Ragini is always angry with Neil

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ragini is always cold and angry with Neil. She behaves as if he is the villain of the show. She forgets that he spent 15 lonely years because of her, without any fault of his own. She doesn't think about that all. She didn't even once realize that it was Arav who took promise from Neil that night to not tell
Ragini anything. He was in a very tough position that day.
Ragini does not realize that if she doesn't become hyper and always get angry with Neil , then he might not be scared of telling her everything. He is always doubtful of her reaction.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ragini even forgets that in those 15 years Neil was just missing her and did not even think about anyone else. He broke his engagement because of her. But she got engaged . How can she think of even getting engaged when her son is in jail. Why is she so desperate about Aman. I don't think she loves him.
Why can't she patiently make an effort to understand Neil who loves and cares for her like crazy and even she loves him. She knows that this will also be good for their children who are also wanting both their parents' love together.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ragini is always making faces and giving bad looks to Neil. She very coldly and blatantly told Neil to go back to USA and even take the children with him. She always makes him feel unwanted even though he is so caring and does so much for her. Aman does nothing for her and then also she is after him.
Neil was right that Nishi is not even fine and things have not been sorted between her and Jignesh. Then how can she tell him to go?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ragini has to be cold and distant towards Neil. She cannot let her guard down or display any emotional connection or care towards Neil, otherwise the floodgates will open and swallow her whole!
Ragini has been bitten twice for loving Neil. She desperately loved him, married him and had his children, only to have the rug pulled from under her feet, with the whole Suhani/Roopali/Infidelity thing, which Neil did not make much of an attempt to fix. They divorced and he took off to the US. Huge, huge mistake on his part. No contact for 15 years! Another big mistake. Ragini struggled as a single parent in those years.

But things were resolved and both apologized, realized they had wasted time and need to be together.
They were taking baby steps towards remarriage when the Aarav thing exploded. From Ragini's perspective, Neil lied and hid things.

She is a broken woman. She can't allow herself to love Neil again. He is her weakness. She feels that every time she becomes carefree and allows Neil into her life, she becomes deliriously happy, but then all hell breaks lose. It has happened twice.

Hence the engagement to Dr. Aman. It is her defense mechanism. The engagement acts as a shield around her. Keeps her heart safe from being broken by Neil again.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pinot



Ragini has to be cold and distant towards Neil. She cannot let her guard down or display any emotional connection or care towards Neil, otherwise the floodgates will open and swallow her whole!

Ragini has been bitten twice for loving Neil. She desperately loved him, married him and had his children, only to have the rug pulled from under her feet, with the whole Suhani/Roopali/Infidelity thing, which Neil did not make much of an attempt to fix. They divorced and he took off to the US. Huge, huge mistake on his part. No contact for 15 years! Another big mistake. Ragini struggled as a single parent in those years.

But things were resolved and both apologized, realized they had wasted time and need to be together.
They were taking baby steps towards remarriage when the Aarav thing exploded. From Ragini's perspective, Neil lied and hid things.

She is a broken woman. She can't allow herself to love Neil again. He is her weakness. She feels that every time she becomes carefree and allows Neil into her life, she becomes deliriously happy, but then all hell breaks lose. It has happened twice.

Hence the engagement to Dr. Aman. It is her defense mechanism. The engagement acts as a shield around her. Keeps her heart safe from being broken by Neil again.





I agree with you, from Raginis point of view she is correct. It was Nachiket who was hiding Rupali and not Ragini and he never tried to tell anything to Ragini because Rupali told not to tell. Even though it is Rupali who told not to tell this to Ragini, atleast after her death he should have told her. Telling lies hiding something is O.K, but not at the cost of breaking the relations and putting the son to jail is a very big mistake which cannot be accepted.

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