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Arhimaniac thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sarunrocks



For a Unmarried girl..U actually have a good understanding of marriage but it just does not rest on heart n soul..it rests on determination, compromise,forgiveness n complete removal of rose tinted glasses !


@bold👏 aptly put😳


Experience Speaks,eh !! 😉😃


Yes determination compromise forgiveness and everything counts👏...The two who are getting into the sacred institution should make it a point that they will follow all this...Without that i think it will be just valid on cards only.

Many get married actually take sapthapadi without even actually knowing what is the purpose of that and when time comes to execute all that fails.

what dadi wants is for the society...what Arhi have achieved even without pheras is the true essence of marriage...😳

by the way why did the marriage talk start?? i just jumped in na aao dekha na tao😕😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
ok..friends i will take nap and continue my work..so that i can chat tomorrow😳
may join later
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: .Ghausia.


Just gonna butt into the conversation 😆
Hello to everyone by the way!
Marriage is a commitment between two hearts. When you enter the bond of matrimony, or at least before people started handing divorces out like they're going out of fashion, you embark on a journey with your other half. The bond of love, the strength of the bond, is increased even more when the couple are married. Without marriage, it all just seems so temporary. If I went down the religious route, in my religion we have completed half the requirements of our religion by getting married. Marriage holds huge weight in society as well as religion. If we forget the social aspect for a second, the external factors involved, marriage is still a huge part of life. Sure, some people are against marriage, but I feel that marriage is permanent. Marriage is a beautiful union between two people, and for me it is the basis from which you go on to start a family. Some people have all of that by being in a relationship outside marriage, and less commitment is involved. If we look at it this way, at least when marriage is legitimising the bond between two lovers, if things don't work out there are divorce proceedings and people aren't left empty-handed. If a relationship doesn't work out and there are children involved, it could be that one parent is left with no financial income, no way to support the children.
So that's the practical side of marriage; you have stability in life if you are legally bonded to the one you love. The romantic side... well, I'm not married so I'll let one of our married reduxians give you an answer to that bit 😉
I hope my answer made some sort of sense & didn't offend anyone! If any of you are in a relationship like that, please do not take offence at my words. I'm not always that good at articulating what it is that I want to say.




Marriage is a commitment between two hearts.

What if Heart changes its colors tomorrow,,would u still want it to be that of heart ...And if heart is so important..where does arranged marriages fit in , in this definition ??


The bond of love, the strength of the bond, is increased even more when the couple are married

why can't the bond deepen when a couple are living in ..after acc to ur first line it is commitment that matters ..


Without marriage, it all just seems so temporary.

Extra marital affairs ??


but I feel that marriage is permanent

How does it become permanent ?? what are the criteria's needed for that ??


Marriage is a beautiful union between two people

why can't love be that union..what is Love then ??


you have stability in life if you are legally bonded to the one you love

How does Marriage ensure stability..what if ur partner is the straying kind ??


Hi G !! 🤗

Hugs n Love...

Am in a exploring mood.. so please enlighten me on marriage n its benefits 😛

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Arhimaniac


@bold👏 aptly put😳



Experience Speaks,eh !! 😉😃


Yes determination compromise forgiveness and everything counts👏...The two who are getting into the sacred institution should make it a point that they will follow all this...Without that i think it will be just valid on cards only.

Many get married actually take sapthapadi without even actually knowing what is the purpose of that and when time comes to execute all that fails.

what dadi wants is for the society...what Arhi have achieved even without pheras is the true essence of marriage...😳

by the way why did the marriage talk start?? i just jumped in na aao dekha na tao😕😆

bushy i made a comment that i wanted arnav to give khushi a grand marriage because she dream about it..not because dadi is questioning the validity...then all questions from sathya began😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
Tants...This is a question for you..

Can you please elaborate on the dimaagwala acceptance??Is it yet to happen in case of Arshi??!!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Hi All...

Can I join??? How are everyone doing?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Arhimaniac


@bold👏 aptly put😳



Experience Speaks,eh !! 😉😃


Yes determination compromise forgiveness and everything counts👏...The two who are getting into the sacred institution should make it a point that they will follow all this...Without that i think it will be just valid on cards only.

Many get married actually take sapthapadi without even actually knowing what is the purpose of that and when time comes to execute all that fails.

what dadi wants is for the society...what Arhi have achieved even without pheras is the true essence of marriage...😳

by the way why did the marriage talk start?? i just jumped in na aao dekha na tao😕😆


I think shastra asked a question regarding this and now we are here😳

You know yesterday only i was talking abt the scene where ASR bring LA to home and both will proceed to theirr room and Nani will say that without marriage they cannot stay in same room its against society and will affect their family name. Here the scene is same only that ArShi are married like Khushi said Aadhe way but person is different...That time what was ASR's dialouge..He said he don believe in Marriage and all if nani has problem he will walk out with LA?? So where are we now
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: S003

On a really complicated project that never seems to end... but lets not talk about that...
Humour??? don't you mean laden with grammatical errors and spelling mistakes too booth!!!!
Editing was never my strength... especially after watching the show all I want to do is write and get it out of me...
But now you must tell me... what is the secret of your insight??



To err n have error prone posts is Human, Hun !!

Editing is not my strength too.. I throw everything that is bugging me and escape from there!!


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Posted: 13 years ago
Shadi kya hai nahin malum..per kya nahin hai...😆


one thing is sure:
shaadi koi bacho ka khel nahin hai..
shaadi koi saza nahin hai
shaadi koi barbaadi nahin hai
shaadi azadi nahin hai

maaf karna...this is singletons thoughts😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sampin

Tants...This is a question for you..


Can you please elaborate on the dimaagwala acceptance??Is it yet to happen in case of Arshi??!!



Acceptance for whom Sam..I mean for Khushi or Arnav you are asking??

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