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New Perspective 3
Aman's beating was ...satisfying...however I did feel bad when they all took turns beating him and uploaded his video online. That was a bit too far and I genuinely felt that Dr. Aman was beyond honorable when he said that seeing Nishi laughing caused all his pain to vanish. There is a fine line between friendly mocking an individual and mentally hurting an individual. Today I think the Patels crossed that line, it seemed that only Ragini was feeling ashamed for her behavior towards Dr. Aman. The rest were busy laughing and making jokes, like the audience they (sunny Thai, Nishi, agham, suhani,) all were quite annoyed that Aman was in between their Ragini and Neil. In the beginning of the show, I found it absolutely adorable how the children were playing little cupids for their parents. We wanted these children to play Cupid when the show first started however it's better late then never. Nevertheless, their intentions and beliefs towards dr. Aman were revealed right then, they do not view Aman as a human with emotions, rather only an obstacle which is why agham saying he should take sainyaas being to an extent humorous might actually be a forewarning. By forewarning I mean the children might do something un unusually cruel to dr. Aman to remove him from the equation however knowing drama serials he is going to stick around for a long time with no intentions of leaving Ragini and perhaps even taking revenge on the Patels for their mistreatment. Well, we can only hope that the Patels do not smother him in the process of uniting Ragini and Neil.
Now to the portion of the show where Ragini was massaging Dr. Aman's shoulders, did anyone notice how her eyes were downcast and her posture revealed that she herself was profoundly uncomfortable. It seemed like she was only doing this because it was required of her. Of course. The audience could infer that she did not want to and that Ragini was feeling even embarrassed doing it front of Neil. She couldn't meet his gaze, evident there was a little bit of guilt for hurting him, there was a little bit of shame for even touching dr. Aman, but there was a lot of denial as well. Refusal to admit any of her emotions, refusal of the fact that she still loved Neil, refusal of the fact that whatever Neil felt and thought of her affected her in any way. Regardless, Ragini is going keep this ehsaan wala relationship for a while so brace yourself guys.
Neil today was just... He's laughs in the beginning and then him crying in the end, it's his whole life summed up. He was so happy, he was teasing Ragini. Saying repeatedly how she hit Aman with the dhanda and he was just, all the jokes...I mean he was...wow. But to all of those who cried with him in the end, I was left immensely touched by his display of affections for Ragini. So far we've all seen him being cold towards Ragini after his return to india, he bottled up all his emotions and today they were bleeding out of him. The scene with badi nani was just amazing. He was crying his heart out, he was fed up and so tired. There was so much longing. He didn't understand why Ragini doesn't trust him, why all that he does falls short, why history is repeating himself, and why Ragini can't be his. To sum it up there was love but there wasn't trust. As I've previously stated, just because you love someone does not mean you understand them. Neil still fails to see where he went wrong and why Ragini still won't trust him. The reason being the incident with Aarav, even though Neil meant no harm, he still had lied and hidden Aarav's situation from Ragini. Indirectly he had broken Ragini trust. When you break someone's trust even once even without knowledge, no matter what you do it won't return to the same way it once was. Neil still has to learn this. He is hurt and he cannot see his fault in this.
Well we can hope that his confusion ends soon and he regains Ragini's trust. As for Ragini, we can hope she trusts him this time and realizes that a relationship like theirs is meant to be, and like badi nan said, we as the audience are not forgetting this anytime soon.
Sincerely A.
Pyaar Kii Ye Ek Kahaani
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
