Sid is not Shiv!!!

So from the looks of it CVs are trying to draw parallels b/w Sid and DD's husband Shiv😕 DD's words yesterday and Archint's interview in SBS is just pointing towards it But I strongly disagree with that comparison and as far as I'm concerned both these characters are poles apart😕

Shiv is an IRRESPONSIBLE guy🤢 For whatever reason, he left his wife with a baby and also his family and ran away. He couldn't take the responsibility of even his family and left all the burden on DD. Bablu, kesar, Mona all are his relatives and he have not taken care of any of them😕 And this is not for 1 or 2 years, its for 20yrs. He never turned back to look once in these 20yrs to see how his family was doing😕 And he left even w/o informing anyone🥱

Sid would never do this, even in the worst of the circumstances. He has always took the responsibility of his family and also his sasuraal.😊 Even when he had issues with Roshni, he has always stood with her, protected her and her family. There was not one difficult circumstance where he left Roshni alone, not to say about 20yrs. Can u imagine Sid putting all the responsibility of Kritika and Simran on Roshni and running away.. He would never do that, till he is alive

And if Nani is against Shiv coming back to DD's life.. I'm completely with Nani.. He left her daughter to suffer for 20yrs and then when he comes back as a mother, Nani has all the right to be upset. That can't be compared to DD's dislike for Sid.

If DD believes her husband doesn't love her that may be true😕 but applying the same logic to Sid is wrong. DD can see that Yash loved Roshni but she refuse to believe Sid loves Roshni😕 Even before the divorce DD was of the opinion that Sid don't love Roshni😕

Its unfortunate that DD can't differentiate b/w Sid and her husband and is feeding Roshni with her illogical argument.. I really wish Roshni don't get influenced by DD this time

I can sympathize with Shiv only if he was in memory loss for the past 20yrs and left DD in memory loss😆😆 But that seems to be really illogical😆

DD is blind.. she lives in fear that her daughter will suffer whatever she suffered.. I think shiv will be shown as a middle class man when he married DD.. thus her hatred for them. Right now, Sid left her daughter without any explanations.. so she comparing him with her husband was o.k attract moment. But seriously she is crazy, first she could not see her daughter's love for him and now she can't see his love for her..

Originally posted by: skinnypal

DD is blind.. she lives in fear that her daughter will suffer whatever she suffered.. I think shiv will be shown as a middle class man when he married DD.. thus her hatred for them. Right now, Sid left her daughter without any explanations.. so she comparing him with her husband was o.k attract moment. But seriously she is crazy, first she could not see her daughter's love for him and now she can't see his love for her..

Comparing is OK at the moment but DD want Roshni to repeat the same mistake she did. I don't think DD tried to pursue her husband or know the reason why he left in all these 20yrs😕 She convinced herself and evryone that he is dead and moved on in her life. Who knows if she tried to convince him and get him back, they would have been together and Roshni would have had a father😕

But now DD want Roshni to leave Sid and move on w/o giving Sid a chance. Thus if Roshni follows DD's thinking she too won't fight for her love and let it go😕 This sort of advice is wrong from a mother, DD should have done something to get Sid back or atleast know the reason behind his decision😕

Originally posted by: zoopassion

Comparing is OK at the moment but DD want Roshni to repeat the same mistake she did. I don't think DD tried to pursue her husband or know the reason why he left in all these 20yrs😕 She convinced herself and evryone that he is dead and moved on in her life. Who knows if she tried to convince him and get him back, they would have been together and Roshni would have had a father😕

But now DD want Roshni to leave Sid and move on w/o giving Sid a chance. Thus if Roshni follows DD's thinking she too won't fight for her love and let it go😕 This sort of advice is wrong from a mother, DD should have done something to get Sid back or atleast know the reason behind his decision😕

Originally posted by: madhuharini

DD is very much affected by her husband's left away... After that she has only Roshni in her life and proceed her life for Roshni's future. Bcoz of these 2 reasons, DD always suspects Sid's love for Roshni and always showing over-protectiveness to her😊 Now her hubby also returned back and soon I hope she'll understand Sid who's not like other men😊

dd can be a bit thick when it comes to knowing the characters

She is not comparing her husband with sid wot she meant was roshni will understand why her mom was against middle class people its like sid does something good she tries to accept him n then the next moment he again gives her a reason to hate him which is reasonable basically shiv DD past will be more for roshni to realise why her mom has been like this well this is the problem with sid dis time he should have spoken to roshni about this divorce issue but no he has to show his mahanta

Originally posted by: pree8714

She is not comparing her husband with sid wot she meant was roshni will understand why her mom was against middle class people its like sid does something good she tries to accept him n then the next moment he again gives her a reason to hate him which is reasonable basically shiv DD past will be more for roshni to realise why her mom has been like this well this is the problem with sid dis time he should have spoken to roshni about this divorce issue but no he has to show his mahanta

Yesterday in many instances DD was hinting her accusations at Sid based on her experience of Shiv. For eg. she said a person who leave u in difficult times does not love u.. That's not the case with Sid, but may be with Shiv😕

And DD has a pre concieved notion of Sid, which will never change, whatever good he does😕 Earlier her problem was that Sid is middle class and middle class people cannot be trusted. But now she knows Sid , she how good he is and also knows how much he does things for others😕 Still when something happens, she don't find it necessary to find a reason behind it. I would not have blamed her if she atleast tried to talk to him once, to know why he did it😕 But no... Just hearing about divorce she started her bashan and it looked like Sid has cheated Roshni.😕 If he wanted to do that he would not have done any help to DD

And in relations u need to see things sometimes beyond spoken words. She should atleast give him a benefit of doubt knowing Sid is not a bad person😕, but rather than that she started her bashing and reached at a conclusion. This way she will only destroy Roshni's life😕

Nia also said in the interview that, roshni will lead the kind of life DD was living. In the present she is also leading it. And Anchit said that roshni will understand why DD used to do and her point of view I guess. But this is beyond ridiculous. I also said it before in one post shiv can't be compared to Sid. Shiv was a loser and left his family on street. But Sid always protected his sasural like a shield after getting insulted over and over. All I can say is Jr mothers are manipulator and manipulative. Never trust any of them because later they will show their true colors.