividha the right to COMPROMISE WITH RAVISH'S LIFE??????

answer is NO!!! BIG NO.
she married him...compromised with ravish's life as her deal with her father.

SO next u talk about VVs right...think about her actions as well.

if she claims she will fight for Atharv and her love now...thn she could have then as well.if she can strong now...she should have been stronger that time too

and here is pointer for u all...

IF Atharv was in Vividha's position at the time of marriage track...atharav would have given up on his life than leave vividha like that...dying. ...all blood covered...

also BEING WOMAN DEFO GIVES U RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHAT U WANT...BUT DEFINITELY NOT GIVES U RIGHT TO USE UR POWER WRONGLY. 😉

P.S. Vividha actually never compromised on anything. she made others compromise.

some like always failed to understand No where in your post you asked Vividha to stick with Ravish He does not even want her Even if she did not love Atharva Ravish had very clearly told her he does not want compromises
you are pointing at Vividhas mistakes and i agree with all your post
and some misdeeds can never be corrected Vividha will carry the guilt for ever in her
Sujata did not accepted her so called sacrifice to save Atharva neither she defends her I am kind of sure even Atharva wont He will also say to her Vividha you did not do the right
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia2105

I never asked vividha to compromise.
but the woman card has been played for very long in her favour and this needs to stop.

Oh I thought you were asking the question of: is it so hard to compromise after you've elected to embark upon the marriage to save someone's life? My bad!


@bold! I don't see why it needs to be stopped, as she has been wronged too. But people conveniently ignore that part because she could never love Ravish.

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