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Posted: 13 years ago
#21
totally agree with you!

I'll just add he has stood up for Khushi during 'muh dikhayee' when the neighborhood ladies were insulting her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#22
agree .he never misbehaved with her family and what he did with khushi its a different case ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly! This is what his ideals are. He knows the importance of marriage, (Anjali's wedding). He respects relations, just doesn't know to deal with all the formalities involved!
I'm sure Khushi might question him this time, about why the double standards..and we might see an outburst from him...but just partly... this is not gonna happen so soon, as we are in for something else..(the new promo)
But yes, under normal circumstances he would have given her the due respect and love. See, he still respects Payal, Buaji and Garima and Shashi as well..It's just that he is still under the impression that Khushi and Shyam have something going on between them!
And then today he has got the 2nd proof as such about Khushi and Shyam! And this is pretty bad for Khushi's part. I mean, a girl normally keeps even gift wrapper from a person she loves! 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mashira

absolutely. why is this so difficult to understand? For ASR family and respect is above everything.. that has been made amply clear. His marraige and his treatment of Khushi, according to his POV does not come under this gamut. He feels she deserves what she is getting. Isnt that what the MU is all about! and still people think it is a joke if ASR says such things. The joke is on them that they are unable to understand the many layers of this man.

you know understanding ASR takes a hell of amount of analysis. people want to think he is black and some white. But he is definitely grey. but given the right circumstance he moves to white. In khushi's case, unfortunately for her, he moves to black beause of what he believes. but he is not like that n real
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Delicious_BS-

thats what i am trying to say but you know what Rima the reason i am not saying it is because i will be called anti-feminist and crazy stupid ASR fan who supports no matter what he does but we need to understand taht he thinks that she is having affair with Shyam and its not a normal marriage for him anyway.. so may be and i am sure he will give her the deserved respect once everything will be alright.. he respects her family but i am sure that he wont respect that girl who is trying to ruin his sister's marriage even if she is his wife will he? its us who know the truth but he doesnt!



guys ASr is nice its his anger that's overpowering him nw..once he knows the truth..he will love khushi out of passion..when a human being is angry genearlly he doesn nt what to do..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post rima!!! 1st i was shocked is this ASR????..Normally he respect Khushi & her family...He is the one who brought Payal to his house.. Its natural boz in his pov khushi has an affair with shyam and making his sis life hell...Anyone ll behave like him only !!! He is the type to respect his wife & her family.. still he respects his wife family not her..Once Mu cleared we ll see this type of ASR
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

...Well about respecting wife and her family.

You see this is not a normal marriage for him.
The intention of th marriage is to punish and hate.
Perhaps in normal circumstance and in normal times, he would not have disrespected Khushi or her family.
Remember he was contemplating marriage to her.
Perhaps he did mean it.
But somehow he never gives the sweet Khushi the same because the marriage is not what or how he wanted it.
Perhaps when things are cleared, we will see this side of ASR which respects and worships his wife?

Exactly Rima.
Anyway I feel he is pretty decent with Khushi (not talking about the forced marriage here) given that he feels Khushi ACTUALLY HAVE AN AFFAIR with his brother in law Shyam and he also believes that Khushi actually asked Shyam to leave Anji his PRECIOUS DI.
Today when he saw that Gift wrap he was actually burning with jealousy. He was hurting because it reminded him that Khushi DOES NOT love him. He was going to tell her the truth but as usual the Cvs sent Garimaji to intervene,
If we look at it this way he is behaving very nice to her ,even tolerating all her antics without creating any problem .
As far as His behaviour with her family members is concerned he is very polite with them but I am not going there since some people might argue that he is polite because the Guptas are also related to Payal.


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Posted: 13 years ago
#28
I dont think his intentions were to cause pain and hurt to khushi..he married her coz that seemed to be apt solution to save two lives at that time..and even in this sham marriage..I have never seen him disrespecting guptas at any point...yes he does hurt khushi but thats only when he is reminded of terrace scene..otherwise he has been much calmer till now... he will start respecting khushi more when MU clears and he accepts her as his wife from heart...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#29
He does respect her family.. And about respecting her, he is just angry at her so respect at this point is so out of question.. Hopefully we can see the respect after all the MU's get cleared... 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
#30
Thanks for this post :) And well said!!
finally a decent post about what Arnav had said about respect and all.

And if you see, he does respect them, he never badmouthed the Gupta's/Payal. It was him who was part of the patchup with Payal and Akash.
And about Khushi, he loved her before their contract marriage. isn't that a type of respect?
Edited by Shanak_Rock - 13 years ago

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