ENOUGH is ENOUGH!! everyone has a level.. - Page 7

Originally posted by: 18shabbo

i think its just the matter of how different people have different ways of being paranoid...
the basic of fiction is that if there's a lie that can be told without trying to hard to make it true...it becomes fiction...
n no ones is ever imperfect in it...
maybe we start running on these assumptions so much that we forget wat exactly was being said...
.no ones imperfect in their roles...characters assigned... n personas made personified...
it was never said that Arnav will be the "u r my sweety n i ur Joe Romeo--red rose on sunday---pink wats ur color is---baby need mineral water?---i bought u heart shape balloons from the signal---" type...
He was always a ruthless dominating magnetic n zealous Tycoon...a self made man who knew that the world survived feeding on innocence...he has a dark history which makes him cynical...the man has suffered...has been beated thrashed sprinted n thrown to remorseful hyenas...
He was perfect...but the imperfection was the love that entered his life...
THAT changed him...now he's more real...he's a new ASR ...one you can relate to...
think if suddenly someone brings thorough of colors to your bleak life...
wudnt you consider them as your own...u'll feel you HAVE exclusive right on them ...
I would...
n still u r in the process to learn their attributes...teaching urself to become someone or atleast something that could match their zeal ...
.but suddenly theres something all together different picture in front of you...wouldn't u be hurt...wouldn't the pain be unbearable...
n adding to it that particular moment may lead to the demise of the happiness of that one person who was always THERE...wouldn't u take steps to prevent an apocalypse...

so wats wrong with ARnav being a fictional character...or now an almost real human being trying to retain the balance of Anjali's life...
as thats wat had always being his achievement...

i personally didn't find a crooked bone in ASR in the Friday episode...
the man has CHANGED...
yes ASR is bak but Arnav isnt doing the whole " now my ALIAS will deal with all this coz im running out of shirts..."...
he's there...if ASR is fighting for Anjali then Arnav is not far behind ...holding a light for Khushi...u just have to give yourself a chance to measure him up as to wat he is...

I think the bigger problem is that the CV's have made him real now...n ppl really r not happy seeing themselves in his actions...their self inferiority is coming up coz they maybe have lost their battles easily...but someone they knew had fought them...

or maybe im over analyzing ...but i always have n will love ASR Arnav Khushi KKG...
watever u call them...even I my self never remain the same person in the morning n by the time in the afternoon i start resembling bubbles...😉

best and most sensible post from friday!! completely agree with each and every word of it!!!

thank you for posting this!! 👏👏👏👏

he's there...if ASR is fighting for Anjali then Arnav is not far behind ...holding a light for Khushi...u just have to give yourself a chance to measure him up as to wat he is...

i love the above part the most!! very sensibly said!! thank you so much again!! 👏👏

it was required that someone should see this part of the story too.. and thanks for seeing this side.. its time we start being sensible and stop thinking that the male lead of this show is not fit for the female lead of this show!!

but i always have n will love ASR Arnav Khushi KKG...

no matter what, i also love ASR arnav, KHUSHI KKG.. i know they will be a happy couple at the end!! i know!!

You said it right...

But remember 1 thing ple making nasty comments will continue dng tis... Bcoz they hve no other work other than bashing our cast... V must learn to ignore tem..

Originally posted by: Nmyra

The only thing i will add to this is. Arnav SIngh Raizada has shown compassion and depth despite his orginal trauma, KKG has shown us the meaning of smiling, despite knowing she comes second to nearly everyone, in a way smiling for these very same people...give the characters a chance to grow would you?!

excellent very very well said!! thank you!! 👏

yes all they need is a chance and am sure they will show how they can be the most beautiful couple on the show!!⭐️

Originally posted by: jerry12

You said it right...

But remember 1 thing ple making nasty comments will continue dng tis... Bcoz they hve no other work other than bashing our cast... V must learn to ignore tem..

thank you..

but how much more can we ignore them yaar? even we are human and we need to have tolerance levels.. there s only that much that i can take!! not more than that!!

Originally posted by: 18shabbo

Seriously...they havent been on air for a year n we want them to be all "i love you---u love me" always...its just building up...it'll come to its purpose soon...breathe people breathe...😉

thank you for making me laugh even when i was fully annoyed!! you are the best!! thank you!!

Originally posted by: Hessa85

i didnt really understand all your post but from what i did How have cv's made him 'real?' There is nothing realistic about the character for point 1. How are people seeing themselves in his actions? i think that most sane people would NOT treat an 18 year old girl the way asr has continuously treated khushi. his behaviour has been wrong and that is why people are repulsed and angry. star plus seems to have taken on the role of having their female heroines treated like shit. most people are not asking for a lovey dovey hero, i certainly am not. That doesnt mean i want the cliched tripe where 1 more woman is stepped and has to PROVE her innocence when she has made no mistake.

i want to ask you one question.. have you watched the show from start?? if yes, you would have seen how actually "mean" he was since the start of the show!! he supposedly made her life "hell" then..

and what happened after teri meri dance?? all that ASR-ness is gone!! it was Arnav who we saw, not ASR!! it was Arnav who fell in love with Khushi, Not ASR, it was arnav who danced, kissed and firted with Khushi..!! where were you then?? was Arnav not being the REAL man when he was doing all that?

NO the character of KHUSHI KG is not the same as other star plus "shit" serials..
she is completely different!! she is!! again same question!! did you see the show from the start?? she was the one who yelled at arnav!! she was the one who dared to question Arnav! she was the one who dared to make arnav feel wrong about himself!! that is KHUSHI KUMARI GUPTA!! give her 2 days time, and you'll see THAT 18 year old gurl again! she WILL be back!!

one more thing, the MOST sanest of people GARMIA treated KHUHSHI in the same way.. so bash Garima first and come to arnav!!

come on yaar, even she made mistakes!! she tried to hide the truth from everyone about shyam.. even arnav made the same mistakes!! does not mean Khushi is the sacrificed lamb here and Arnav is the sacrfificng lamb!! they both are humans and they make mistakes! understood?

you don't need to ask for a lovey-dovey hero, you don't need to seriously because arnav has already shown even that angle to you!! that is why!! he may change to ASR ofr the sake of his sister, but arnav exists in him!!

lastly, you din't understnad the whole post maybe becasue she summarised the whole character from the start!! she wrote the whole story!!

Originally posted by: Hessa85

@ sanjanashaikha, i dont know or care about posting on LM fanpage, i have enough friends on their i would prefer communicatiing with. But if people are criticising his work,,, so what? these people make money out of their shows,,, its only the feedback of the viewers that matters because they are the people that drive the trps. i really doubt a professional would be 'upset',,,frankly if you work in the media you should have more of a backbone because negative and positive reactions are part and parcel of the job. same with the character. ASR is NOT real, so what if people criticize his behaviour. they criticize because they see his behaviour as wrong. and as ive said before to be upset by what is wrong should be expected, that is human nature.

the characters are NOT real, but the moral message being spouted via shows like this is very real. so if people want to object about having to seeyet another story about another humiliated woman, then i see no problem.

no, its not the ffedback you think they are giving him.. they are not giving him the correct constructive feedback all they are giving him is the reason why they think the show lost its essence, why they think the male lead is not fir for the female lead and why this show shold be stooped because of abuse of physical violence!!

and its not the feedback of people that matters to him, its the eyes of the viewers on tv that matters.. trust me, he will NOT change his story for the sake of someone who gave online feedback, like nissar parvez said, he'll continue the story if HE believes in it, not if the 20 online critisizing feedback believers give him..

yes!! nothing wrong in critising a fictional character, but something definitely wrong in calling him names.. don't you think?? it is human nature to get upset for us, but its not human nature for the character of ASR to be human? how ironical?

see that is what i am telling you. the moral message he is giving is not that this show is a social evil questioning show, he never said it was ONE..its a love story..he always said it was one!!! mark that!! he did not say he'll preach anything, nor is he preaching anything.. end of story..

if you want to see another humilated woman fighting back for her standing in the society, then this is NOT the show for you..cause again this is a LOVE story and some situations will be created to make it work that way.. i am sure the audience of this story also agrees with that!!

Originally posted by: livluvbollywood

i havent really come across any arnav hating but lets put ourselves in arnav's shoes. ur sister who is like ur mother's husband is hugging the woman you love and then she tells him to leave ur sister/foster mother and break the marriage. and then u walk away. yes he should have asked her and yes he should give her chance to explain. but when the one person after a long time that u trust seems to be hurting ur family what would you do? oh i know you would probably go "its okay. i'll treat you like a princess after i think ure trying to steal my only immediate family member's husband. now lets go for a romantic date and have rabba ve playing in the background.".. really guys? i totally feel for khushi and by now if i were her i would have probably slapped arnav across the face and told him to give me an explanation. i love them both as a couple and i know everything will work out and dont forget we know both sides of the story whereas all the characters know only parts.

agree with your last line!! thats all i have to say right now!!

i feel for Khushi too.. all i am asking is don't draw comparision between shyam and arnav!!

yes, khushi did not slap arnav.. so that is arnav's fault?!?

Originally posted by: Hessa85

nd khushi isnt in danger from shyaam, she would never marry shyaam. so arnav isnt taking her out of shyaams hands. arnav just THINKS he taking the traitorous woman out of shyaams hands. also their is noway shyamm will now stop lusting after khushi just coz shes married.

do you think he KNOWS that she wouldn't marry shyam? according to him she loves him and she may marry him.. did you try seeing the story from his angle too? or maybe because you have not read most of the sensible posts that have valid arguments... just read this one :

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2793275