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Posted: 13 years ago
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i wonder y i m viewing many posts telling khushi wrong.

what i think is that at the moment ASR deserves this as khuhsi has suffer more than him. she slept for the first day without even blanket. He should also bear the pain atleast for some time to realize what she has been going through.

1. He slept out side????????

its ok she slept outside for many days.
2. He felt hurt when she slept outisde but she didn't????
He felt hurt but he didn't let her in, instead he threw a blanket on her like a beggar n not let her in. so its ok if she didn't feel the way he felt on that night as there is no use of feeling what you are not taking care off.
3. She didn't care for the sprain in his neck????
No problem, he also didn't bother many times, when her bangle broke in car with the sudden and quick break, he didn't bother.
4. She is not bothering to ask about the marriage problem from him????
she has been asking so many times and he has not been answering.
5. she is not bothering to get rid of shayam and thinking about bother her husband????
she is worried about shayam but yet i also think that she should inform some one atleast payal, about bothering her husband she justifies coz he bothered and troubled her more than this.
6. she doesn't think about her husband so i feel she doesn't love him?
she has been thinking but being a practical person how many times you can prepare yourself to be insulted more and let yourself down if some one is telling that he hates you? finally you will also control yourself and try to get yourself out of this feeling, get successful or not is another story.


not in mood of writing any more, as a whole the societies are male dominating because of the females only as the girls / women / society of sub continent support male no matter if he is good bad, respect or don't respect, love or hate, in every way the male is always right. and the REASON are the females themselves. Y males are not blame for any thing if they are 1000% wrong we consider them 100000000000000% right but if a girl is 10% wrong we will say she is 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% wrong.

PS: i know most of the people might not agree but its better to close the post instead of fighting here. i just narrated my point of view you might be disliking or being disagree as i have seen on forums the same thing male is always right, this is my 2nd forum and i have seen 95-99% female is considered wrong here. NO BASHING on any CHARACTER.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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bang on. very good posts. guys please like and comment.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually we are used to saas bahu dramas so much that we always expect female should show concern and male sud torture, that's why. I ask people to go and sleep on the floor for one month, and then you will never blame Khushi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

bang on. very good posts. guys please like and comment.


thank you rima, i think our societies are built up in such a way that v consider male is always right no matter what ever he do, he is always sweet, caring and handsome...Full stop.

i was not expecting more comments and likes while making it as its not in the praise of ASR😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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You guys are getting the wrong impression.. Let me clear it.. Before you throw chappals at me, hear me out fully.. I am also one of the people who was vehemently against Khushi sleeping in the cold.. And I still am.. What ASR did with her was completely wrong, and he deserves to suffer.. But what I am trying to say is, it is Khushi's character to care for everyone around her.. No one is blaming her for not bothering about Arnav's neck or his sleeping by the pool.. He deserved it for what he did to her.. All I am saying is, even though Khushi is angry with him, her heart still beats for him and she melts at his pain.. Remember how she freaked when she figured he might be taking the wrong medication? She even forgot about Payal.. And that was instinctive, she did not for a moment remember their differences.. But now, she was smirking when she saw him spraining, just the next day.. It was not consistent with her character, and Khushi would never have reacted that way.. I am just trying to convey that the CVs messed up the portrayal and it is not in sync with the Khushi we know.. Khushi is not that kind of person, who will revel in others' physical pain.. Please try to understand the point conveyed here, I am not blaming her or saying what she did was wrong, there is a difference.. All I am saying is, Khushi is such a delicate person that she would never react this way, apathetic to someone else's pain.. In fact, we are upholding her character here and not berating her.. She is more sensitive and on a higher moral ground than Arnav.. I know she is trying to annoy him, but even in that case, her feelings for him and her general tendency to help others would have come bursting to the fore in a situation like this.. I hope you people understand this.. Now you are free to throw chappals at me 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I totally agree with you.

All the people who are saying Khushi is wrong, have you thought what situation she is in... Put yourself in her shoes. She is constantly under the same roof with the creep who manages to create situations when she and him are all alone. So far, one way or other she has managed to escape. How long before her luck runs out? Would you like to stay in a house where the creep lives and tries to touch you or try to be alone with you? But she can't leave because then Payal will be leaving with her (or that's what she thinks ASR will do). So I beg your pardon if she is not acting all lovey dovey with ASR. She has more important things to worry about.

As far as she knows, Arnav hates her, so it's useless talking to him, she finally managed to win the household... but they will take side with whoever Anjali will take side with and she is the only one who has seen how Shyam manipulates Anjali, Payal and Akash... let's face it... spineless idiots... one bark from mamiji and they will be doing hello hi to Shyam and bye bye to Khushi. So she is on her own and she needs to save herself and get out from there asap. If I was in her place, I would have done the same.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sakura123

Actually we are used to saas bahu dramas so much that we always expect female should show concern and male sud torture, that's why. I ask people to go and sleep on the floor for one month, and then you will never blame Khushi.


agree that people are use to of saas bahu type and the sufferer girl in routine life as well so they expect every one to just be submissive and surrender.

about sleeping on floor is not a bad thing if you have a habit of it. but of course if the husband is sleeping in room and throwing wife out in cold to sleep on floor i'll be condemning for sure.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovekkg

You guys are getting the wrong impression.. Let me clear it.. Before you throw chappals at me, hear me out fully.. I am also one of the people who was vehemently against Khushi sleeping in the cold.. And I still am.. What ASR did with her was completely wrong, and he deserves to suffer.. But what I am trying to say is, it is Khushi's character to care for everyone around her.. No one is blaming her for not bothering about Arnav's neck or his sleeping by the pool.. He deserved it for what he did to her.. All I am saying is, even though Khushi is angry with him, her heart still beats for him and she melts at his pain.. Remember how she freaked when she figured he might be taking the wrong medication? She even forgot about Payal.. And that was instinctive, she did not for a moment remember their differences.. But now, she was smirking when she saw him spraining, just the next day.. It was not consistent with her character, and Khushi would never have reacted that way.. I am just trying to convey that the CVs messed up the portrayal and it is not in sync with the Khushi we know.. Khushi is not that kind of person, who will revel in others' physical pain.. Please try to understand the point conveyed here, I am not blaming her or saying what she did was wrong, there is a difference.. All I am saying is, Khushi is such a delicate person that she would never react this way, apathetic to someone else's pain.. In fact, we are upholding her character here and not berating her.. She is more sensitive and on a higher moral ground than Arnav.. I know she is trying to annoy him, but even in that case, her feelings for him and her general tendency to help others would have come bursting to the fore in a situation like this.. I hope you people understand this.. Now you are free to throw chappals at me 😆


First of all i don't throw chappal or any thing as i don't like doing so.

difference in opinion is natural and you have a right of it. i didn't mind watching show but when i visited forum there are number of posts condemning khsuhi and appreciating ASR🥱 and that was the result of 2 almost same types of posts the 2nd one is this

MIGHT/BEAUTY IS ALWAYS RIGHT: Rule of the world???

some times in our real life v r also out of character and do what we were not planning to do and what we are not use to of doing when we have our mind diverted towards some other thought or direction. if you just say its out of her nature is a different thing but if you start bashing her totally that's a different thing. thanks for taking out ur time for reading and replying here most of the posts are even not replied and liked if not praising ASR. i wrote in general at the end, my first forum was peyk and the 2nd one is this, what i concluded by both forums that like our society male is always right here.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

I totally agree with you.


All the people who are saying Khushi is wrong, have you thought what situation she is in... Put yourself in her shoes. She is constantly under the same roof with the creep who manages to create situations when she and him are all alone. So far, one way or other she has managed to escape. How long before her luck runs out? Would you like to stay in a house where the creep lives and tries to touch you or try to be alone with you? But she can't leave because then Payal will be leaving with her (or that's what she thinks ASR will do). So I beg your pardon if she is not acting all lovey dovey with ASR. She has more important things to worry about.

As far as she knows, Arnav hates her, so it's useless talking to him, she finally managed to win the household... but they will take side with whoever Anjali will take side with and she is the only one who has seen how Shyam manipulates Anjali, Payal and Akash... let's face it... spineless idiots... one bark from mamiji and they will be doing hello hi to Shyam and bye bye to Khushi. So she is on her own and she needs to save herself and get out from there asap. If I was in her place, I would have done the same.


but you see here is an objection y she is not thinking to get rid of shayam and irritating her husband? infact she is trying both by annoying ASR as she thinks he will through her out of house as he has thrown her out of the room at first night so she will be getting rid from both of them

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