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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jessicad

Thank God for sensible people like you on this forum!

You have my respect! 👍🏼

Aww! You're so sweet! 🤗 Thank you!
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Posted: 13 years ago
Hmmm... for the most part I don't agree with you, but on some parts I do... this is why..

Originally posted by: ---Pari---

Arrghh!!! I can't tell you how frustrated I feel right now!!!! I don't even know how to begin this post... uff... I'm fuming!!!! Firstly, let me say that we have ALWAYS differenciated between Arnav and Khushi. Whatever you might say, there are many members here who do not treat them both equally. And this is really aggravating for someone like me, who DOES love them both the same!

You're correct in some sense, we do sometimes love one character more than the other, but that is simply dependent on their actions.. For example, whenever Arnav was bad to Khushi, everyone hated it, but when Khushi did something bad/insensitive such as making a joke about his diabetes, we disliked her for it too. Basically what i'm saying is that if Khushi's being bad we won't like it, and the same applies for Arnav...

You guys are getting so angry na, that Khushi called him a cheat?! Why SHOULDN'T she call him a cheat?! This whole thing was a lie anyways! Arnav was just ACTING right?! And besides, the whole competition was unfair. The participants of the competition had to be saas-bahu, which ArHi were (obviously) not!
So why the heck is it so wrong that she called him a cheat?! Was it because she did it in front of everyone?! Well, Arnav has given her her share of embarrassements too. For example, he aired the video of her falling into his arms in order to defame her. But we never said anything at that time. Why? Because, of course, it was good looking mr. raizada!
I think the way she said it is what shocked people, if she had said it in a sad tone I don't think there would be such an uproar.. Besides, it's not like Arnav chose to go on stage for his own gain, he did it for her, and she too participated, so if he cheated in the competition, so did she...
He made her stay at a broken guest house as a punishment where she very nearly died. What did we do?! We drooled over the rabba ve moment afterward, thinking, "Awww... how romantic! He SAVED her!" Haan haan, bada ehsaan kiya usse bachaakar.
He didn't know the condition of the place was so bad, yes he wanted to annoy her, but he didn't mean to hurt her and even then fans on this forum were against him, for making her go through such an ordeal, as we felt for her.. And even though we loved the rabba ve moment, (it's hard not to like it, since their chemistry is so great), we didn't forget that he hurt her, even if it was somewhat unintentional.. I'm not sure if you read the posts then, but most people said khushi should leave ASR's company because she shouldn't take such treatment from him..
And the biggest thing of all. He got MARRIED TO HER forcefully. He left her to deal with the family members all on her own. Her maika people disowned her. Payal hated her. The rest of the RM didn't want to see her face. And the poor girl had to suffer because of all that.
It was a mistake that he forced her into marriage, but you can hardly blame Arnav for her family hating her, he can't control their emotions.. They have been with her all their lives yet they didn't even think for one second, why did she take such an action they just hated her... And she is too blame too, as she could've told them the truth that she was blackmailed.

Ab ek lafz kya moo se nikal gayya, ke Arnav dhokebaaz hai, everyone is just going overboard?!
Heck, Arnav's ego is so big that he can't even confess his feelings to the girl he loves!!! He doesn't have an IOTA of trust in her... I don't even know what to say anymore.
This part I really don't agree with. It's not Arnav's ego that is making him stop from confessing his love, it's because he thinks she is in love with someone else, and he believes she betrayed him. Would you tell someone you love them if you believe they have such a low character and they're already in love with someone else? No, right, so how can he. He hates himself for loving her, but I don't think it's his ego. Plus that day he saw her on the terrace with Shyam he was going to confess his feelings anyway, so if ego never stopped him before, why would it stop him now?

He told her that he doesn't want to give her any credit for bringing his voice back. But did we have any complaints about that?! No... of course not! Why would we?! He's Arnav Singh Raizada after all!
A lot of people did dislike him for that actually, there are posts on the forum regarding it..

So my point is, why are we getting so angry at Khushi anyways?! Was Khushi at fault? Maybe yes. But was she the ONLY one at fault?! Definately NOT!
I agree with this part, she's not the only one at fault, they're both at fault..

ughh... sorry if it sounded rough... I had to get it out of my system.
And as you guys probably already know, I love this forum, I love SaRun, I love ArHi. So please don't bother telling me to leave the forum or whatnot. Thanks in advance.
I actually think it's good you're so passionate about IPKKND... But i think even though you say you love them both equally, your post didn't actually look at both sides of the story.. But that's just my opinion..




And lastly, where have you been the last month or so?😆 How did you miss the Arnav bashing that was going on in this forum? Seriously there have been so many anti-Arnav posts, that I was going mad reading them, i'm actually shocked people have found something bad to say about Khushi😆


P.S. no offence to you but people always have a favourite character, and if they're both leads, i find that people are more drawn to the one that is more interesting to them, not necessarily the one they think is a better person.. For example, many people on here prefer Arnav to Akash, simply because Arnav is more interesting even though Akash is portrayed as a nicer person.. So similarly just because Arnav is being bad, doesn't mean people will dislike him, and just because Khushi is being good doesn't mean people will like her more than Arnav.. It's all to do with preference...

Edited by shazna123 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jalkukdi1

Mine tooo I love Khushi more than ASR

I think everyone loves Khushi more than ASR. It's just Barun's looks that make people FIDA over him... otherwise, a guy who has no consideration for others... I'm sorry... i just can't see how people can like him...
Now barun... is an entirely different story...😉 and I LOOOVVVEEE him!
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Posted: 13 years ago
Thank you dear this was perfect post...i loved and i totally agree with you. and one more think they're just pricing Arrnav/Baruns act only not Khushi/Sanaya, and that's is not fair at all. i love them both any ways and i think they both did great job there. so keep up the geart job u too for posting this 👍🏼 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
well baby, you make so much sense it is only natural ... ASR has been playing Ping Pong with Khushi's mind, her emotions and her feelings without a conclusive answer ... He neither knows if he loves her nor does he totally hate her ...
dont forget most people here are women, and getting attracted to ASR and justifying his actions s the most natural reaction.. dont we all do that with the ones we love ? we tend to forgive them a lot more easily .. but that doesn't mean they are not wrong ... I hope with time Arnav realises he cant hold someone else's feelings at ransom and tells Khushi atleast why he is doing this with her... I mean I think she deserves that much atleast .. if not anything 😃😉

Originally posted by: ---Pari---

Oye hoyeee! tu online hai!!!? Balle balleee!!!!! wohooo!!!! For the first time one of my posts got this much debate and discussion! 😆 I think I pulled a sensitive string in some people's hearts!😳

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ~Saraa~

Agreed.

He totally deserves to be called a cheat. Let alone forcing Khushi into the marriage, he doesn't even feel the need of telling her why he had to marry her. I mean dude, you marry someone, atleast have the decency of telling them the reason.

He has done enough to mentally torture her, it's time for him.


And please, nobody call me a basher or hater. I am a tru ArHi supporter.

This is in support to your post...if ASR had told her why he married her...I am for sure the way Khushi is she would not have fought or said he is wrong but would have fought tooth and nail showered all her love to him and would defeat him with love to bring back the trust he has lost in her...thats how our Khushi is...
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Posted: 13 years ago
thanks ... agreee wid u...👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
actually ur right sanju...nice post ha...
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Posted: 13 years ago
thank u 4 the translate😊 ...now i get wot u meant im agree with u 100%...ppl semms 2 forget if u love some1 u have u treat her or him with respect...Arnav has 2 treat her as a wife if we want khushi 2 treat him like a husbend its so simple really...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: shazna123

Hmmm... for the most part I don't agree with you, but on some parts I do... this is why..




And lastly, where have you been the last month or so?😆 How did you miss the Arnav bashing that was going on in this forum? Seriously there have been so many anti-Arnav posts, that I was going mad reading them, i'm actually shocked people have found something bad to say about Khushi😆



😆reply kar kar ke haath me dard ho raha hai yaar, so I'll just sum it up!
People were hating on ASR?😲 Now that comes as a shock to me. Everywhere I go, all I see is, "OMG... he looked so hot..." "Omg... did u notice him in this scene? his eyes were so intense!!!" I see nothing about Arnav. And honestly speaking, I DO love both the characters equally. But I never said I agreed with them... Without Arnav, Khushi is nothing. And likewise, without Khushi, Arnav is nothing. Arnav and Khushi create magic when they are together. And for the most part, I do agree with Khushi more. Maybe because I can relate to her. But that doesn't mean I'm against ASR. In fact, I really really love him and I feel sorry for him. I feel sorry about what happened to him in the past. But you know what? That's life. You get over things and you look at the positive side of life. And all I'm saying is, it shouldn't be that big of a deal that Khushi called him a cheat when Arnav has already hurt her so much. Cheat is a small word actually. But had Arnav been a genuine person, who had never spoken badly about Khushi, and then had she called him a cheat, I would have gotten equally angry at her. But the thing is, I think her anger was completely justified. Had I been in her place, maybe I would have done the same!
And as far as confessing goes... ok, don't confess... but can we please stop this hurting game...? Why can't he discuss what he saw on the terrace with her?! Why can't he ask her about it? See, I'm not saying that Khushi is perfect. Because to be perfectly honest, she is far from perfect. But so is Arnav. But the problem is, I find that people are treating Arnav as if he's some sort of God, and then Khushi... as if she's an embarrassement to society... It's saddening... and I wish they were thought of as equals. I wish people would stop this game of, "tu tu main main" to realize that ArHi magic is created only with the imperfections of both characters.

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