Why cannot suman question Vividha ?

i see some people to cover up Vividha are saying Suman cannot question Vividha because she did not question her husband ? First we dont know complete details of suman ramakant angle We are still unaware of many details How Ramakant was able to play this tricked Suman . Suman came to know he married sujata before her and also he has a son with her too post his death She did not know before and after his death she call his atma and question him but still just because suman made mistake once not questioning Ramakant Does that mean Vividha gets a clean chit for ruining suman's child life ?If tomorrow someone does same with sujata 's son that ramakant did with sujata so will same people say just because sujata never grabbed ramu's collar Its fine anyone does same with Atharva and she should stand quiet ?

Dude it would've been easier if you replied to my topic.

We don't know the full details of Suman-Ramakant-Sujata angle but we do KNOW Suman knew Ramakant loved sujata right?

So you tell me, what was she doing with Ramakant all these years? She had two children with a man who never loved her. She was ok to be USED for sexual desires then?

Are you telling me that it's OK for a wife to be just in a marriage for SEX? That's ok? But Vividha wanting to be with her LOVE is wrong?

If you read my topic yesterday, I accepted that Vividha's decision was selfish when you look at the Vashits perspective.

The sad thing is, you FEEL PITY for a woman who lived through a marriage without love but you FEEL DISGUST at a woman who doesn't want to do that.

Do you not find it pathetic how Suman got used for Ramakant's sexual desires rather than being loved? Why was Suman ok with that?

Dude I did not reply on your thread because i saw on some other threads your group members saying same so opened a topic You got any problem ? This is free public forum ?

Who said Vividha is perfect? We have faulted her many times because she isn't flawless unlike your Lord Ravish.

I'm not even going to bother explaining why Vividha married Ravish because you REFUSE to see her predicament. You felt bad for Ravish even before he entered because let's face it you would love whatever character your favourite actor plays! :)

there's a matter of honour killing! Anyway, why can't you answer my question. Why is it ok for Suman to live in a loveless marriage? What kind of woman would be ok with that?

Stop using the lack of details as an excuse! FACT IS that Ramakant did NOT love Suman and she KNEW this! Why did she have two kids with him? Don't you find that cheap?

Are you telling me you would have sex with your husband and have his kids even if he didn't love you?

Wow

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Dude it would've been easier if you replied to my topic.

We don't know the full details of Suman-Ramakant-Sujata angle but we do KNOW Suman knew Ramakant loved sujata right?

So you tell me, what was she doing with Ramakant all these years? She had two children with a man who never loved her. She was ok to be USED for sexual desires then?

Are you telling me that it's OK for a wife to be just in a marriage for SEX? That's ok? But Vividha wanting to be with her LOVE is wrong?

If you read my topic yesterday, I accepted that Vividha's decision was selfish when you look at the Vashits perspective.

The sad thing is, you FEEL PITY for a woman who lived through a marriage without love but you FEEL DISGUST at a woman who doesn't want to do that.

Do you not find it pathetic how Suman got used for Ramakant's sexual desires rather than being loved? Why was Suman ok with that?

as u said we dont know the full details...so why suman did not leave rama still a question and hope we get answers...

and of course...VV can go back to her love...and do whtevr.
but as long as she is married to Ravish...she should not be disrespectful to him as ravish was never disrespectful towards her.they are still married at least in terms of law.

as a vitharav fan...i do understand u like and support VV hugging her BF in front of her Hubby...but dont you think she was disrespectful to ravish...who was thr and she saw him.

and know u will say...that she got carried away...and hugged...fine. to each their own.

but VV is the WRONG here.

and also her justification for doing the puja...was for mothers...like really. liar she is.

@TM u r right...but for few VV can get away after murdering as well.

let alone ruining both the bros life.

Originally posted by: tia2105

as u said we dont know the full details...so why suman did not leave rama still a question and hope we get answers...

and of course...VV can go back to her love...and do whtevr.
but as long as she is married to Ravish...she should not be disrespectful to him as ravish was never disrespectful towards her.they are still married at least in terms of law.

as a vitharav fan...i do understand u like and support VV hugging her BF in front of her Hubby...but dont you think she was disrespectful to ravish...who thr.

and know u will say...that she got carried away...and hugged...fine. to each their own.

but VV is the WRONG here.

and also her justification for doing the puja...was for mothers...like really. liar she is.

Surely we can only go by what we were told? We can't leave everything up to guessing.

There are two things we do KNOW

1. Ramakant did NOT love Suman
2. Suman KNEW this fact.


That's why she's been so adamant on Ravish receiving love from his wife right?

If you find Vividha wrong (fine) but how do you not find Suman wrong by staying in a marriage where she used for Ramakant's sexual desires as well as creating the heir of the family.

Why is that ok for a woman to do in your opinion? Does MARRIAGE which you all respect so much mean that a woman should stay in a loveless marriage? Can't you see how scarred she has been from it?

Please explain why that's ok?

Reema, you know it's pointless arguing with these guys. All that matters for them is their favourite actor and by their own admittance they watch the show only for him and when that is the case then why will they even try to understand the situation and story of the show as a whole. For them Ravish and his family can do no wrong!

They feel sorry for Ravish cos of his broken heart and his apparently 'ruined' life, but completely turn a blind eye to Atharv and Vividha's suffering. Atharv lost his identity, his mental balance and almost lost his life too but Ravish sufffered the most. Vividha's life was turned upside down on the day that was supposed to be the happiest day of her life, she was forced to marry a complete stranger, yet Ravish suffered the most.

Sujata lived all her life as the dusri aurat, without her husband's name and support, beared everyone's taunts yet Suman is the victim!

Suman says Vividha commited a sin by not loving the person she married to then why is Suman STILL so devoted to Ramakant? Isn't he a sinner too in that case? If she doesn't consider Ramakant a sinner and still loves him so much then she has no right to say that to Vividha either :)

Originally posted by: tia2105

@TM u r right...but for few VV can get away after murdering as well.

let alone ruining both the bros life.

I don't know how many times we have all said that Vividha's decision did HURT THE FAMILY! Why can you never see these comments? We accept she is flawed but let's have a look at what you all royally choose to ignore

- Ravish asked Vividha to hide the truth from Suman
- Suman assumed Vividha loved Ravish from the first meeting
- Suman herself SUFFERED a loveless marriage

Why are you pitying her suffering when she could've got out of it? Should she not have left the marriage when she knew RK didn't love her? You don't judge her weakness at all instead say OH POOR WOMAN!

Yes Suman's anger is justified. Yes a mother grows a spine when it comes to her son. The show is only saying this that why wait until for ur son u should have done it for yourself. And every woman has a right to it. Yes what vividha did to vashisht family is wrong. But she was forced to make that choice. Call her selfish but she was nvr happy with that decision ,she was completely distressed in her situation. Even when she tried to be a wife for R she couldn't hide the fact his touch was nvr pleasant for her. Options for her are either Tolerate it her whole life or get away from it. She chose a better option. It doesn't redeem her infront of Suman's but it is the choice every woman in her place should take