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Kavyanjali

@kavyanjali08

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

I always strt my commnt with 'awsom' word but 2day i just felt lyk crying or shouting my lungs out...i mean itz horrible terrible just reading it i m having terrible goosbumps...so da person wnt through it i don't wanna imagine wht must hav happnd 2 hr...n da family...well so-calld family is somthing 2 call dem a family...aise family se toh orphn hona is 1000tymz bettr...khushi sud nevr evr evr 4giv hr parntz or all da family didn't supprt hr...i find hr parntz n family is equaly responsible lyk vikas...dey indirctly supportd him...if i get my way i wud give 10-15 slaps 2 her parntz sply hr mom...chee bettr b orphn & alone den hav dis kinda disgusting family n parntz...Ram n Nita i just adore dem 4 supprting hr dis is how family sud b not lyk hr parntz thrwing der daughtr in hell...disgusting!!! Nxt chp sooon!!!! 2nyt i'm gonna hav terrible nytmare due 2 dis stuff...

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RizArshi

@RizArshi

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

It is so hard to believe that someone had to go through all these torture and still suffering. Those ppl should not be called human beings. She is an independent woman. I know its hard to start her life afresh but she needs to be strong for herself. NO she shouldn't forgive her family. This is the family that did not believe her despite being the one to bring her up. This is the family which made her go back to the hell despite witnessing her condition time and again. What is the guarantee that they won't do it again? She should utilize the help she is getting from her brother and her colleagues and start her life again.

I know of a similar real life story where a university teacher was tortured, raped and was also attempted to be murdered by her husband who was an engineer. That lady was a Ph.D holder still she suffered for more than 10 years. Now she has lost both of her eyes as a result of domestic violence. When she was fighting for her life and death, she was being accused of being unfaithfull by her husband. That lady despite being blind went to Canada , got her treatment done (Though she will never get her eyesight back) and got another degree with fullbright scholarship from University of British Columbia on Political Science. This story is well known to everyone in my country. I think she can be an inspiration to Khushi so that she can move on with life and stand on her two feet rather than going back to her family.

I really appreciate ur efforts to highlight the cruel side if the society to us. This is indeed very important to raise awareness so that no other girl suffers the same fate.

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dershika

@dershika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Nyc work but really very painfull story

I don't think the girl should ever forgive her family who didn't helped ,supported or believed her when she needed them the most

What a family or parents r if they could not trust or support or fight for the child when needed in difficult times

It is better to be orphan then so that the victim is mentally prepared to handle things alone

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Sarah

@devilindisguise

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+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

M nt an emotionally person
bt still wenevr i read ur stories my eyes get num
i feel pangs of pain in my heart
wonder hw she went through d hell
must say she is a fighter
ppl lik her husband shud b tortured to hell
I jz dnno wat to say
my heart beats r soaring high wid rage fr dat kind of person
She endured too long
it takes courage to share such a personal account wid sum1
Hatsoff to her
respect is wat she earnd n dignity nvr lft her
i wish i every gal shud stand fr herself n nt bear d tortures

cumn to d parents
u dnt thnk forgiveness is wat dey deserve
dey shud worry abt daughter n nt society
No Forgiveness

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Anjali

@AnjuRish

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: dershika
Nyc work but really very painfull story
I don't think the girl should ever forgive her family who didn't helped ,supported or believed her when she needed them the most
What a family or parents r if they could not trust or support or fight for the child when needed in difficult times
It is better to be orphan then so that the victim is mentally prepared to handle things alone

Thank you for the comment

I have tried to make it as less painful as possible here...since i cannot describe some of the stuff that he had done to me. The bondage the pain the rape it was tough .

sometimes i feel guilty that i do not pick calls from any of my family except Ram and Nita. But i cant seem to escape the nightmares

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Anjali

@AnjuRish

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: devilindisguise
M nt an emotionally person
bt still wenevr i read ur stories my eyes get num
i feel pangs of pain in my heart
wonder hw she went through d hell
must say she is a fighter
ppl lik her husband shud b tortured to hell
I jz dnno wat to say
my heart beats r soaring high wid rage fr dat kind of person
She endured too long
it takes courage to share such a personal account wid sum1
Hatsoff to her
respect is wat she earnd n dignity nvr lft her
i wish i every gal shud stand fr herself n nt bear d tortures

cumn to d parents
u dnt thnk forgiveness is wat dey deserve
dey shud worry abt daughter n nt society
No Forgiveness

Thanks for the comment sweetie

This is my story so painful .But yeah Ram bhai is the man who told me i have to fight for my dignity for it is the right thing

Nita is my lil sis who supports me without thinking if i am right or wrong

sometimes i feel i should have walked out earlier

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Anjali

@AnjuRish

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

sushi08 and risat

Thank you for the comments

Yeah i still suffer from something called PSTD (Post Traumatic Stress disorder)

Now i dont mind handshakes

I hug only Sha, Ganesh, RAm bhai and Arjun ...i am scared when anyone else comes close to me too much

even my own cousins ..

its tough ..but if anyone is in a situation like this walk out before it becmes bad.

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ll..Gungun..ll

@ll..Gungun..ll

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+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

this is a new concept

love it

thnx for the pm

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dumas

@dumas

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Should Khushi forgive her parents?

NEVER A PARENT IS SUPPOSED TO PROTECT A CHILD IS SUPPOSED TO SUPPORT NOT DEMEAN OR USED BLACK MAIL OF KILLING THEMSELVES TO GET THEIR CHILD TO GO BACK TO A SITUATION THAT HAS PUTTHEIR LIFE AND WELL BEING IN HARMS WAY AND DECIDED THEY PRIDE AND THEIR WHAT EVER IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THEIR CHILD WELL BEING KHUSHI SHOULD NEVER FORGIVE AND EVEN WHEN SHE COULD HAVE GOTTEN HELP THEIR BLACKMAILED HER WITH THEIR DEATH SHE SHOULD NEVER FORGIVE THEM

What do you think is going in her mind?

SHAME HURT ANGER PAIN AND HOPEFULLY FREEDOM AFTER ESCAPING FROM HIM INDIA LAWS ARE TO AGAINST WOMEN

HEART BREAKING UPDATE SO MUCH PAIN AND ANGER AND HATE SHE HAD TO BECAUSE OF THAT DISGUSTING MAN HE SHOULD BE CASTRATED AND THEN SENT TO A MAN PRISON TO BE RAPED AND TORTURED SO MUCH HAPPENED AND HE FAMILY DID NOT SUPPORT HER WHAT TYPE OF PARENTS ARRE THEY BETTER SHE DID NOT HAVE PARENTS SO MUCH PAIN SHE HAD TO GO THROUGH FROM HER PARENT AND THE POLICE REFUSING TO HELP HER WHY THE HELL ARE THEY WERE A UNIFORM FOR GLAD SOME ONE HELPED HER ESCAPED SO SAD SO MUCH HAPPENED BEFORE SHE COULD GET HELP AND ESCAPED I LOVED HER BROTHER ADVICE TO HER GLAD HE SUPPORTED HER THANKS FOR THE PM

Edited by dumas - 12 years ago

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Sarah

@devilindisguise

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Thanks for the comment sweetie
This is my story so painful .But yeah Ram bhai is the man who told me i have to fight for my dignity for it is the right thing
Nita is my lil sis who supports me without thinking if i am right or wrong
sometimes i feel i should have walked out earlier

i really respect ur ram bhai and ur sis fr d support
yes u shud hav walkd away earlier bt its bttr late dan never
Hope dat guy is in jail and rots der till death
i kept twisting n turning all nyt remembering ur story
al d bst fr ur lyf cumn up...may allah giv u happiness n freedom frm d shackles of ur past