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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dadi kept asking him "will you hurt your mother by keeping relationship with that women's family'. I think knowing the other women is Garima gave him a huge shock. And Dadi's words sticked to his mind that he might not do justice to his mother if he chooses Kushi. But he also knows leaving Kushi was not an option as he can't live without her.

So i think when he got his mom's flash back he realized what she meant to explain to him then, made him realize he was not insulting her in any way as rose is not at fault and that's when he remembered all his moments with Kushi. He realized she is more to him then his past or hate. If i remember correctly he was never angry at the other women. It was always his dad's fault for him. I feel he made a decision by time he returned.

By Nafrat, Dhoka, Dard i think he meant that coming there he knew his past will be in front of him to taunt him. Even though he knew that his past will give him pain if he comes there. He was ready to get over it and be with her. I feel his moving back is mainly just CV's creating tension. But one explanation is he wanted to complete saying what he wanted to tell her before her concentration diverts to his injuries. So after holding her he completed saying that "He was searching for answers to question for which she was the answer (her Love)".

When he said about Rose and thorns to Dadi. I think he meant thorn is his father and not Garima. From his past experience with Kushi and Shyam it must be easy for him to understand Garima's situation. He started trusting people.

I really think he is moving forward as Arnav/ASR always do everything face to face. He is a man who is not scared/afraid to say and do what he wants. So no it will not be ASR if he is doing everything with other motives in mind. I really hope CV's don't go down that way. We already have scammer in the serial (Shyam) who is two faced. I really don't think and want hero to be two faced.

This is how I looked at it. I hope I am not wrong😛


Edited by Hope - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#42
We all knew that ASR will marry Khushi but wasn't sure about him forgiving Garima so soon ..rather I was quite surprised with it...


Must say that forgiving Garima so easily is the only bit that is bugging me ...Could be that seeing Khushi faint he changed him mind..I wont say that there is any hidden agenda as ASR to me is a very straight forward person impulsive person...it is impossible for him to pretend such an emotion ...so either he just really wanted to forget his past and move on or he changed his mind seeing Khushi's condition...

I remember dadi saying to Shyam that Arnav never had blamed the other woman ..to him it has always been his dad the guilty one...could be that's what prompted him to say to his dadi again that the main culprit was her son who played with the emotions of two women..(loved ASR for that..for a change a woman is spared..otherwise it is always the fault of the fairer sex) ..


I just hope in the future whatever the situation is as they deal with it together..and not against each other..I know me being a hopeless tomantic is asking for this from a daily soap..but dil always mange more...

Edited by apara_loves_IPK - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya_dreams



@bold ... this is the best explanation of arnav's mindset at that time ...
i think you should make a separate post on this ... i guess, many are confused on this ...
i think that kind of dialogue was purposely written to create cliff hanging like situation at end of thursday's episode ...

but i am sure that deciding moment for khushi was that rose scene ...
but that scene was very powerful, it showed how much attached he was to his mom as a little boy, ... after that i can understand ASR's pain to a greater extent ...

about forgiving garima part, i am not sure of exact moment... but i was thinking aren't these moments same ???? ... because he believed that biggest truth is that he loves khushi so her love made him let go off his past ...
and he always considered his dad to be at fault, he never blamed other women before also, so just knowing her identity didn't made him feel otherwise even though it came to him initially as shock as he never expected his ladylove being related to his dark past ...





hey made a separate post dear!!!!!!!!!! hope people finally can get what ASR meant actually!!!! n THANKS for supporting!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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personally, i belive that he moment he held her dupatta, he knew that he was gong t mary her. he knew the moment his car was about t crash and he remembered what losing khushi was like, plus had he been angry at ggarima, he would hqve shown it. atleast a flash of anger would have shown..he is not good at hding his anger you know...but then, its whqt i think! sorry for the errors, i am typing from my mobile
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said but i think he resolved it before reaching.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#46
I don't find anything wrong in his words regarding his past !!😊
but onething makes sure the way he comes with some point and ends in another point !!😕
yes..its last minute change of track !!😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
#47
Ya even i felt that it was very abrupt and a very forceful attempt to forget the past... He came to just marry Khushi but had not fully forgiven Garima till that moment. Dadi's departing lines confirm there is more to the past. But in one of the earlier episodes he told dadi that in the past it had been just his Dad's mistake and currently Shyam's. Later while narrating the past to Khushi he spoke about his hatred towards the other woman . This had got me confused then and has not cleared it after this week's epis.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#48
I just love your awesome posts!

Yes I agree there should be more to Garima part. The way they resolved his past which haunted him for 14 yrs and us for last 1.5 yrs, it seemed like they rushed on that scene.

This is just my pov. Well, we are all happy for arshi wedding. But I expected happy wedding and not suspense and stressful wedding. The way they created situations and suspense didn't gel well as per my pov.
Few things I have doubt and doesnt gel well to me is and I can't get over this big blooper:

Lot of people says, he was in shock and he doesn't know dadi is in the Mandap, while Khushi was being insulted and waiting for him. So,

Arnav comes back and forgives Garima, so how he knew that dadi went to the mandap to break the marriage while he was in the garden crying?he knows dadi's nature

Did he assumed that let dadi humiliate khushi and her family while i am in shock.

So what was the point of making Khushi wait in the altar and getting herself and family insulted.

Sorry, but these big bloopers doesn't fit into my mind. They could have showed these scenes
differently.
Again this is just my pov. But I am happy with the arshi wedding,not the way it happened but happy that it happened finally. And I expected a big promo of this big wedding. Not a promo like Khushi waiting and rituals follow etc.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@sarunmagic..good point..how Dd Arnav know dadi had gone to Mandap and also hw much she said??
And if he thought dadi would do that wh didn't he rush thee himself??? The shock factor maybe the reason...and when he got there seeing the ppl there he obviously knows the are wondering if the marriage will happen.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arnav was probably apprehensive about forgiving Garima which was ousted the minute Khushi almost fainted. There is a possibility that he had heard more of his parents last conversation that doesnt put Garima in the bad light but had a natural hatred towards her due to the turn of events. The bitterness had come out in the first few sentences and was then replaced by the will to move on. My analysis is probably wishful thinking and a possible answer to my previous post here.

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