why is the show called itna karo na mujhe pyar?

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hi everybody... im so in love with this show I wait anxiously for it to air everyday.. so anyway when the show started I saw a comment and somebody asked why is the show called itna karo na mujhe pyar because neil n ragini hate each other so much. .. so anyway now that the shows developing I see why it is called that..if I translate it it means 'dont love me so much' right? sorry im from South Africa my hindi is very weak.. so from all the flash backs u can see how deeply neil loved ragni infact he still loves her so much.. the way he treats dr aman because he is obviously jealous, the way he runs to rags rescue everytime, the way he looks at her. .there really is so much love infact he loves her to much.. so from my point of view I think the title is ragni saying to neil 'itna karo na muhje pyar' don't love me so much and she blushes and says it .sorry if this was discussed already. . if anyone has a different view or if I got the meaning wrong please share your views thanx 😳

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Posted: 10 years ago
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You got the translation right on the nose.
i think it is both of them saying it to each other...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi,

New to the forum and just caught up with the show - Love love all works of Ronit Roy! and for once they have picked younger actors who can act!

I too wondered how the title related to the show - despite knowing what the words meant😉

Although I get the feeling that Neil is more in love with her ( from what has been shown)...not to say Ragini isnt in love with him but just that she is very reserved and her ego seems to get in the way of showing her love.

Even if you look at the flashbacks - he's always coming on to her - she is more aloof... what say... are there scenes I may have missed where Ragini is more demonstrative?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: giaa

Hi,

New to the forum and just caught up with the show - Love love all works of Ronit Roy! and for once they have picked younger actors who can act!

I too wondered how the title related to the show - despite knowing what the words meant😉

Although I get the feeling that Neil is more in love with her ( from what has been shown)...not to say Ragini isnt in love with him but just that she is very reserved and her ego seems to get in the way of showing her love.

Even if you look at the flashbacks - he's always coming on to her - she is more aloof... what say... are there scenes I may have missed where Ragini is more demonstrative?



you are right! its always him she does let ego affect her love.. he obviously loves her to much
hence he hasn't moved on. n she needs to satisfy her ego hence she is faking her marriage.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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well i think it bcuz they have divorced and moved on (atleast dtz what they think). so they are telling each other that dunt love me so much thati forget my past and come back to you again (which according to them is a sign of weakness).
this is the only reason i could think of!!

hope this helps.. 😊

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: foxy_s

hi everybody... im so in love with this show I wait anxiously for it to air everyday.. so anyway when the show started I saw a comment and somebody asked why is the show called itna karo na mujhe pyar because neil n ragini hate each other so much. .. so anyway now that the shows developing I see why it is called that..if I translate it it means 'dont love me so much' right? sorry im from South Africa my hindi is very weak.. so from all the flash backs u can see how deeply neil loved ragni infact he still loves her so much.. the way he treats dr aman because he is obviously jealous, the way he runs to rags rescue everytime, the way he looks at her. .there really is so much love infact he loves her to much.. so from my point of view I think the title is ragni saying to neil 'itna karo na muhje pyar' don't love me so much and she blushes and says it .sorry if this was discussed already. . if anyone has a different view or if I got the meaning wrong please share your views thanx 😳


well i think it bcuz they have divorced and moved on (atleast dtz what they think). so they are telling each other that dunt love me so much that i forget my past and come back to you again (which according to them is a sign of weakness).
this is the only reason i could think of!!

hope this helps.. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: foxy_s

you are right! its always him she does let ego affect her love.. he obviously loves her to much
hence he hasn't moved on. n she needs to satisfy her ego hence she is faking her marriage.


I don't think it is ego. Some people are very reserved and find it difficult to express their affection or emotion...

It actually stems down to inferiority complex... They don't feel good enough or deserving... They have a fear of rejection and are always conscious of how they will be conceived... Hence to protect themselves they create barriers.

Ego and arrogance is a side effect of inferiority complex. The stronger the complex the more egoistic and arrogant a person appears.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The show is named 'Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar' ... this i think their heart to each other...both love each other immensely ... Ragini also loves Neil but is reluctant to show because she thinks He will break it again and Ragini 's heart says' Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar' cose she'll fall for him again and get hurt again.

Neil's heart says' Itna karo Na Mujhe Pyaar' because he knows that she loves him still and he fears that he'll hurt her more than before but can't control himself... Ragini doesn't tell but Neil knows and understands it... so he tries to tell her no to love him so much that he always lives in her memories...

It is like the poem written by and Indian Poet and name is Geet and Ageet which tells how love is expressed even without words...but by actions... Neil expresses it but Ragini hides it... Remember in the episode when Neil calls her for first time after 16 yrs...She cries... and she can recognise his voice because his voice still rings in her mind!!!

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