Sorry I hurt you Khushi******

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know that there has been some direct criticism of Anjali & Arnav's character & their behaviour but I think that the storyline is spot on ...
Just some views again - Anjali never saw the faults in her husband- she always looked for the positive despite having seen his mistakes & having been let down & on top of that she sees that the brother she has bought up pratically like a mother is responsible for evicting him out of her life. Remember the speech that Arnav delivers when Shyam attempts to go to Di - he tells him not to go anywhere near his sister & so she plays this over & over in her mind. She has doted on her brother for a very long time but her husband was her excitement - the father of her child- the person that supported her & whom she leaned on & so she cannot reconcile that one is responsible for the other's total absence!!😭😭
I know that members on IF have also criticised Armav for not coming out fully with his confession. But if you think about it - he knows that it would be humiliating for Khushi after all that she has had to endure. Why make things worse for her. Out of everyone she is the one that has had to suffer the most & for the longest period & in the hands of so many people. She is the one that is wronged. He knows that as he has been witness to it. THE FACT that he admits that he has got a lot wrong about one person goes such a long way in absolving him. 👏👏Don't forget that this comes from a man that never apologises-neverbacks down & never really admits defeat, Knowing that - this confession went a long way in sealing the gap between these two & building bridges. As he showed his disgust of his Jijaji at the same time he also claimed back the relationship to his wife. He instilled her with the confidence & faith that she stuck with through thick & thin.
Some beautiful moments were encapsulated in this epi- on the stairs when they sit next to each other - you know that they are thinking about the same thing - their concern & worry of their sister & he offers her comfort. Just a subtle soft gesture. Finally when his face turns into that cheeky grin as he decides to bring some light fun into the sitaution by the poolside. Effective on the back of all the worry that both have suffered & will continue with. When she looks up after failing to meet his glances head on & realises what he is about. That is so sweet. ❤️The pre-cap when he says that you will have to learn not to move back when I approach you & instead you will have to learn to venture forward with me. He is not referring to their movements but I think that he is referring to their life together from here on in & is referring to the many challenges that they will face.
I think that this was a really well orchestrated episode & I cannot find fault with it - well done all - Brillliant job - good opening to all the drama unfolding. Just glad that we have the good old quality days of IPKKND back again.👏👏⭐️👏👏
What to you think of my perspective? Let me know by liking/commenting- love to hear your views😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow. That is well written! I really loved today's episode too and you took the words right out my mouth. I feel Arnav's character has come a long way and the fact that he admitted his mistake means so much more. Kushi understands everything and that is why she is not pushing him away despite the many hurdles she faced because of him!

The CVs have done on awesome job and I hope they carry on just like this!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ejaz*s babe

Wow. That is well written! I really loved today's episode too and you took the words right out my mouth. I feel Arnav's character has come a long way and the fact that he admitted his mistake means so much more. Kushi understands everything and that is why she is not pushing him away despite the many hurdles she faced because of him!


The CVs have done on awesome job and I hope they carry on just like this!

Thanks for supporting my views😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good analysis, Vasanti. Here's my view... Whatever Arnav did today and tomorrow are not enough. My verdict is still out on him because he still has not revealed the complete story to Nani regarding their wedding and the incidents following that. But my question is that if he could not tell the complete truth to Anjali because of her fragile mental state and pregnancy, what excuse does he have for not coming clean with Nani? Old age perhaps?

Today Nani asked Khushi to stay away from Anjali. Arnav looked briefly guilty at that and Khushi accepted. But why should she tip-toe around the house for anyone? Who is she? Your maid whom the owner does not like? She is still taken too much for granted.

What I found funny is that Anjali is upset with Arnav too. Yet Nani did not ask Arnav to stay away from Anjali. Then why should Khushi be scapegoat again? Why is her face is going to risk Anjali's health yet Arnav's constant pleading and begging gonna improve it? Double standard, anyone? Is this any different than telling a widow to not come to a wedding because it will upset the couple? My point is that the family has already started to differentiate, but it's so subtle that it's not visible yet.

The entire IF is rejoicing the romance track and CVs are showing a blushing Khushi... Good for you. I love their romantic interaction as much as anybody. But I did not conveniently forget everything Khushi went through by just taking one single look at Arnav's smirk and flirty attitude. It does not cutzilchfor me. I am still not satisfied.

I will be satisfied when the entire truth is revealed and Arnav shows proper repentance for Khushi. Because Khushi's fast-tracked forgiveness, Arnav decided he does not have to showremorse for her. Now he can devote his repentance for his Di... As the saying goes, when you get something easily, you won't learn the value of it. A hard earned bread is dearer than an readily available one...

I am not saying that he should become Devdas. But he should at least properly apologize for every wrong he did to her. Saying that he does not know how to apologize does not work for me since he is doing that with his Di well enough and he treated Khushi far worse than he did with his Di... If you don't know how to say sorry, then don't do something you will have to say sorry for. She forgave you before you asked for it, but that does not mean that the slate is clean in my book...

So when I watched the romance on replay I could enjoy it. But when I watched it with rest of the scenes, the unfair taken for granted attitude towards Khushi is leaving me cold...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well said vasanti,...u'd touched on everything detail that i picked in the epi today...
Just missed out on Paayash equation...sorry i cant seem to turn away from it,...as i truly admire Akshay dogra...but that was justified as well...the whole equation and every character is very much real and the emotions portrayed are very much like normail ppl would react...so basically relatable...
Loving the track and looking fwd to this entire week to unfold...
Cheers
Avni
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with your perspective Vasanti:)

Thank you for understanding Anjali, lot of people are bashing her but they don't comprehend she worshiped and didn't see any flaws in him!

And Arhi scenes are always a treat to see:D

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with tia.o's views, again Khushi is the sacrificial lamb, why, why...??????????????Why can't Arnav come clean in front of all the family members, why hasn't been Mamiji n Akash been informed by Arnav of the truth by Arnav?😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: meshas

I agree with tia.o's views, again Khushi is the sacrificial lamb, why, why...??????????????Why can't Arnav come clean in front of all the family members, why hasn't been Mamiji n Akash been informed by Arnav of the truth by Arnav?😕


Thanks Meshas. My aim is not to bash Arnav. My complaint is to the CVs for showing a main character lacking the strength to owe up to his mistake. What kind of message does this pass on? It's okay to behave however you want with your wife because you will get forgiveness without asking just because you are her husband and she loves you?

For me, a character is only strong when he knows what he did wrong (which he did today) and have the guts to stand up and accept his mistake and be prepared to deal with the consequences. That's what I call a man. I'm sorry, this sudden romance track and Arnav's behaving as if they had a clean slate before he was kidnapped is not very digestible to me.

Frankly speaking, if my husband misbehaved with me and tried to cozy up without owing up to his mistake and saying sorry, he would have been hugging the couch, not me...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arnav has been hasty once. he is taking things slowly now. the family is already under the burden of Shyam's truth. if he tells them the entire truth it will just make them weaker which is not good at the moment. i am sure Arnav will come out with a solution which will be good for all :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Another Nice Post Vasanti..very well Written ..👏👏
Agree with u..
Anjali can't be Blamed and neither Arnav..
Arnav has to save Khushi's Selfrespect..So far they both never told any one about their wedding truth ..because they don't want to hurt each other all over Again..Arnav not blurting out every thing because one of this reason...He just can't hurt Khushi anymore...Also by telling Anjali how he knew everything before hand will hurt Anjali too so he has to make sure things go right way that his Di can face this tuff time too..by telling her the whole truth will Shattered his Di heart all over again..Arnav is just being protective towards his Di and Khushi...
Anajli will surly take time to realize everything and finally be Strong person

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