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Posted: 13 years ago
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A beautiful episode but Arnav's loneliness in spite of having a full family hit me hard today….

This couple so much in love and at peace when together deserves to be together. The small bouts of happiness they get by just having the other with them made my heart hurt today not only for Arshi together but more so for Arnav.

The whole scene between dadi - shyam, Anji skipping around with a happy face made me feel very very sad for this man who has the misfortune to have such a family.

Not just the scheming trio but I feel it's a misfortune that these two who went to lengths to get Payash together are alone in their efforts just to be together.

Why does Arnav not have a brother who would turn the world upside down to remove his brother's insecurity over the jija, who would not rest till the people who wronged his brother are brought to justice? I won't include Payal as she did stand up for khushi when needed.

Why is this man who has been providing for everyone in the family, who has made sure that everyone gets their happiness is alone when it comes to standing for what he believes is right?

Why does this man who has always guarded his family with his life have no one to watch his back for once?

Well those who may feel I m forgetting Khushi, no I have not but what makes me feel a little at peace for her is that atleast she does not a scheming, lying, cheating family.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhakti...just looovvved yr post dear!!
what family he has yaar... dadi,anjali😡..not including shyam in d family!!!
he thinks only of his sister & she only of her hubby!
agree wid all ur points... n now me too feeling really really sorry for him...😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: laap

Bhakti...just looovvved yr post dear!!

what family he has yaar... dadi,anjali😡..not including shyam in d family!!!
he thinks only of his sister & she only of her hubby!
agree wid all ur points... n now me too feeling really really sorry for him...😭


This is what stood out for me today was how lonely he is and without khushi how lonely he will be...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post bhaktii
i really pity arnav smtimes for not hving family whats good thing hving so many ppl around but not WID u.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparna5293

Great post bhaktii
i really pity arnav smtimes for not hving family whats good thing hving so many ppl around but not WID u.


All he wants is to be with the one he loves, but even that is difficult when he has a sister too obsessed with her own happiness, a dadi who is to obsessed with proving her control over the family...sick people I say


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhakti!! Hello soul sis amazing post!!🤗

i indeed felt the same!! cz it indeed is like that!! they have both been lone worriers all their life...despite having a family whether related in blood(Arnav's) or bonded through the hearts(Khushi's), they have been acting the role of a protector all these years..
they have been there for their family. while the family has always taken them and their sacrifices and love for granted!!

and yes for most cases Khushi got the better deal cz ya the family at least cares genuinely despite sometimes judging her too harshly.. but the thing is she became a people pleaser where he became overprotective of the family...these were the casualties of the treatment they have always been subjected to.

But like u i do agree that Payal is an amazing sister!! i have always adored her!! she might be timid but for Khushi she will become a sherni when needed! and Arnav dismally lacks this except for surprisingly mamiji!! cz she does love him a lot where his siblings leave a lot to be desired!

anyway it is this loneliness they share that made them sought out each other..cz when they r together the loneliness goes away...So it is i guess what is the real story..

Edited by princessunara - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What is this I am hearing...B made an ASR support post?



"Oh, random fluctuations-in-the-space-time-continuum!"




What happened to this world while I was away?




I was forced to break my IF fast, just to see this!

Okay, Enough thatta!

But this is the main reason why I am (was?) crazy about this character. He is strong alone, because he had to become so. Right from the young age, when he should have been the one being protected, he was the one who took the reigns in his hands because the so called adults were shattered! . He indeed does write his own' kismat' and that of others (current track ignored for my mental balance!). Because he had to, because he could, he did and he does!

As Peter Parker's uncle rightly said, "With great power, comes great responsibility". The converse seems to apply to the Raizada's as they don't have any power, they don't take any responsibilities either! Everything is always on Arnav's (sexy) shoulders.

He has become so used to protecting others, that they have taken him for granted. He is focused on getting their back, that he doesn't stop to think, who will back him up when he is alone? He doesn't have that luxury does he?

He never forces his lifestyles or opinions on others and expects the same courtesy from them, which he almost always doesn't get! Has he ever truly done something just for himself? He has been called a cad, abusive, pervert and what not. Yes he has been arrogant, selfish and a bully. But, can anyone recall him being all that just for himself or if he ever initiated it ?

The Raizada family have almost always been leeches who really do not appreciate the effort and hardwork ASR put in in his daily life to maintain their lifestyle. Frankly, I could do without such a "loving" family!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara

Bhakti!! Hello soul sis amazing post!!🤗

i indeed felt the same!! cz it indeed is like that!! they have both been lone worriers all their life...despite having a family whether related in blood(Arnav's) or bonded through the hearts(Khushi's), they have been acting the role of a protector all these years..
they have been there for their family. while the family has always taken them and their sacrifices and love for granted!!

and yes for most cases Khushi got the better deal cz ya the family at least cares genuinely despite sometimes judging her too harshly.. but the thing is she became a people pleaser where he became overprotective of the family...these were the casualties of the treatment they have always been subjected to.

But like u i do agree that Payal is an amazing sister!! i have always adored her!! she might be timid but for Khushi she will become a sherni when needed! and Arnav dismally lacks this except for surprisingly mamiji!! cz she does love him a lot where his siblings leave a lot to be desired!

anyway it is this loneliness they share that made them sought out each other..cz when they r together the loneliness goes away...So it is i guess what is the real story..


Sunara a big hug to u too...u put it so well yes they have been warriers for their family all along and it is their loneliness which binds them together.

Arnav got the worse deal though. He loves hi Di more than anything else but she things of his happiness after she gets her own. For her he is pillar to holding her nothing more than that. Dadi she is seeing him just as an opponent in the war for control...Aakash I feel the most let down by though. How can he stay so aloof after knowing his bhai came back from death...
Edited by memyselfandrshi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes
i feel sad for arnav too
his family is so useless
and the only one who truly loves and cares for him is khushi
and now they are again trying to ruin him
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

yes

i feel sad for arnav too
his family is so useless
and the only one who truly loves and cares for him is khushi
and now they are again trying to ruin him


Exactly Rima that is why I felt sad...that all he has ever asked from them is to support him to be the woman he loves ... But what he gets is part of family scheming to keep them apart and not one person willing to watch his back 😭

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