Fragile Love : We can make it last

Wow! Very well said Ragini!

Yes, their relationship is on a very fragile stage. I completely agree about the rebuilding the trust and understanding all over again. Both have changed throughout the years and are not used anymore to have the other one around. Wonderful that they want to give it another try but both have to understand that this time, things won't come easy. In fact, it has never been an easy journey for them; Nachiket used to be the Casanova, Ragini the jealous types and also both are very stubborn. It has been a clash ever since the beginning but somehow destiny made it work and brought them together.

Good to see that Nachiket had changed after marriage and the result was there; four kids in a just four years. However, these two have spent most of their lives without each other than with which is why both need to understand that this relationship needs so much more than their undying love.

Whatever had happened in the past, has damaged them in a very brutal way and even today the past haunts them.
Yes Nachiket needs to be honest to Ragini about anything that happens in his life. No more time for bullshit and excuses. We got to see a glimpse of a determined and confident Nachiket yesterday which I really liked. He should maintain that attitude and try to improve himself for the better. Of course, Ragini has her share of improvements too. Her reaction yesterday was a bit too much in my opinion. I understand that the past still tastes like a bitter medicine but she could have handled this differently.

Anyway, according to the precap she will trust him from now on only if he will be honest. Fair enough! But like I have always said: these two need a heart to heart convo about the past, the present and most importantly the future. The emotional connect is somewhere still a bit on the loose side and need to be strengthen. This relationship can't only survive on love, impossible!

Them willing to work on their relationship will have a good impact and effect on the kids too. All four are examples of a broken marriage and are damaged for life. Even the two gems, Aghaam and Suhaani. They need bonding with their parents, again on an emotional level. But first, the parents have to start with controlling the damage in their life otherwise it won't make sense.

A good relationship is all about communication, trust, being friends, understanding, love and honesty. If one pillar breaks then it will collapse. However, life has given them a second chance and both should grab it with both hands and make the most out of it!

Originally posted by: metoyou

Wow! Very well said Ragini!

Yes, their relationship is on a very fragile stage. I completely agree about the rebuilding the trust and understanding all over again. Both have changed throughout the years and are not used anymore to have the other one around. Wonderful that they want to give it another try but both have to understand that this time, things won't come easy. In fact, it has never been an easy journey for them; Nachiket used to be the Casanova, Ragini the jealous types and also both are very stubborn. It has been a clash ever since the beginning but somehow destiny made it work and brought them together.

Good to see that Nachiket had changed after marriage and the result was there; four kids in a just four years. However, these two have spent most of their lives without each other than with which is why both need to understand that this relationship needs so much more than their undying love.

Whatever had happened in the past, has damaged them in a very brutal way and even today the past haunts them.
Yes Nachiket needs to be honest to Ragini about anything that happens in his life. No more time for bullshit and excuses. We got to see a glimpse of a determined and confident Nachiket yesterday which I really liked. He should maintain that attitude and try to improve himself for the better. Of course, Ragini has her share of improvements too. Her reaction yesterday was a bit too much in my opinion. I understand that the past still tastes like a bitter medicine but she could have handled this differently.

Anyway, according to the precap she will trust him from now on only if he will be honest. Fair enough! But like I have always said: these two need a heart to heart convo about the past, the present and most importantly the future. The emotional connect is somewhere still a bit on the loose side and need to be strengthen. This relationship can't only survive on love, impossible!

Them willing to work on their relationship will have a good impact and effect on the kids too. All four are examples of a broken marriage and are damaged for life. Even the two gems, Aghaam and Suhaani. They need bonding with their parents, again on an emotional level. But first, the parents have to start with controlling the damage in their life otherwise it won't make sense.

A good relationship is all about communication, trust, being friends, understanding, love and honesty. If one pillar breaks then it will collapse. However, life has given them a second chance and both should grab it with both hands and make the most out of it!

Again very well said. Yes every relationship is a give and take. Both want to make it work this time, but at this moment they fail how to make this work. They seem confused and somehow lost about what to do next. Take one step at a time.. Which is why they have to communicate about their feelings and what they exactly want before announcing it to the whole wide world.

If both remain as stubborn as before then nothing will work. They don't have to change themselves dramatically, but in order to be able to continue the relationship with less issues, they both need to tone it down with the ego and stubbornness, and add some to that level of trust.

Life will have so many (un)pleasant surprises for them and if they can't fight it now, then they won't able to do it on the long run either.

Ragini, This is one beautiful topic! You have said it all. Kudos to you!

There will be ups and downs, and ebbs and flows, within any relationship made even more complex by our own personal ups and downs, and ebbs and flows. Nachiket and Ragini, both have some or the other flaws. But being unhappy in any relationship, even if you love the person you're with or have been together for a long time is a huge red flag. To avoid that, they need to find ways to communicate so that their equilibrium is not disturbed on a long-term basis. You are right, for this; he needs to stop lying..whatever may be the reason and she should trust him when he tries to convince her wholeheartedly.

This has been shown as Nachikets behaviour where he will listen to everyone, like Rupali telling - not to tell Ragini and Aarav telling his dad not to tell mom, nivedita telling Nachiket not to tell Ragini. It makes sense, it is one of the behaviour of a person. All this was only done not to hurt Ragini who is over possessive.

Originally posted by: Siddharth_K

Ragini, This is one beautiful topic! You have said it all. Kudos to you!

There will be ups and downs, and ebbs and flows, within any relationship made even more complex by our own personal ups and downs, and ebbs and flows. Nachiket and Ragini, both have some or the other flaws. But being unhappy in any relationship, even if you love the person you're with or have been together for a long time is a huge red flag. To avoid that, they need to find ways to communicate so that their equilibrium is not disturbed on a long-term basis. You are right, for this; he needs to stop lying..whatever may be the reason and she should trust him when he tries to convince her wholeheartedly.

Originally posted by: suma74

This has been shown as Nachikets behaviour where he will listen to everyone, like Rupali telling - not to tell Ragini and Aarav telling his dad not to tell mom, nivedita telling Nachiket not to tell Ragini. It makes sense, it is one of the behaviour of a person. All this was only done not to hurt Ragini who is over possessive.

Originally posted by: RaginiluvsNR

Totally Sid! You're absolutely right. Now that they are trying to revive theirold relationship, it iswise to remember there was indeed areason they parted ways initially. It was no doubt a silly reason that even they regret. They should learn from their mistakes. And not tobe afraid to rootout the truth..and should approach the future by looking at the past..make sure you don't repeat the mistakes..and look forward with a clear headand open eyes.

Very well said! They need to focus here and now. So that the history doesn't repeat itself.