Is pyaar mein shak ka koi matlab nahi... - Page 2

Yet again a beautiful post.

Originally posted by: JWMRK

Hola Friends,😊

Firstly a big shout out to all those who sent PMs and welcome posts🤗...Ah the wonderful feeling of friendship...thank you thank you dost log...😃

And thank you 4 Lions for a back to back bonanza of an episode😃...this is the real Jhalak Dikhlaja for me at least LOL😆😆...the beginning scenes...the flashback😊😍

But the thank you ends there😆😆...as I am back in my practical, logical mode after the moony eyed glasses I was wearing since 8PM India time yesterday😆😆...Here is why😊

Unhone humein sach saabit karne ka mauka bhi nahi diya!!

I mean really Khushi?😲😲...unless you are part of a different story and we are watching a different serial, pray tell me when did he not give you a chance at the airport?...He turned around not once but twice to hear you out...isn't it? And me thinks he would have turned once again had that man not tapped on his shoulder.😳

Infact the pain in his voice when no one came to the airport as you claimed and therefore his fears that you were once again upto some games was so palpable it seared though our screens.😭

Just as the gentle, loving, real, sincere, genuine yet extremely emotional "I love You" he said yesterday.😊😳 Did you forget how he said it😊.....I didn't Khushi, coz it felt like someone I love whisper those three very important, soulful , emotional words to me...which would have meant me my life.😳

Did you forget what he said before that...he sensed you were crying and comforted you...😳

Frankly Khushi, so long as Barun plays ASR...one does not even need words😳...I love you and you are my life is writen in his liquid, lively, soulful eyes.😳

Darling Khushi, if you also doubt him, when he this real...then what is the farak between him and you and Chacha Choudhary or Manorama Bhaand.😳😆😆

And why are you so bothered now...coz yesterday when Mami, Nani, Anjali and me were panicking that he is not on a flight to the land of the Red Buses, Prince and Princess and Falling Bridge😆😆...you were clearly not in an absolute panic mode.😳 ...Yes I agree you were tentative, disturbed but not besides yourself😳...something any of us would be had our family member not reached a destination he was supposed to reach.

Khushi...love is found once in life...hopefully twice...but when love tells you in a sincere real pained voiced...you don't call it fake.😳

But why I am telling you this...you are Khushi after all...Star Plus's lead heroine...a woman, ...so unlike Arnav.,..I cannot tell you anything ...I must tell your writers...🤣🤣🤣

So 4 Lions....there has to be better scripting and execution here😳...

You could have shown Khushi sensing trouble, but without doubting that he did not mean it. She could have still doubted the sequence, for example she could have thought that the sms ASR sent does not corroborate with what he told Anjali, or that Aman too did not know, or that she too wants to tell him I love you, is not able to reach him '.and then doubts that he is again missing or in some danger

To me her doubting whether he meant it just did not jell well,😳 after the "faraq padta hai" flashbacks...and the dream sequence...the minute she said that he will not say it unless he is troubled...it felt like a deflated balloon

Please show us some monologue or sequences where Khushi has indeed understood and accepted that Arnav loves her...Please show us an equally pining in love Khushi.😳

Please...its time to consolidate their love story...not a silly misunderstanding or doubt or shak yet again...😳...hope you understand😊😊...this is a critique of the way your scenes need to be shot as they need to convey a panic from a woman in love who wants to meet her husband😳...not a doubt😊

Meri Jodi No 1😃

Sanaya ... It was a pleasure watching you, especially your now shy now playful look in the dream sequences,...and your smile was so heartwarming...The pleasure and joy Khushi felt at hearing those 3 important words was fantastically portrayed. 👏...You looked so pretty too😃

And Sobtiji....kidaan😃...if I could reach out in the screen and bash a few goons I would😆😆... Absolutely pitch perfect anguish, the struggle to be free and reach the cellphone, the breathlessness, the slow sinking to being worn out...each expression very well portrayed...absolutely wonderful act.👏

And did I not tell you Barun to insure your eyes😳...Warm Brown Liquid Chocolate...insure please.😳

PS: Dost log, if you may allow me some serious sensible talk and not my usual gibbersh...because I care😊

As I am typing this I am watching Arnab Goswami of Times Now, an Indian news channel leading a debate discussing the recent events of yesterday and this evening...if you are in India you would know the recent alarming events are the Indian Rupee has fallen to a disturbing low of 55.46 odd against the 1 USD and that the petrol prices are being hiked tonite i.e. midnight by Rs 7.50. You can guess what will follow, inflation (especially food) will shoot up even more since tomorrow and lets not talk about the prices of transport and utilities.

4 Lions I think now a lot more people will fall within the definition of "garib aadmi" in good old India.

For me this is the real alarming news than the show's TRP falling, Sanaya or Barun busy in their professional projects and missing from IPPKND, ASR missing or who is a better actor Sanaya or Barun, or who is a better character ASR or Khushi...😳...none of which matter to any of us really😳

But what may matter is a warm hug from mua ...🤗

Take care my darlings😃

JW

Hey, that was a very nice post. In fact I expected her to say atleast something over the phone and even arnav was also somewhere hopping for it, the way he didn't disconnect the call, waiting and anticipating for her to reciprocate. But... she didn't.

I actually didn't like her way of doubting his sincere confession. She rmbrd his three near confessions with "farak padta hai damn it" !! but still doubted the intensity of his feelings, strange! and here we r talking abt Khushi who very proudly admits that she thinks with her heart !!!! If she know that he is not very expressive but he still said this then it is surely a big deal.

He had given her chance or should I say chances but she didnt rmbr that. All she rmbrd was his accusation. Well she has the habit of having selective amnesia, even when arnav told her abt knowing her and shyam's truth she did not rmbr the terrace incident.

Dream sequence was good. But couldn't digest the fact abt ASR running around pools and trees. Even if he is madly in love he can't do that, that is so out of his character. I know serials and dreams can be logic defying but seriously khushi that is too much of an expectation.

Now performance, very nice. Arnav was very precise with his expressions, from struggling to get the cell to collapsing. Khushi was also good. and let's not get into the comparison mode, it makes the things unnecessarily messy.

Originally posted by: RuchaMulay

Hey JW,

Welcome back.

I normally agree with your logic but today I would disagree with your POV about Khushi relating Arnav's ILU to his being in trouble...

And in fact after the flashbacks that she had her doubt made even more sense to me.

Through the FBs she remembered that Arnav has been in love for a long time, in her memory, right from Diwali, but never managed to say ILU, something always stopped him. the words never came to him easily...

All three flashbacks were where he almost said it and then he didn't... 2 times verbally and once through action.

The Diwali almost kiss happened even before she decided to get engaged to Shyam in fact after the kiss Arnav pulled himself back so ruthlessly that he announcd his own enagagement to La and berated Khushi be a gold digger for NO REASON...

The time when she declared her enagegment, he did not know who she was engaged to, he himself was engaged but as we know that never mattered to him. So he again in anger almost said it still did not say...

At the accident time their awareness of each other was very high. They were getting pretty romantic and dovey, still this guy stopped short.

She remembers him having such difficulty in declaring love, EVEN WHEN SHYAM WAS NOWHERE IN PICTURE FOR ARNAV'S MIND

Of course the flashbacks she had were connected to the ILU. But when she was in the shock of being loved and went all dreamy, their signicance was different. It reminded her that Arnav has loved her for a long time now...

And when that dream was shattered with the harsh reality of no arnav around, she was brutally reminded of the time when he said why he married her and accused her being characterleass. She was reminded of despite knowing and loving for a long time this very man mistrusted her and never really believed her. And waiting for a PROOF with a deadline of 10 minutes is not GIVING a chance JW, that's just an excuse...

And KHUSHI DOESN'T KNOW THAT HE WAS COMING BACK TO HER, LEAVING THE FLIGHT, IT'S OUR PRIVILLEGE AS VIEWERS. So it's obvious in her POV that he never gave her chance. She is also saying this for the chance that he never gave her before marrying her.

Don't think she is doubting the reality or sincerity of his ILU. No. But connecting all the dots it IS logical thinking from Khushi that now is not the time and the way that he would declare his love.

And let's face it, he would not!

Didn't we phangurls conclude the same from the ILU promo? The way Arnav says it, his surroundings, expressions, his physical condition everything says that he is in danger and is desparate to let her know that he loves her, he is thinking that he is dying man and the last thing he said to Khushi, he wants it to be ILU. Finally he has come to terms with his own words as Ranjha etc. etc. etc. etc. and what not!!!!

So now just because Khushi thinks so, we don't like it? We want her to take his love with both hands and be happy? We want to her to reciprocate the words? Well she did that! She was overwhelmed with the love he declared and dreamt a very philmy Khushi-like dream too. But boss, she's using her grey matter and using it well, this is the way she's going to rescue OUR arnav as people kept her urging to in the LU thread yesterday, calling her a tubelight for dreaming first and then connecting the dots!

Seriously what else is this girl supposed to do? I found her logic very sound and very endearing. She nailed his condition. That unless he is in danger, he would not declare his love so EASILY. That's perfectly sound reasoning. I could not blame her! No way!

OK now I am done with this angle. huff!

I strongly echo you 17 times (remember reading it somewhere in school books that's the max no. of echos you can get naturally... may be I am wrong whatever...) about Arnav's relief on face after the ILU. he was exceptional today and really looked like a normal episode (as in Barun not missing from sets and being able to shoot long hours😆). Everything else was supernormal. Loved Khushi in the dream. Loved Khushi out of it. Simply loved Khushi yesterday!

Again I agree that hiding everything like this from the family is not a good idea, but then how can the CV's strengthen Arnav's love and trust if Khushi does not save him sole handedly? So yeh secrets toh chalte rahenge. I am against them, but yahaa meri kaun sunta hai????😆

There. All Done. Did I become agressive? just my passion for the show! Nothing personal! Great Post. Thought provoking and inspiring discussions!

Originally posted by: cutebarun

Lovd your post dear, as usual...! I hav no prblms with the dream scene/ confession as its debated all over the forum. I wud love to get a view frm u, abt Kushi hiding Arnav's absence frm Akash..! With Anjali its understandable. Bt, as kushi feels Arnav's life is in danger, shudnt she seek Akash's help. They both can stil hide it frm d family. Is there a twist coming up with Akash..? If n when the kidnapping truth comes out, it may end the MU frm Arnav's part. Bt, wil Anjali, nani etc can take it d same way..? I mean, Nani has been so supportiv of Kushi. Shudnt she show some confidence in Nani. Or is it that Arnav Mistrusted Kushi bcz of situations, bt Kushi doesnt trust any1 other than herself? I'm bad at analysing, so can be completly wrong.

Originally posted by: AstuteASR

Yet again a beautiful post.

I spilt in laughter reading the term Manorma Bhaand coz Bhaand has a different meaning than Bond...its

I dont understand why cant the CVs keep consistency in Khushi character. Who can doubt those 3 words soaked in pain. Thewords themselves had soul..

But what I dont understand is what made ASR say those magical words.

and what should I say about Barun..no doubt I love this character ASR. but its because of Barun, his eyes speak volumes.

I want to share this amazing thing with you. Yesterday I happened to be home (generally I am in office) when the show was telecasted at 8:00 PM and my hubby was packing for his travel( he doesnt follow any serial leave apart IPKKND). I was busy watching the show (thats my me time..no-one is allowed to disturb me..not even my husband) and making my ooohs and aaahs sounds... He suddetly stop in his tracks when he heard Shyam telling Anjali not to worry since Arnav now called ...and THEN my hubby abused Shyam and I was like "what the" . then he again said "stupid" when Khushi doubted Arnav (and he wasnt watching the show). I realized how he connects to everything related to me directly and indirectly and how much he loved me. I keep giving him updates and always felt he just listens to it and doesnt pay any attention.

So I had my learning reinforced...dont doubt your partner ever. Love is about 100% faith. An ounce less and the relationship starts falling out.