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indiradc

@indiradc

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

@Sucheta2012: Thanks fo the reply. Yes, healthy discussions are a must... this is not a forum to please anyone... critical analysis is always good for serials or characters...

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Ritu

@.khanak.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

To all.. Who are bashing Ipkknd and our Arnav... Just answer my question... "If you cant handle bit of pain why did you watch it? It is a Love-Hate story... Even the theme confirms this"Nafrat Pass aane na de,Mohabbat door jaane na de"

I understand what Arnav did..he wanted to be alone,he couldnt see his sisters tears anymore so thats why he left but he forgot that he is not alone now..I am sure that in the next epi Arnav will go back to Khushi.

And we are not the "ASR-FAN CLUB" we are ArSHis fan club and you cant decide who is respectable woman or not.

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Sucheta2012

@Sucheta2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: indiradc
@Sucheta2012: Thanks fo the reply. Yes, healthy discussions are a must... this is not a forum to please anyone... critical analysis is always good for serials or characters...

You are most welcome. Absolutely we are not here to please anybody...CVs should also get some unbiased feedback. We pay for watching these channels, at least I do. If they dish out stories that are abusive and humiliating to a particular gender, we have every right to point it out. This gives wrong messages to youngsters of impressionable age, that men can get away with their mistakes, and women are vulnerable, so should be taken for granted, and then in the end it is the women who must forgive.

I do not know in what light they will show Khushi in the future, but if she is to forgive ASR easily, then I am not watching anymore. This guy should know that he has committed a grave mistake and truly suffer and atone for it. In real world, we all pay the prices of mistakes we make, be it studies, work or human relationships.

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merrydock

@merrydock

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

DITO, he difinitely should not have left Khushi ther all by her self. ASR played chicken today. i hope the CV's give him a chance to redeam himself.

he obviously is not going to give khushi any explanation for the marriage. and if he thinks she has done something worng then he should punish her by himself, not leave her at the mercy of his family and her family.

becareful Arnav you may not want khushi now, thinking she is a home breaker, but what will you do when you find out the truth. and you lose the most precious thing in the world for you. and you'v got only 6 months to see the light.

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Raj Singh

@sammi5

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: indiradc
To all those who have got the "respectable" word in the wrong light:
Do not make a literal meaning of it ... anyone, including all of you who love the characters... has hated the fact I am sure that ASR dumped Khushi and left the field... why? Because Khushi's "respect" was at stake... and we audience felt it, cried with her...or whatever... becuas we knew that the "respect" factor that Khushi had inculcated so long among the Guptas and the Raizadas was lost due to one man... ASR... hence no women who undersands how difficult it is to build a name -- "respect"-- whether in the profesional or personal domain -- will support ASR. Yes, I understand that it's a fiction and etc... but don't you think we should stop degrading women just to give audience the spice... ??? And my dear, anyone is free to pour out their feelings... it's a healthy discussion... so... don't take the "respect" word to your heart... Hope to see (as you all said) how Khush bounces back and makes us (and ASR and the Guptas and the Raizadas) proud...

You could not have said it more honest, I have to agree with you, in spite of the fact that it is a fiction, no one is disillusional we know this, I understood your heading, no one can justify why ASR walked out on Khushi and left her to defend herself, we all know the misunderstanding that this marriage is based on, He knows why, so if the purpose for this is to protect Angali, his action is not saying that with Shyam looking on in the background, there is a borderline to anger, yes he is crying in the room, the ASR we know would handle the situation and take her to the room and let his fury on her but behind closed doors, that is the point I got from your post, he left her to face the Family alone, maybe if members can engage in the discussion without the personal attack, the conversation can go on. Stand firm to your conviction, your points and view is respected, I respect it.

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indiradc

@indiradc

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@Sucheta2012: Yes, you saidt right: indeed if stories are abusive and humiliating to a particular gender, it may "give wrong message to youngsters of impressionable age, that men can get away with their mistakes, and women are vulnerable, so should be taken for granted, and then in the end it is the women who must forgive."

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Maira

@MairaKhan1180

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

I agree with you, I was like where the heck is he? He should have been there!

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LoLo

@LoLo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: geetmaanluv
there has been a lot of foreshowing in the show abt khushi leaving arnav when he realizes. today is gonna be the reason y. today the worst thing he did was not walk away from her ... bec her family has always attacked an blackmailed her.

the worst thing he did was make a mockery of marriage and what it means. when he realizes the meaning of this bond that he shares with khushi... khushi will be the one to walk out without an explanation. and would be totally justified. arnav need to learn abt the importance of marriage and the responsibilities of a husband. which as of now he doesn't know. that is y he abandoned his wife... as a respectable women i was proud of khushi and now will support her when she walks away from him.

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and please dont forget ... arnav has a huge misunderstanding abt khushi. he thinks she is in choots wih his BIL. not that it justifies his wrong but he is not a evil person doing this for fun. he went an cried in his room not rejoice in the fact that kushi is suffering. and its a drama ... this will get them trps's

I agree with you. His mockery of marriage for a girl like Khushi was the most heinous crime. And yes I too will support Khushi when she walks away from him. And on your last point, I don't think this storyline will get the TRPs the CVs think it will. I guarantee their rating will drop. There has been a progressive drop since the Shyam hug and I know there will be more. Wait and watch. They will fix this real fast when they drop a point or two in the overall standings. I know it.

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pdbngc

@pdbngc

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Your post is so true.

I thought that he should have stood there and mentioned to everyone that no one should question Khushi. I guess if we were the script writers, we would have done that! However, it is scenes like this that makes us want to watch this awfully addictive show. LOL

My POV as to why he married Khushi...

I think he wanted her to feel the pain what he was feeling for his sister's marriage and happiness. She too had to do this to save her sister's marriage.

Their marriage of sacrifice as they buried their love for each other, for the sake of both their sisters' happiness. Ironical in some ways, as his sister is in a love-less marriage but as she is pregnant, he is still willing to save it.

Now I hope that in the 5th month of their marriage of compromise, they do sleep with each other, and when Khushi is asked to leave the Raizada mansion after 6 months of her marriage, she leaves there pregnant. I hope she does not have anything to do with him and he will have to come running to her. But will this happen ... (NEVER...LOL)