What hurt most about ASR today - Page 9

I guess today I realized that he is NOT sure if he should marry Khushi! His grandmother made him think that he will BETRAY his Mother by marrying Khushi!

Originally posted by: rima

And I believe so much in ASR's love that I never expected him to choose...or even think whether or not to marry Khushi

I feel quite sorry for arnav - he witnessed the death of his parents at such a tender age,his sisters wedding being called off.He had to live with the burden of his fathers betrayal.The pain of his mothers death.It has left him scarred for life.That he couldnt indulge himself in any happiness till now for him their was no light at the end of the tunnel.Till he found Khushi - Who he attatched his happiness with but now with a bomb shell of finding out the truth of the women he hated .and was the cause f his mothers death. This it has left him shocked i has brought him back to where he was before the pain he had undergone the raw pain has awoken.

i understand :) but don't you love your mother too? wouldn't that count as your life?

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I guess today I realized that he is NOT sure if he should marry Khushi! His grandmother made him think that he will BETRAY his Mother by marrying Khushi!

However, HE should know better than to fall for that! Khushi is NOT involved in this! She is just RELATED to the women Garima! So for something that happened 15 years ago, when she was a child, he will abandon HER??

What about his promises to HER? A real man keeps his promises! He has ruined Khushi's life ONCE, and now he has even slept with her and made her think that he is REALLY committed to her!

NOW, he is thinking about leaving her because of Garima? What if he found out about her AFTER the marraige? Then is he going to DIVORCE Khushi??

IF the answer is NO then, the answer should be NO now as well!

I think today, he proved that Khushi is NOT his priority and NEVER will be!! SHE trusts him and waiting for him, but he is taking his own sweet time! That is not LOVE to me!

Originally posted by: meinaurtu

He isn't taking his sweet time, he's hurt. Once again he also needs time to cope with his pain. You can't just expect him to be like Oh okay so I'm going to put my pain aside and marry her and then cry about it later. Like no. When you're emotional, you're emotional. You can't forget your emotions.

its hurt but its truth..till today i have a doubt on ASR's luv for khushi but now i am sure..he does not luv her enough...he does not luv her unconditionaly...tell me a single situation where he choose khushi over his family...his di...honestly there should not be any question of choosing..if he luves her really ..

I'm upset with arnav's attitude,i just lost hope on arnav even though he cums tmrrow n marries khushi.he always n will hurt khushi.khushi will be better off with arnav.

I saw ur thread last night but could not comment